|
|
|
|
|
GOLDSEA |
ASIAMS.NET |
AA ADVICE NETWORK
AM in the Dark: How Do I Ask Out a Chinese Girl?
like this AF at a chinese carryout, which she and her family run. I see her on a normal basis. I've asked if she would like to eat dinner sometime. She said she said she's very busy with the carryout, but none the less she would think about. She's never mention anything about it since. She seems to always be friendly with me when we meet (positive facial expressions). I've never asked any AF out before and don't know there games or body language that they use. There is a possiblity that she moved the US from China and has chinese culture behind her (not sure).
My question:
Is there anything I should know about AF whether they came from china or US? Is there a general approach that is more receptive?
Please if some one could give me better insight I would be most appreciative.
-Baffled
P.S AIM call sign is akathepc
AM in the dark about asking an AF out.
pcooper@gmu.edu
Thursday, December 13, 2001 at 21:39:55 (PST)
This page is closed to new input.
Problems and advice posted during the past year remain available for browsing.
CONTACT US
|
ADVERTISING INFO
© 1996-2013 Asian Media Group Inc
No part of the contents of this site may be reproduced without prior written permission.
|
|
|
|
GOLDSEA |
ASIAMS.NET |
AA ADVICE NETWORK
YOUR ADVICE
Reply to Baffled,
Dude, I am no expert, but I think regardless of whether she is interested or not, there is nothing to lose in trying.
You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.
If she is Chinese, it's possible she has a tendency to be slightly more on the .....um.....conversvative side. And/or she doesn't want to be seen as hooking up with a customer in front of her parents.
Bored
smarty@aemail4u.com
Tuesday, November 19, 2002 at 22:40:22 (PST)
[203.185.246.193]
Hmmm....How do you ask a Chinese girl out? Is there any particular way to tell? Do they give out any signs that they're interested?
Its really hard to tell sometimes. I'm a Filipino guy and I like Chinese girls, even more than women of my own race. But like this guy, I understand that Chinese girls give out mixed messages and sometimes its really hard for those of us who are not Chinese to really know whats going on.
All I could say to you is if she's really interested then she will probably let you know. But then again she could be playing hard to get like most other Asain women out there. So good luck!!! HAHAHAHAHA =P
A Cute Filipino Guy Who Knows
Tuesday, August 20, 2002 at 00:19:56 (PDT)
To "Happy in Asia": You seem really "deceptive" with women in general, like you have all these "sneaky tricks" to get them to sleep with you, and then boast about it like it's a badge of honor. If you are such a "player", then you've probably hurt a lot of women, with your lies, and false promises. Do you know what you are doing? You will die an untimely death one day by one of these women. If I were you, I'd think twice about "Lim's cooking". You have been warned.
Han The Fortune Teller
Sunday, July 07, 2002 at 22:03:02 (PDT)
I am chinese! ... nicely done. heh. man, living in SF, with all the diversity you see your fare share of interracial asian/caucasian (amongst other) couples ...
but people are people, bafled, you nitwit. sure culture can play a part of many things, but not so at to translate this gal's behavior into somehow playing coy waiting for you to find the "asian respectful" way to ask her out.
honestly, being someone that has many white and asian friends, who are fairly hip and with it, it's always painful to see these kind of posts by white doods who present the issue of asian girls as some qualitatively different experienced, like a fetish or something. embarassing, is what it is.
Delerium
Saturday, May 11, 2002 at 11:51:36 (PDT)
NEWEST COMMENTS |
EARLIER COMMENTS
|