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WF Wanting to Approach AM
would like the AM's on your site to give advice to all the WF's who would really like to out with them some advice in how to approach them .. Do you like women who are direct or the shy coy type
(I'm somewhere in between) I'm really interested in a really hot looking guy and don't quite know how to approach him ... he did tell me he liked my body type and I felt so embarressed I blurted out I hate my body I think this hurt his feeelings (he did say this in front of his assisstant) that's why I got embarressd what should I do? should I let him make the next move! ps this is kind of hard cos he's my dentist!!!
Jazz
Thursday, January 17, 2002 at 18:28:37 (PST)
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I have always been attracted to direct and outgoing women. You won't get anywhere with the shy and coy behaviour. Send him a card or something, signal that you are interested. That should do the trick.
Personally, I've always been extremely interested in white females. The beautiful ones are absolutely stunning, and I love their outgoing and witty personalities. I've had a couple white gf's before, and though I'm not limiting myself, that is definitely where I lean towards.
Asian man
Monday, January 28, 2002 at 21:42:01 (PST)
How about making an appt at 10:30, chat with him during your visit, talk about the types of cuisine and restaurants. It's a great way to figure out if he has a girlfriend. Then mention this great place for lunch (have several places in mind just in case he does not like sushi, thai, mexican or whatever). Be enthusiastic (if you like him, this will come naturally) and DO touch him in some manner. Watch his reaction as you touch him. This can be revealing to his feeling towards you.
If he doesn't get the hint and ask you out.
1) he's clueless. Hit him over the head and drag him in your cave. Just kidding.
2) he's not interested you in that way. After all, you're his patient.
3) he prefers guys or his dog.
Good Luck!
Single on the dating scene
Monday, January 28, 2002 at 12:32:45 (PST)
Call him to follow up on a check-up. Valentine's is around the corner. You can send him a card to express your gratitude towards his service and his comment on your body type. Give him some hint.
FOP
Monday, January 28, 2002 at 11:43:17 (PST)
I prefer direct women, no need for the pretense in which the woman lets the man feel as if he is the one being the pursuer.
I encourage you to be bold. No matter what response the guy displays, on the inside he is probably pretty damn pleased.
Asian guy
Monday, January 28, 2002 at 07:04:14 (PST)
Go flirt with him... Take initiative!!! Im a Asian male and I love it when white chicks are nice to me and straightforward... That's my two!!!
Go for it!!!
Monday, January 28, 2002 at 07:03:33 (PST)
Well frankly I can only give you on what I deem attractive. I find women who are pure in heart, and beautiful of course the most attractive. My advice to you is. Dont be agressive let him approach you. Personally that really just enhances your integrity standing in men's eyes. When a guy really likes a girl. He will respect her very much. I have to admit it though, many asian men are very shy and do not show their feelings. Dont worry about signs, your body will automatically take care of that on a very subtle body language that everyone does understand. If after a while you think that he is attracted to you,then go have a nice chat with him. That will definatley tell if he is interested or not.
-good luck-
Soldier of God
Sunday, January 27, 2002 at 22:31:22 (PST)
what generation is he?
penelope
Sunday, January 27, 2002 at 19:45:11 (PST)
Personally I've always hated the coy type and the direct approach has always been a little more appealing to me. I admire women who know what they want and go after it...confidence is a really sexy thing! Having said all that...it depends on how your going to play your cards. I wouldn't throw it all down on the table and tell him how much you want him. I've had a couple of experiences like that before and it kind of freaked me out. Just once I'd like a girl to come up to me and say something like...I think your really cool and would I'd like to chit chat a little more with you so I was wondering if you'd like to go...blah blah blah. Please keep in mind I'm not an expert on love and I don't know what he's like so I couldn't tell you the best way to approach him.
at work they call me "hey you!"
Sunday, January 27, 2002 at 19:30:31 (PST)
Be careful, since he is your dentist he might wanna keep it professional. As an Asian male, I find women who are outgoing and direct more attractive. Just be real friendly and subtle about your approach and everything should go smoothly. You don't even have to ask him out directly. Just drop your dentist some major hints and if he isn't blind or married, he'll do the rest. Hope it works out!
Le
Sunday, January 27, 2002 at 17:46:20 (PST)
Jazz,
Having been seduced by WF's before. I will tell you how they seduced this AM. One was all the way back in HS. She bought two tickets to the Junior Prom and told me her date backed out. I was a Senior and did not really have time or the inclination to check out the story. So accepted the invitation.
The other time was in college and an WF initated by coming to my bedroom and lying on my bed half dressed, complaining she was bored and had nothing to do that night. Well I solved that problem.
There was another time at a club a WF approached me and asked me to stand behind her. She then proceeded to grind me until nothing was left to our imagination that night.
I don't know if you are approaching this AM for a sexual or a long term relationship. But if it is sexually in nature a little aggressiveness won't hurt on your part.
AC dropout
Sunday, January 27, 2002 at 14:04:02 (PST)
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