AA MEN SEEK OUT NON-ASIAN WOMEN
(Updated )

sian women are only interested in non-Asian men and don't give Asian men the time of day. That's the reason cited by many AA men for dating and marrying non-Asians. A minority of AA men say they simply find non-Asian women more physically attractive or more appealing in terms of personality, values and interests. Whatever the reasons, the rates at which young Asian men are dating and marrying non-Asian women are quickly approaching the rates at which Asian women are outdating and outmarrying (about 38%). Some Asian women are complaining that they aren't getting a fair shake because Asian men have been brainwashed by media standards of desirability.
     What are the real reasons for so many Asian men seeking out non-Asian women? How do Asian women really feel about this trend? Who benefits most from it? Will the trend continue? We want to hear your views.
"The Times actually reported that IR is much higher in the UK than any part of the western world."

True. Could that be the reason why racist incidents these days are a lot more violent in the UK than here in the US?

Asian American Male,

I don't really know the answer to that question, altho' I will say that the Brits have always had a penchant for rioting from the 17th century onwards--if not earlier. (Of course they didn't have "football" matches then!)Maybe it's a release for British repression (yes, I'm being facetious.)

The scale of IR, I think, is a relatively new phenomenon in British history. All I know is I see more AM/WF and BM/WF couples, esp. in Oxford and London, on a daily basis than I do in the Midwest and northeast US.
Asian Dominatrix    Monday, February 11, 2002 at 09:21:17 (PST)
Just a thought,

You've obviously not been reading my posts too carefully. I've mentioned quite a few whites whom I like and admire.

What I despise are whites who perpetuate institutional and media racism as well as individual whites who disdain ethnic minorities. For instance, some of those white women who complain about sexism but will not acknowledge the persistence of racism belong to the former category. Or white men in media who persistently like to perpetuate the male Asian geek stereotype.

As for the ones who fall into the latter category of individual racists, they (i.e., white parents who do not want their children marrying nonwhites or those who feel uncomfortable talking to minorities) are probably shrinking in number but there are still enough around.
Asian Dominatrix    Monday, February 11, 2002 at 09:10:27 (PST)
Happy Valentines,

When was the last time you got tested for sexually transmitted diseases (STD) or AIDS? Or do you even know you're carrying anything?
B. Lee    Sunday, February 10, 2002 at 21:54:06 (PST)
Happy Valentines,

Ok, we all know the true human instincts of reproduction and survival. Your post sounds violent, sadistic and pornographic. Do you need to be explicit?

Chinese and other asian cultures see love in a different way, is that a good answer? There are still arranged marriages in Asian societies and even some AAs practice it.

As you get older, you'll probably regret it for not marrying someone from the same or similar culture.
U need to grow up!    Sunday, February 10, 2002 at 20:05:19 (PST)
To: Happy Valentines!!!
I find it difficult to believe that any woman - asian or non-asian - would date you. You clearly view women as commodities available only for your entertainment. Fortunately,not all men view women's bodies as "men's playgrounds" - if they did, no self-respecting woman would ever interact with men.
K    Sunday, February 10, 2002 at 13:14:46 (PST)
"If you will simply quote the words from my posts that you're referring to"

like i've stated in the divide board, i think this roger guy is a law school flunk out. WTF is with the references and cross references? WHO CARES?

"if you don't learn some self-control, you're going to blow a gasket"

and keep perpetuating your beloved quiet and geeky asian-male stereotype? not a chance buddy. not especially on this messageboard devoted to AM issues, not "what WM think are AM issues should be," as you've been doing all along.

now go back to the divide board and read all the reactions against you, why is there such a bad opinion of you from AM? like i've stated earlier i'm not going to waste time discussing issues which you should be aware of first before ranting off on. you've kept on asking why media perception should weigh more than everyday contacts, and i've answered, but you've not given a reply probably because you can't give one knowing your initial premise is faulty. plus, don't mention the insistent subtext about AM's own fault for not getting any AF. if you don't know what subtext is, i fell sorry for how ever you can function in society. though you might not realize it, all the other AM (in their posts) stated the same opinions regards to your subtext of why AM ain't got game.

period, paragraph, end of discussion.

as for me i'm aware of what and the limits of free speech are. as you well know, free speech only applies to the government and public places, in private people can tell you to shut up and quit yapping and especially in their own homes/domecile/property. and obviously, this board being devoted to AM issues me being AM of course feel you need to quite yapping about stuff irrelevant or just isn't simply true about our situation. miscengenation has a great post for you personally in the divide board about this.

again, i don't give a care about whether you post or not in the AF/WM board since i don't go there. so why don't you go brainwash some more those "sellouts" types instead of mumbling about things which nearly all AM on this board have decidedly voiced against you?

at the least listen to our AM opinions and try to understand our circumstance before trying to discredit us saying "your analysis is wrong" or "gimme references." which as anybody knows is bullcrap tactics.
villageidiot    Sunday, February 10, 2002 at 12:40:56 (PST)
If you only date women for sex, then you are very shallow and pathetic. How would you like it if women only dated you for money?
%$#@!*    Sunday, February 10, 2002 at 10:58:02 (PST)
Happy Valentines!!!,

Sounds like you are dating Chinese Church Girls. You really should broaden you selection of Chinese Girls. There are party girls in the Chinese American Community also.

You description of a relationship sounds more like prostitution than an acutal relationship. Nothing wrong with a "wham bam thank you m'am" relationship. But you should know pretty much from the start what kind of relationship you what with the girl. Don't confuse gf relationship moving towards marriage with casual ones or on the side relationships, and vise versa.

You sound pretty young and inexperience from your post. Once you get some more experience, you'll begin to see how playing the field really works.
AC dropout    Sunday, February 10, 2002 at 10:54:36 (PST)

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