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wung
To follow up on what I was telling Peter 07 and Hotkimchee, I am seeing more hot WF with AM than I see hot AF with WM these days, at least among professionals in their 20s and 30s. I personally have begun dating a blue-eyed brunette who turns a lot of heads. And she's no bimbo either. She's a Smith grad and is working as a publicist at a major PR agency. I saw her a few times at this plaza where my colleages and I sometimes have lunch. She was too hot not to aporoach. She was kinda aloof at first but I kept talking to her and she warmed up. She gave me her business card before she and her co-workers headed back up. I called her the next day and ended up meeting her for lunch a couple days later. She didn't let me buy lunch but did exchange email addresses. That's when I began my shock and awe campaign. :0)

Anyway, she isn't the first WF I've dated but she may be the hottest looking. I think the white chicks are open to us AM if we just approach them in a friendly but not too serious manner and can carry on a decent conversation. BTW, I don't think most classy WFs like guys who talk about themselves too much, nor do they like guys who ask too many questions about the chicks themselves. Best to try to discover some activity or interest in common and use that as a jumping off point. That has worked for me pretty consistently because it is a neutral (i.e. non-threatening) topic and yet it is sorta personal as well.

I'd like to hear from other guys who have had success with hot WF.
honeyroasted
Hey blckconfed,

Why be a jealous, insecure, hateful troll?
Ed
We will delete blckconfed's post once people have had a chance to enjoy the mentality of the insecure trolls drawn out by any discussions of the growing numbers of AM/WF couples.
wung
Hey, blockconhead,

I'll tell you why I don't use penis-enlargement pills. First, the moans and screams I get from women are already so loud that I am afraid of having my eardrums punctured if I get any bigger.

The other reason is that I understand those pills work by drawing protein from the brain. I like my big powerful brain because the chicks find it sexy. I guess you must have taken a lot of those pills, hun? You must be making that blowup doll very very happy. Keeps your trailer rocking day and night! laugh.gif
nonnymouse
Hmmm.. now who could this loser be? Some guesses:

-White man who thinks that dating Asian chicks is cool, but doesn't want Asian men touching "his women"

-Asian girl jealous that Asian men are outdating more frequently

Who knows. Whoever this insecure person is, he/she will have to face up to the reality that there are more and more AM/WF couples.
OriginalCyn
Nah...that particular troll posted rude comments on the Shaq vs. Yao thread last week, too. I'm glad (in a weird way) that it wasn't just a fluke, because I berated her for it. (I generally give "schwartzers" a lot a slack, unless their behavior is REALLY egregious!) Now that I see THIS post, I'm glad that I let her have it; AAMOF, I wish I'd been MORE rude!

She reminds me of my ex-co-worker, the one who had an enormous shoulder-boulder re anti-Black racism, aggressively challenging the slightest imagined "diss"; and yet she made outrageous comments regarding Asians, homosexuals, and (of course) ME. She once had the utter gall to ask an immigrant, "...and why do y'all talk like this, [makes a bunch of ugly sing-song noise]?" My jaw had literally dropped open when I heard that. She wasn't reprimanded for it, either, because she'd sued a previous employer for racism, and so my emploiyer had decided to handle her with kid gloves.

Gads! I don't understand people who are unclear on the concept of treating other people with the respect that they'd like to receive FROM those other people.
nonnymouse
So this troll is a black female? I can't understand why a black woman would be upset at Asian men dating White women. I could understand if she were mad that Black men were dating White women, but what the hell does she care if there are WF/AM couples?? Some people truly have no lives.
JeilHotKimchee
Hi Original Cyn:

Great to hear from you again! biggrin.gif

Yeah, I fully agree with you when you condone trolls like blckconfed. I don't know if that person is really a black person, but sure sounds like a person bitter at Asians.

In other forums...such as the war forum,...he/she posted crap message of his/her hope that the US will bomb N Korea, China, Taiwan and all of Asia.

I am glad that blckconfed is gone! rolleyes.gif
OriginalCyn
Nonnymouse wrote, "So this troll is a black female? I can't understand why a black woman would be upset at Asian men dating White women. I could understand if she were mad that Black men were dating White women, but what the hell does she care if there are WF/AM couples??"

I totally agree. And yet I've seen it happen.

I don't have a whole lot of Black friends, and those that I do have are, for the most part, what I'd call "professional class". Because they are educated and more upper-class, they are not much different from you or I. The race issues are practically non-existent.

