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How I Got Game with Girls

s an asian american teen, I had low self esteem. I was always very shy around females. I dreamed about playing varsity football and be around all the beautiful looking cheerleaders at my school. For a majority of asian guys, that's never the case. Going into college I had a trophy view of white girls. There was mystery about them. I never asian-hate ever in my life and respect all asian girls. Unfortunately, they all reminded me of my mom, whom I looked at as asexual. Sofomore year in college was the turning point of my non existing social life. At this point in time, I wanted to break out of my shell. By this time, I beefed up from my 140 lb self to a lean 180 lbs at 5 ft 11 inches. I lost the glasses too and my face cleared up. The only thing I was missing was confidence. Greg, an old caucasian friend of mine always had it made.
Girls would come to him left and right. He'd date rich, skanky, classy, and refined girls all over town.
On top of that, he was the number one of five hundred telemarketers in a large company. I knew there was something to be learned. I didn't want to think that being asian would be a disadvantage in Texas to date caucasian girls. So he taught me and taught me the art of selling myself. I applied the same methodical steps that he uses to sell products at his company.
We opened the student directory and started cold calling girls starting with the letter "A" and get them to drive out and meet us for dates.
I took more rejections than imaginably known to man. I've heard all the disses even before they see me. My friend on the other hand, could close a deal with a girls within 15 min. of talking to her on the phone and as fast in person. Of course I wasn't at that level yet.
Being the best telemarketer, it was expected of him. I studied his every move and learned everything he says that was different than my peers. I eventually got girls on the phone very curious about me that they would meet me.
After a period of time, I applied the same principles I learned onto the nightlife.
It was 10 times harder real time with a beautiful girl in front of you.
Before I knew it, my shyness went away, my creativity in my word choice improved, and my confidence went through the roof.
Now, I am 24 years old and been with more caucasian girls than I can count.
My story seem much different that others. I went through what you called telemarketing training ( the hardest type of sell to master).
As a result, finished selling my oats, and now happy with the girl of my dreams. Too all the asian fellows with white fetishes, life is too short to just see your white counterparts get game.

Thanks Greg for everything.
DT007
tate007@yahoo.com Wednesday, May 15, 2002 at 11:37:39 (PDT)


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a friend? of the villgeidiot? you're really starting to freak me out, are you the same person from the AMCF board who's also my friend? freaky. who're you really?

you're right, i'm not worried. in fact, i'm really happy being single right now. i'd rather be single than in a relationship where i can't respect the girl or just so i'm not alone. the biggest thing for me is that i'm moving to california for grad school so i'm fianlly getting away from my parents. yep, i'm still living with my parents and they've an overbearing influence on me and i need to get away. i really hope i can meet somebody special out west.
villageidiot
Monday, June 10, 2002 at 13:18:38 (PDT)
"Every girl knows we are not players, but we are looking for those who don't want bad boys."

ARGH!! another of my pet-peeves. i don't mention this in other forums because too many critics. but being a "bad boy" has nothing to do with a player. a player is a player and should be avoided by women and men. but "a bad boy" is something completely different. i consider myself "a bad boy" because i go against the grain of society and questions authority and make my own decisions. the classic "bad boy" is james dean from 'rebel without a cause' and if you've seen the movie then james dean wasn't a player at all, but a very faithful and loyal boyfriend to natalie wood.
villageidiot (disappointed with mass media ignorance of the public)
Monday, June 10, 2002 at 13:15:07 (PDT)

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