WF Wants to Turn Friendship with AM into Love

am a white American woman who has fallen in love with a Japanese man. It's not that he's Asian, it's who is is. The problem is that he sees us as close friends. Try as I might, I can't see him in the same way. I'm very patient - I've been living with this situation for the past 4 months. Anyone with any advise for me would be welcome.
Alex alexandraw@sbcglobal.net    Monday, June 17, 2002 at 19:03:43 (PDT)

YOUR ADVICE

Well, there isn't all that much to go on here. Could you give some examples?
Has he ever expressed feelings beyond friendship for you? Have you ever just told him how you feel? I think that if he has been clear and drawn clear lines defining your friendship, you may want to consider the possibiliy that what you have is . . . a close friend.
Joy
   Wednesday, July 10, 2002 at 02:30:34 (PDT)

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