AA MEN SEEK OUT NON-ASIAN WOMEN
(Updated )

sian women are only interested in non-Asian men and don't give Asian men the time of day. That's the reason cited by many AA men for dating and marrying non-Asians. A minority of AA men say they simply find non-Asian women more physically attractive or more appealing in terms of personality, values and interests. Whatever the reasons, the rates at which young Asian men are dating and marrying non-Asian women are quickly approaching the rates at which Asian women are outdating and outmarrying (about 38%). Some Asian women are complaining that they aren't getting a fair shake because Asian men have been brainwashed by media standards of desirability.
     What are the real reasons for so many Asian men seeking out non-Asian women? How do Asian women really feel about this trend? Who benefits most from it? Will the trend continue? We want to hear your views.
ISO

Peace brother. Lets not fight. This is a time when we need to unite. Have you heard about Abercrombie and Fitch's attack on us???!!
Peace Please    Thursday, April 25, 2002 at 02:55:12 (PDT)
ISO, don't tell me you didn't find kelly hu a hot mama in 'the scorpion king?' (notice i didn't mention anything about going out with her, just attractiveness.) and please stop the 10:1 ratio of "worthiness;" don't forget it wasn't that long ago the 3/5 rule was abolished from the constituion.
villageidiot    Wednesday, April 24, 2002 at 22:30:38 (PDT)
It's me again. Maybe I was a little harsh, but nowadays I don't see one AF with an AM. It seems more like an oddity or abnormality to see an Asian couple. Chances are, it is because of the AFs. As I said, I really don't care about AFs. I just don't like it when they come on this forum to rain on AM/WF relationships. I have had intimate encounters with many WFs, and I find them sexually attractive. Their physical beauty is unmatched by an AF. I know this seems wrong, but I equate 1 WF is equivalent to 10 AFs as far as I am concerned.
ISO WFs    Tuesday, April 23, 2002 at 20:23:35 (PDT)
ISO WF's that is such a negative attitude to have towards females (but epecially AF's) period. You are no better than the Asian Females who complain about Asian Males dating non-asian women. You too my friend have put on your clown suit and have (I'm sure) offended other Asians (men and women) with that negative attitude you have towards asian women. I am not asian but I know that not all asian women are affected by personal issues from their lives.....no I take that back, everyone has some kind of personal issues and Asian women aren't excluded.
Furthermore, I don't think "Student of Life" and "California Girl" came into this forum to prevent anybody from doing anything, because they can't. They can only educate but they can not tell AA men that they can not date non-asian women. They gave their opinions and their accounts of experiences. Everyone is entitled to their opinion you know and you should not be bashing someone simply because they choose to speak the situations that they have had. Those two girl were just speaking their peace about their bad experiences with AA men in past relationships, that's all.
They weren't seeking your approval or advice about anything, so I really think all the negativity is not necessary or needed on this subject.
It's obvious that this is a sensitive issue for you and you are not please with the fact that AA females date non-asian men, right? And you feel like if they can do it, then so can you, right? Well you can and it's your business, but I'll say this again unitl I'm dead and buried, ignorance is bliss when it's believe to be blind, and love is false when it's believed to be true. In other words, don't date white women because you are bitter because AA females date non-asian males and not asian men. Do it because you are in love with the woman that you are with, no matter what color or ethnicity she may be, and just in case no one told you, preference is just another form of racism, hidden racism, but racism nevertheless.
I've said my peace, if you want to continue this dialog my e-mail is at your disposal.
1 Love 4 1 Race, and that's the human race.
Russell's Sweet Delight keshayork@rocketmail.com    Tuesday, April 23, 2002 at 00:27:12 (PDT)
ISO, dude, chill man. maybe it's because the "gender divide" board was down for over a week that they had no place to post their views. besides, we AM should try to be open minded and hear their opinions. of course we might heard these arguments before and care very little about them, but it never hurts to listen. it's a good skill if you want to have the WF you're SO think you know how to listen. you gotta develope these skills even for opinions for which you're the polar opposite of.
villageidiot    Monday, April 22, 2002 at 21:34:57 (PDT)
What the hell is going on with scorned AFs like "Student of Life" and "California Girl" coming on this forum to bitch about AMs? I don't go to the AF/WM forum to bitch about AFs, and if I did, the editor wouldn't post my messages. This forum is for AMs who prefers WFs. These AFs have serious issues from their personal life, and use it to generalize about AMs. I really despise AFs who date WMs and come onto this site to prevent AMs from dating WFs. It is like the AFs want everything for them, and nothing for AMs. I never have and never will have any interest in AFs because they have self-esteem issues. I personally find WFs ten times more beautiful than AFs anyways.
ISO WFs    Sunday, April 21, 2002 at 17:17:16 (PDT)

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