AA MEN SEEK OUT NON-ASIAN WOMEN
(Updated )

sian women are only interested in non-Asian men and don't give Asian men the time of day. That's the reason cited by many AA men for dating and marrying non-Asians. A minority of AA men say they simply find non-Asian women more physically attractive or more appealing in terms of personality, values and interests. Whatever the reasons, the rates at which young Asian men are dating and marrying non-Asian women are quickly approaching the rates at which Asian women are outdating and outmarrying (about 38%). Some Asian women are complaining that they aren't getting a fair shake because Asian men have been brainwashed by media standards of desirability.
     What are the real reasons for so many Asian men seeking out non-Asian women? How do Asian women really feel about this trend? Who benefits most from it? Will the trend continue? We want to hear your views.
from SWF...
Dudes, if you knew how much I love AM and East Indian men....da bomb! But only if they're polite and easygoing and treat you with respect--that just makes it hotter! Kinda like Jet Li in Eye of the Dragon--it was his sweetness and dang! Ow! I just burnt myself!
I hope more can overcome shyness...Tip: go hang with a girl, she'll start giving you subtle hints...or have a mutual girlfriend go do some go-betweening, this worked for me...

Don't make girls ask you out, usually that's a sign that the guy is really lazy or thinks he's an "all that" Player dork.
WF digs da AM devel_mon@yahoo.com    Friday, March 29, 2002 at 22:39:32 (PST)
I am a SWF, who was raised in an all white small town. We were programmed that white guys would treat us the best....well, that didn't turn out to be true....our homegrown little good ole boys tended for the most part to be self-entitled little Player monsters....
We see these well brought up asian guys at college and they treat their white girlfriends fabulous, they are dedicated, hardworking, involved with the wife and kids.
We SWF's work our way through college, work hard on careers, for what? To live with Archie Bunker, or some younger version, with his beer cans on the couch? Who wants to live a Jerry Springer life? And while he's bitching at us to lose ever more weight, we're expected to breed his kids, then raise them while he runs off to the strip bars or a new woman......Who's going to want that? So why not increase your chances for happiness by dating different flavors?

In a few years, genetic engineering will make race irrelevant and a joke, people will be able to program skin color, eye color, etc. into their next kid, or themselves soon......
At the very least, we'll need it to withstand the thinning ozone layer and UV radiation......this means all of our skin and eyecolors must change...
All girls want a nice guy! devel_mon@yahoo.com    Friday, March 29, 2002 at 22:25:56 (PST)
It's seems so often said about the negative sex-appeal put on AM in the past by the media. It does look like there's been a change going on for a while now too. One nice (and I mean nice..:-) ) example is Jet Li. When he was in Lethal Weapon 4, women in the movie's target audiences loved him so much he got offered a contract from Warner Brothers.

Mandy sheeshmeo@hotmail.com    Thursday, March 28, 2002 at 22:32:52 (PST)
I say this as an Asian Female to all of you Asian Males:
If you prefer AFs, don't settle for WFs or any other non-Asian women.
If you prefer non-Asian women, don't settle for AFs.
Go for who you really want and forget about anyone else's expectations. You will have to spend the rest of your life with the damn girl, so pick one that you actually like.
Take a stand    Saturday, March 23, 2002 at 00:16:45 (PST)
The Asian male in American society has largely been portrayed as a loser in terms of his sex appeal. Media often has the white man stealing the Asian man's woman, and in fact, you always see many more Asian women with white men than vice versa.
If this is changing, it might have something to do with the virtues of the Asian male, such as responsibility, honesty, etc, coming more to the forefront. Perhaps the Asian male is taking steps to make himself more desirable.
I am mature enough to look past race in determining the person's value. I don't feel that it is better for me to marry my 'own' in terms of child rearing.
Inter-racial marriage is a good thing, but not if it is always at the expense of one of the races. I'm glad things are changing.
I can't say that 'x' is more attractive than 'y' for anyone except myself. If I feel that my standards of beauty are absolute standards, then I am a fool.
I am Japanese-American and fortunately had parents who were not racist, even though they were put through hell by the same.

Jeff Yaki yakijy@aol.com    Saturday, March 16, 2002 at 14:47:55 (PST)

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