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Canadian AM's Love Affair with a European Girl

fter being referred to this site by a friend, I thought I'd share my experience.

This is my story of my experience with a white girl of european decent. I am a Canadian-born asian male. I met her while skating at a public arena in Toronto. She was with a friend. I was also with a white guy friend. After seeing her and her friend skate in circles a few times, I decided I was going to approach her with my friend. He would take the shorter one while I'd work on the taller(5'8") one. This was fine since I'm 5'11" myself. This was totally out of fun and curiosity. She seemed like a very happy go-lucky type of girl. Smiling constantly and showing affection. Of course, I had no idea, but it turned out that european girls are more affectionate and touchy-feely than their North American counterpart. Well, that day I helped her skate and stand upright on her blades. It was the perfect opportunity to get close. At the end of the day, she came to me and asked for my number. I gave her my number and she gave me this huge hug, unlike any I've ever had. I kissed her on the top of her head since I was still on skates. Well, that was the first day of a 3.5 year relationship. She gave me more joy and happiness in 3.5 years than I'd had in a lifetime before then. It's hard to describe, but she embodied everything I ever wanted in a girl. Her affection, her tender kiss, her gorgeous big brown eyes and long curly hair. Not to mention how tall and well proportioned she was.

In the ensuing 3.5 years, we did everything together. And I mean everything. I learned everything I know about women from her. Heck, I even lost my virginity to her. She taught me more about myself than I even knew about myself. We toured the city over and over many times, made love in various public places, and showed the world our happiness. It was total unadulterated fun.

It didn't all start off that way. As you can imagine, my parents weren't exactly too thrilled at first. But I didn't know any difference. I never thought it was "bad" or "unacceptable". I just brought her home one day and we sat in the living room watching television. My dad came in and just gave me this weird look. It didn't all go smoothly at first, but after a year she started coming over for dinners regularly and my parents started to warm to her. In time, she was just part of the family and nothing was "weird" anymore. She talked and mingled as part of the family. Of course, at first it did feel strange when we went out. You notice people looking in your direction with perplexed looks. But over the years I grew accustomed to it. But, in the beginning months that we were together, it was her that assured me we weren't "weird" as a couple, and in time, I bought into it. Thereafter, I was at ease.

How did her family view me? Well, her mom was totally supportive. She treated me very respectfully and called me an "upstanding young man". Wow, she was a gem. Her cooking was just as good. Oh, how I miss those meals. Mmmmm... I'm sure you want to know how her dad took to me! He wasn't as warm but then again he lived 3000 miles away in Europe, so I didn't have to worry too much about him. :)

So, with such a positive experience under my belt, I have a favourable bias toward european girls. Since then I've dated some asian girls and have found some differences. But generally not so different that I attribute it to them being asian. After all, the asian girls I dated were all canadian-born. We all grew up in this society together, so it's not unusual that we behave very similarly. But, the one thing I can say for myself is that no asian girl I've dated has made me want to stay put for another 3.5 years!

Some tips to survive the WF/AM relationship:

1. Don't ever care what others say about you behind your back.
2. Respect her as you would an AF.
3. Speak to her as if you would speak to any other AF, only do it in English.
4. Don't let your asian friends tell you what is acceptable or not.
5. Don't even let your parents tell you what is acceptable or not.
6. Share your cultures.
7. What you don't understand about her, discuss it with her.
8. Don't take her for granted.
9. Kiss her often.
10. Don't be afraid of WF!

Cheers!
BMW328is
whiteknight968@yahoo.com
Tuesday, September 25, 2001 at 22:01:38 (PDT)


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