AA MEN SEEK OUT NON-ASIAN WOMEN
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sian women are only interested in non-Asian men and don't give Asian men the time of day. That's the reason cited by many AA men for dating and marrying non-Asians. A minority of AA men say they simply find non-Asian women more physically attractive or more appealing in terms of personality, values and interests. Whatever the reasons, the rates at which young Asian men are dating and marrying non-Asian women are quickly approaching the rates at which Asian women are outdating and outmarrying (about 38%). Some Asian women are complaining that they aren't getting a fair shake because Asian men have been brainwashed by media standards of desirability.
     What are the real reasons for so many Asian men seeking out non-Asian women? How do Asian women really feel about this trend? Who benefits most from it? Will the trend continue? We want to hear your views.
OK, I am going to be honest on this one. I have never in my life dated an Asian girl again for over a decade ever since my first experience. It has nothing to do with the race or beauty thing. It's just that I am a young hot blooded Asian man with his needs, if you know what I am saying? Chinese girls won't give it up until the day you had walked down the aisle with her in church. It seems the same pretty much with other Asian girls. But, with black, Latina and white girls I can get mad play and my ultimate lollipop. A man is a player and the girl's body is his playground. Chinese girls don't know how to play this game and don't want to play. No man would be friendly to a girl, unless he wants what is under her shirt, bra, skirt, pants, etc. Man and woman can't be real friends. There is an ulterior motive. Nothing is really platonic between the different genders. The man, he is friendly to a woman only for the ultimate purpose of scoring with her. He pays ($$$) for the play (sex). Spending big time money and flattering compliments on her. That is the rule of the game. No strings attached. We just move on.
Happy Valentines!!!    Saturday, February 09, 2002 at 22:51:06 (PST)
Asian Dominatrix,

You have a white friend? I thought you hated white people since you usually have nothing good to say about them. Come to think of it, you usually don't have anything good to say about anyone, except yourself of course.
Just a Thought    Saturday, February 09, 2002 at 21:24:51 (PST)
British Asians shouldnt live in Britain. They should live in America like I do. This is the only place outside of East Asia for Asians to be. You Brits are missing out big time. I'm so lucky and you guys are not.
USAsian    Friday, February 08, 2002 at 22:59:42 (PST)
I have noticed that this thread about DAR has been going on for a while. Please explain to me what a DAR is? I've gone back pretty far and still can't find it.

Thank You!!!
yosuone    Friday, February 08, 2002 at 21:24:15 (PST)

[Daughters of the American Revolution. There's already been far too much on the topic so no more responses to this question. --Ed]
@ villageidiot

If you can think of yourself as someone who "fully support[s] free speech" while threatening to take steps to ban me from the thread, fine. The irony is obvious to everyone but you. For the record, 1) I didn't initiate the discussion of WASPs or the DAR, 2) most of the discussion of those topics went on between contributors other than me, and 3) I was the only one who -- twice -- began with disclaimers about going off topic. Strange that you'd single me out for criticism for irrelevancy.

I don't even know what you're referring to when you accuse me of avoiding you over some remarks you allege I made to the effect that AMs "don't got game." Not only did I never even discuss whether AMs have "game," but it seems to me that you dropped out of the "Divide" thread awfully early. Most of my discussion was with "Miscegenation is great."

If you will simply quote the words from my posts that you're referring to and explain how you take issue with anything I've said, I will be glad to explain myself, here or there -- as long as you don't accuse me, then, of discussing irrelevancies.

village, if you don't learn some self-control, you're going to blow a gasket.

Take care,
Roger    Friday, February 08, 2002 at 16:33:41 (PST)
"Where in the UK were you? Yes, I remember the Bradford riots. And I remember the disgraceful headline the Sunday Times used: "We thought only the Irish rioted like this." Talk about racist!"

Actually the English riot everyweek. Have you been to any of the soccer games. Wait till they tear up Japan and Korea during the World Cup Soccer Games. The English team has qualified. Too bad, it is not held in Singapore. It would keep the caners in the prison system busy!

After last year's women basketball finals, the rioters at a midwestern university were white, Indian and Saudis (yes, the Saudis). They did not get much cooperation from other Asian Americans though. Needless to say, the anti-woman Saudi along with others stripped himself naked and tried to enter a woman's dorm.

"The Times actually reported that IR is much higher in the UK than any part of the western world."

True. Could that be the reason why racist incidents these days are a lot more violent in the UK than here in the US?


Asian American Male    Friday, February 08, 2002 at 11:25:56 (PST)

[No more on racist incidents on this page. --Ed]
Kevin,

I would suspect there are even fewer Asians in Libertyville: I've always thought that was all white. (Evanston has quite a few blacks.)

Ah...there's my problem: shoulda done EE/Math. About 90% men right? In English, you get saddled with the additional problem of not having enough men (straight men, that is), let alone Asian men. I remember meeting quite a few white men who told me that their fathers were not thrilled when they chose to study English. I finally realised my old man was not the only person against English studies in general.

Looks like you and Roger are reporting similar things as regards to IR amongst Asians and whites.

FOP,

Where in the UK were you? Yes, I remember the Bradford riots. And I remember the disgraceful headline the Sunday Times used: "We thought only the Irish rioted like this." Talk about racist!

I think tho' the ratio of minorities in the UK and US are about the same, when it comes to East Asians (Chinese, Japanese, etc.)

I would question you tho about fewer IR. The Times actually reported that IR is much higher in the UK than any part of the western world. Supposedly, 1 out of 4 black men is involved in a relationship with a white woman. I've also seen advertisements featuring a white woman in bed with an Asian (meaning East Asian rather than Indian) and a poster featuring a mixed black/white couple reading to their child. Also, lots of sitcoms and soaps feature IR. (I'm thinking Gimme, gimme, gimme and one movie which takes place in Birmingham--I think--with a WF wife and a Chinese husband.) One of my white American friends pointed out the numbers of IR too.
Asian Dominatrix    Thursday, February 07, 2002 at 19:12:32 (PST)
roger "i can use some $5 words so i'm holier than thou,"

you've consistently avoided my remarks regarding your nonsensical "AM don't got game" in the divide board, so don't try to come off on this one as if you're more level-headed. i'll have you know i fully support free speech, being with the aclu don't mean nothing. but your posts have consistently ticked me off regarding the disregard for AM views as it was presented in the divide board and now in here.

WHAT THE HELL WAS ALL THE CRAP ABOUT DAR AND WASP? WHO CARES ABOUT YOUR MASON CULTS! that's what's "irrelevant" i'm talking about. i really think you should "walk in our shoes" before you go off making comments that have no basis in reality.

just a helpful note, take it or leave it.
villageidiot    Thursday, February 07, 2002 at 13:49:11 (PST)

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