BF Gets Better Treatment from Asian Men

am African-American, but ever since I could remember I have been very attracted to Asian men. I started to feel these feelings at 13 years old.. when I would have the 'butterflies' in my stomach every time I had to encounter Asian men. But, I never could admit these feelings because I felt very ashamed of myself. I felt I was being attracted to a group of people that didn't want me.
Then, I got my first boyfriend (who was black). I had some problems there that caused me to be depressed. The depression made me rethink about Asian men.. so later that year I started to date Asian guys.. and I could never be happier.
I have encountered alot of strange looks and comments (mostly by blacks), which still angers me. Black women complain so much about not being able to find a man..... 60% of them are single, but they joke at the prospect of dating an Asian man. Why? Not all asian men fit the stereotypes, and I found several that were happy to date me, and didn't care about race.
Anyway, I use to be upset at the comments, and feel as if I'm rejecting my own race, but after virtually a year of dating Asian guys, I don't think about that anymore. The majority of black men have (and continue) to treat their women badly. And sexually.. well, let's say, I've been much more satisfied by Asian men because they are more affectionate and loving in the bedroom than black men. They are also willing to go out of the way to make sure the woman is satisfied.
Well, that's my experience.
daisyduke347@aol.com

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