I suggest all Asians should eat more nutritious stuff during teen years. I found that being physically BIG does have certain advantages. I myself am 6'2'' and 235 pds. I have never had any problems coming from white boys or blacks except once. Given that I spoke borken English and being rather polite when I first got here, a white boy in my dorm kept nitpicking whatever I do. One night at a party, I just dargged that dude out of the party and punched him in the face with NO REASON. I was a bit drunk and just want to whoop his ass for fun. All my friends were shocked and he was shocked. Strangely ever since that punch, that guy always greet me in our hallway. The moral of the story is that Asians are generally being perceieved too nice and too tiny. Thus non-Asian people can get away things since they know that nitpicking Asians has no consequence. To this day, I learned that never stay quiet and be polite when the situation rises. Specially in a tough city like New York, acting tough does help. (even in a office environment.) But you do need to have a well build body to make your bully creditable. Not mentioning that being a physically-strong-career-successful-short-tempered-bully really does help in terms of getting women. Although people hate to admit that, but women just love that shiiiit. I have dated Asian, Latino, and White girls with little problem.