AA MEN SEEK OUT NON-ASIAN WOMEN
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sian women are only interested in non-Asian men and don't give Asian men the time of day. That's the reason cited by many AA men for dating and marrying non-Asians. A minority of AA men say they simply find non-Asian women more physically attractive or more appealing in terms of personality, values and interests. Whatever the reasons, the rates at which young Asian men are dating and marrying non-Asian women are quickly approaching the rates at which Asian women are outdating and outmarrying (about 38%). Some Asian women are complaining that they aren't getting a fair shake because Asian men have been brainwashed by media standards of desirability.
     What are the real reasons for so many Asian men seeking out non-Asian women? How do Asian women really feel about this trend? Who benefits most from it? Will the trend continue? We want to hear your views.
Asian Dominatrix,
"Danny Devito copy", "chihuahua", you're just TOO funny girl. Have I ever told you I love your posts. Though sometimes we may have a difference of opinion, I enjoy reading your posts due to the fact that they exert intelligence and much of your sarcastic humor ONLY adds to this intelligence in your writings. Personally, I don't think that state of affairs is as bad as you've stated. Though we see our share of IR couples here in California, the VAST majority are still Asian-Asian and I see no reason why this would change. It's DIFFICULT if not IMPOSSIBLE to grow up in California without dealing with Asian Americans. That's NOT to say that "sellouts" don't exist here however as there are plenty of those, AF who hate their AM counterparts for little or NO reason, and AM who hate their AF counterparts for the same LACK OF REASON. Whatever the case, I think both parties need to take a step back and realize that one MUST judge the person and NOT the race. Personally, I LOVE MY AF sisters and think that there'd be NO other race who would better suit me. And yes, the fact that AF don't have to shave their backs is a plus heheheee...
Thanks,
Kevin Yang    Wednesday, January 16, 2002 at 11:38:23 (PST)
Another silly Azn,

Thanks for the compliment. I don't call myself the shiznit (others do!), but I've got some mighty fine measurements. I've posted them enough times, tho', that I'm going to start sounding like I'm advertising myself on the internet...hee hee.

So you've heard white women complaining that Asian women are "tiny, flat-chested, and hairless"...well, maybe we're hairless in that we don't have to shave our backs or do our legs and arms day in and day out. We look like delicate ladies, not chimpanzees! (Makes the whippin' a little easier to take...huh?)

Hmmm...most of the white women who make derogatory remarks on Asians--I remember a few in my college--were usually not outright fat, but for lack of a better word, lumpish, yet fashion-conscious, and majorly envious. You know the kind: cutesy, chubby blondes between 5'5" and 5'7", 130-160 lbs, somewhere between a size 8 and size 14. They may have 36C tits, but usually a potbelly to go with it and lovehandles too: you can tell when they're trying to squeeze themselves into a little shift dress.

They're what might politely be described as being somewhere between a loveseat and a sofa. These women especially resent many of us Asian women at the same height range who weigh between 105 and 125. In other words, these WF's making the comments are not a WOW, but a BOW WOW WOW! (M-e-o-w).

Hey, time for me to Purina ciao, ciao, ciao before my claws sink in deeper...!

P.S. Got no problem with you preferring white women. Just go for the real fine looking ones--not the porkers--and make those WM's turn green-eyed!
Asian Dominatrix    Wednesday, January 16, 2002 at 08:53:21 (PST)
"Join a gym, get contact lenses, start taking your career serioulsy, whatever. For the blessed ones, take up careers that enhance AM visibility - pack your bags for hollywood, go for NBA tryouts, become a porn star (if you have the credentials), etc."

and china better release the 7-6(asians don't overstate their actual heights like blacks and whites do) yao-ming to U.S.

north korea better do so with that 7"10(again, asians don't overstate their heights like blacks and whites) guy to U.S. too


i totally agree with u! and EAT MORE!
dan    Tuesday, January 15, 2002 at 23:24:15 (PST)
"Somtimes I wonder if it was really because Bruce Lee was a strong asian male or was it because he married an attractive white female."

Good question.

"Also remember that Bruce himself, no matter how he tried to join the mainstream, eventually had to go back to Asia to become a star. Let's not shut out the asian females."

It is happening to another Lee...her name is Coco Lee...she does not even try to join the white mainstream...but basically tries to act African American..no luck..she made more money in Asia, and she did not get a white boyfriend either.

"Who if white people think you are "avoiding the mainstream" or purposely sticking to your own kind. White people are very guilty of trying to separate us from our own kind."

They avoid all of us...look at the white sororities at the University of Alabama...would they admit an Asian American? I think not.

"From the posts on these boards it seems that some white people enjoy seeing us bickering: males vs. females, chinese vs. japanese, FOB vs. american born, etc."

Read Denise Hyunh's post...her father would hit the roof if she married a Japanese, Korean or Chinese. Actually, more whites and blacks look for Filipina mail order brides than Asians of non-Filipino ancestry...pretty sad state of affairs. By the same token 98% of all Asian kids were adopted by white families...Asians simply will not adopt. My brother is an example although his sister-in-law did adopt recently. African Americans will call this cultural genocide...Asian Americans simply do not care.

"It even extends to real life and I have seen white guys feel great when they see asians show their animosity towards each other or even when minorties do this such as when a black and a asian person argue. Let's be proud we are asians and minorities."

Include white gals as well. Very true. That is how a white guy became the mayor of LA in a majority minority city..same for New York.

Asian American Male    Tuesday, January 15, 2002 at 16:04:34 (PST)
"...an "sellout" af who dates white guys or a whiny asian male whose dad was responsible for the oppression of your mom."

I would like to elaborate on the view of asian dads' oppressing asian moms.
When whites are confronted and blamed by blacks for their past oppression on blacks. Whites often retort that it was the old generation committed the crime, they have nothing to do with slavery. Now, I am going to use the same paradigm to retort at those asian women who hate asian men because they have abusive asian fathers. We have nothing to do with the abuses. Sorry that your fathers abused you and your mothers. However, don't point your finger at us. We did not abuse you and your mothers.
FOP    Tuesday, January 15, 2002 at 12:00:46 (PST)

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