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Black Woman Wins AM from AF
lack women who like Asian men…don’t hold back. GO FOR IT!!! I hope by sharing my experience, I will encourage you to take your chances with Asian men. Don’t listen to people saying that Black women are less attractive and can’t compete when it comes to Asian men. Why do I say this? I’m a Black woman whose main squeeze is a Vietnamese man. We’ve known each other for close to 12 yrs. After all these years, we still have a great time together, remain very close, and support each other through life challenges.
As far as the physical issues; I’m 5’2, very voluptuous, and know first-hand that all Asian men don’t prefer skinny women. Many Asian men have approached me. I’m flattered and dated some of them. However, none have been able to top my main squeeze. He is so special…..fun-loving and very generous. He is 5’7, has a serious body on him and is very strong. He certainly shatters the myth that Asian men are skinny/scrawny and reserved. We still get a laugh when we notice people staring at us, out of disbelief (we think) that we’re obviously very comfortable with each other.
How Did We Get Together?
In short, I used subtle, yet very powerful methods to see if he was interested in me. It worked like a charm before he knew what hit him. Since I didn’t use a direct approach, the issue of him having a Vietnamese girlfriend got lost in the shuffle. Nonetheless, she could no longer hold his attention with me around. Although I stayed cool and calm, I turned up the heat on him in so many other ways. She simply couldn’t compete because her course of action was constant jealous rampages. No man wants a woman on a constant rampage. This woman even followed us to a public park, and went crazy when he wouldn’t leave with her. She ended up calling her sister and a friend in for “reinforcements.” He tried to assume the “I’m in the middle position” with both of us. However, I knew he was leaning heavily toward me.
How Did We Come This Far?
The Vietnamese girlfriend kept issuing angry ultimatums. I was equally determined, but I used the calm/collected approach. By no means though, am I a quiet person. Among a few other things, I told him that it was his decision whether he’d ever learn what I had planned for him. Need I say more? He still speaks of that moment and doesn’t hesitate to remind me that I lived up that statement. So, I say again Black women…GO FOR IT. You’ll never know unless you try!
amenyes
Thursday, July 04, 2002 at 21:35:22 (PDT)
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I do not think that I would want to go out with a man in a relationship with someone else even if there are sparks. That is kind of cold to me.
HOHOHO
Now you are showing your insecurity sweety. Most people perfer their own but for you to insinuate that black women are less than desirable sayz a lot more about your niavety. Men will lay where they can when they can with who they can and in order to lay there much be some attraction.
Stop
Monday, August 12, 2002 at 19:56:15 (PDT)
Thank you for your comments. No, I don’t mind at all sharing my dress size. Depending on the style and maker, between 8 and 10. I fully recognize that as an Asian woman, you are considered more of an authority on your men than I am, a Black woman. However, in no way did I imply that all or even most Asian men prefer voluptuous women over thin women. Based on my personal experiences, ALL Asian men don’t prefer skinny women over voluptuous women. I’m living proof of that.
amenyes
Monday, July 08, 2002 at 22:06:47 (PDT)
I'm a black female filmmaker and I need your input. I'm researching information regarding the asian male/black female relationship. Although I've dated asian guys myself I do not want to do this
project strictly from my perspective. For those of you who would like to give
me insight into your experience, you can email me at deauxlia@yahoo.com
What I'm looking for:
1. Intial meeting: where and/or under what circumstances did you meet?
2. How did family (both sides) handle the relationship?
3. How long did it last? How did it end?
4. How did friends, coworkers, etc handle it.
For some this may be a sensitive situation. If it is for you, then don't write to me. I'm not looking for anyone to wail on me because they feel put upon. But if you would like to assist in my research then feel free to give me your story. I would appreciate input from asian males AND black females. All information will be confidential. What is sent to me stays with me. I hope to hear from some of you soon. Thanks!
Researching a unique relationship, AM/BF
deauxlia@yahoo.com
Sunday, July 07, 2002 at 18:03:01 (PDT)
amenyes,
I am an AF. I am happy for you that you got yourself an AM. I always say, if you guys are happy, that is that most important thing. First of all, I disagree that Asian men love voluptuous is not true. Majority of AM love their women skinny, it just so happen that your man likes a woman with curves. Also if you get stares from people, do not be shocked for an AM/BF is a very rare combination indeed. I am pretty sure you are used to it by now. As for his Vietnamese girlfriend, just ignore her for you can be any color or race, and she will be still running after you. Also, just out of sheer curiousity, do you mind sharing your dress size?
HOHOHOHO
Friday, July 05, 2002 at 20:52:13 (PDT)
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