CA Female to WF on Coping with AM's Mother

I think it's kind of presumptuous for you to group his relationship as an "asian mother and child" relationship problem, although I understand that it's hard for white/black/latino people to understand AA families since the media always portrays AA mothers and their sons and daughters having such stereotypical relationships.
no. most asian women are not like those in the "joy luck club" nor are most asian men only the subserviant dutiful respectful followers of their parents wishes.
if you think it's because you are not in the same class as the AM's family, and your education is not as good, why do you bring in the race card? are there not rich white families in which parents do not want to meet their son or daughter's boyfriend/girlfriend because they think he/she is "beneath" them?? how about black families, or latino families??
why do you presume that you're boyfriend's actions are due to his race?? and if he is saying that it's because of his race/nationality-whatever~ he's hiding behind his race/nationality.
CA female

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