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AM Choosing AF Over WF for Wife

would like to compliment Asian females like MLK and others (you know who you are) who express their active preference for strong Asian men. You cannot imagine what a blessing you are to me. You possess one of the most important attributes of my ideal AF: love & support of AM.

It is sad how rare this quality is. As I look around, I see mostly white-washed banana AFs here in America (and quite a few in Asia too). My own sister is a good example - filled with pollyannish bullshit, blissfully unaware of her own subtle racism.

Seven years ago, I met an attractive AF who was not white-washed and understood me in ways others could not. She was intelligent and saw right through the media portrayal that depicted white men as the invariant heroes whose sacred duty it was to rescue all the non-white people of the world.

I could not believe my good fortune in finding such a rare gem. On top of every thing else, she also had looks and a great personality.

At the time, I had been dating a stunning WF. She had an incredible sex appeal that drew attention no matter where she went. When we were together, I was the envy of all the men in the immediate vicinity. We spoke of marriage and having beautiful hapa children. It was pretty serious.

I knew I had to choose between the two. I made that decision and today I've been married to my Asian wife for six years.

What's the reason behind my choice? Well, there are many beautiful white females out there (and I still love them as a healthy male), but a smart Asian girl who understands the sort of crap I endure, who doesn't buy into the blind worship of all things Caucasian... she is a prize beyond price and a gift from God. She is the source of my strength and the light in my life.

I couldn't live with myself if I were to pass up on the opportunity to develop a relationship with her, so I said good-bye to the WF.

This turned out to be the right decision for me. The last six years have been the happiest of my life.

My True Story Tuesday, July 24, 2001 at 14:58:47 (PDT)

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READER COMMENTS

omg,

can everyone please get a life? wut da hell? i see women doing that ALL the time... where they go "shopping" as soon as they get in a relationship, to see if they can find somehting better. yeah i look down on these women too... but u are missing the whole point of this article. I used to date this italian girl who is a stripper now. and the reason i broke up with her is for the exact reasons this fella is speakin of. so chill out. dam
blah
Wednesday, August 14, 2002 at 18:25:10 (PDT)

So the whole time you were dating this stunning WF were you just basically waiting for a good AF to come along? If so that is quite deceitful to the WF, leading her on to think you wanted to marry her.
tsk tsk
Tuesday, August 13, 2002 at 09:54:31 (PDT)

I loved your story and understood it completly and the people that take issue with it do so because of their own insecurities. Most people find that people there same races is the best thing for them and their marriages last longer than interacial ones.

I am even more than a little offended that they would alude to the fact that you may have made a mistake by not choosing the white women. Would these people be saying th same if you had let the Asian woman go? I mean our people and their worship for white has clouded much of their judgment choosing mates.
Ignore the ingnorant ones
Monday, August 12, 2002 at 19:28:01 (PDT)

It sounds like a sweet story, and it sounds like you love your wife a lot; however, it sounds like you were quite a bit of a two timer. If you were with the WF and were taking it serious w/her; then how could it be possible that you can say that you truly loved her while you were thinking about another lady.

What makes you think that you can pass on another 6 years w/your wife without ever looking back at your relationship w/your WF-ex asking "what if"?

Do both women know anything about this? I know that them knowing is not quite the point. The point is: you need to be true to the one that you love!

As you quoted,"there are many beautiful white females out there (and I still love them as a healthy male)" does not sound very promising; especially, for your wife!
Mixed Feelings Still?
Sunday, July 21, 2002 at 19:56:12 (PDT)

I understand you point about people worshiping the caucasian world and abandoning their own people and not to drop acid on your 6 years of Bliss with you Asian wife, but man, with the way you told your story, it seems like you got a little bit of baggage. I think that baggage is what prevented you from marrying the WF, whom you met also. I think you decided to "play it safe". But I could be wrong. I love Af's and Wf's. - Females of any race, actually. So I'm not pushing for either, but your words seem to be preoccupied with stepping away from things that are white, so much so, you could have missed another love of your life, a WF.
Hey, so what's in the middle between a banana and and a f.o.b? We only have the two distictions, funny isn't it? What ever it is, i think I'm that middle. Anyways, man, peace.
Steven
Empyrean20@aol.com Friday, July 12, 2002 at 02:30:18 (PDT)