But when you're talking about "underclass" people, of ANY race (including Whites)...well, that's a whole different ball of wax. They all tend to be a LOT more race-conscious and race-prejudiced.

I currently have one "underclass" Black female friend, and--yes--she IS prejudiced against Asian male/WF pairings!
Or maybe it would be more accurate to say that she doesn't like it when *I* do it. (And I do it a lot less often than she thinks that I do. The vast majority of my BFs have been White.)

But that same woman is also annoyed 1-that guys in her circle hit on me and 2-that I won't go out with them. It's not that I won't date them because they're Black: I won't date the guys in her circle because they're "low class". (Of course, out of courtesy, I can't tell HER that!)

It's been pretty amusing, though, to watch her rag on the Black guys who hit on White women. She takes them aside, points to her own chocolate-brown arm, and yells, "THIS is what's beautiful! BLACK is beautiful!" When she does that, I just have to laugh...and I'm relieved that she's "running interference" for me, thereby "protecting" me from all of those underclass guys who have a "thing" for fat White women.
OriginalCyn
Hi, JHK!
I'm glad that you made it up to the Bay Area and that you liked it here.
That troll is back. She's now calling herself "BlackMargarita", and she's right back dissing Asian guys'..."equipment".
WHAT A PEST she is!
The chick is clueless.
First off, what "they" say isn't true.
And, secondly, I'd rather have a guy with big brains than a big "whatsis" any day.
Cyn
ChineseKickboxer
I always believe stereotypes are false and stupid. There's big and small equipments in every human race. I know a lot of girls that experienced small penises from Black and White men. The smallest I heard was something like 3 inches!!!

Anyways, I break stereotypes myself and I'm proud of it. I'm 100% Chinese and I'm 6'6". I have 10 inches down there. So I guess all those rice I ate went down between my legs. hahahhha .. By the way, I'm married to a beautiful White female and we have a son together.

smile.gif wink.gif rolleyes.gif
nonnymouse
Cyn, you totall rock! I agree with your perception that underclass people of any race tend to be the most ingorant and racist. Not to say that upper class people can't be racist as well, but usually the more educated strata of society are not completely ignorant of other people's cultures and have basic respect for others. There is trash in every race.

And this whole ridiculous thing about the size of a man's penis- give me a break. Maybe for men it's a big deal to their self-esteem and sense of masculinity, but I honestly don't think it's a big deal for women. I couldn't care less. And my Asian boyfriend certainly cuts the mustard in that respect.

Cyn, have you dated Asian men before? Are you dating anyone now?
nonnymouse
Chinese Kickboxer- damn you're tall! How did you and your wife meet? How long have you been married?
OriginalCyn
Nonnymouse,

Thanks! biggrin.gif
I've dated Caucasian and Asian men --with no preference for one over the other--from the very beginning--which means that we're talking about 30+ years.

I'm not dating anyone right now (I have a non-exclusive and long-distance relationship with a German fellow at the moment), nor am I "looking" for a BF. But if one were to "fall into my lap"... wink.gif

I think that my ceramics instructor (about my age, and Japanese-American) is really attractive, but I don't flirt with teachers, because it can cause disharmony in the classroom, if you know what I mean! (He DOES date his students, and it HAS caused ill feelings in the past.)

Cyn
lordt78
blckconfed:

What are you doing here? Go to the BM/WF page...wherever that is on the internet. Why are you here putting down my asian brothers? Guys, I think blckconfed has a thing for asian guys :-)...Oh stop it, I'm blushing... LOL
dcguy
Yes, I agree with wung, I've been seeing a lot more hot WF with AM these days, definitely approaching the numbers of AF with WM. Basically what I'm seeing is that the numbers of AF with WM hasn't declined at all, it's still high, but the AF that I see with WM are more and more average looking (not necessarily bad looking, just not really not.)

Although the total numbers of WF with AM still isn't as high, I'm seeing more and more examples of very hot WF with AM. The interesting thing about this is that these are WF who are so attractive that they would reject the majority of WM except for the best looking ones.

It seems that being an AM is finally paying off. I think that WF are finally realizing that AM can be sexy. Many WF seem to actually seek out AM specifically and run personal ads where they say they are looking for an AM. I think that many of these professional, hot WF young career women like the fact that AM generally aren't full of themselves, don't act [private]y, and aren't talking about themselves all the time. They are much more soft-spoken and well-mannered than most WM.

A few years ago here in the DC area (early to mid 1990's), there was a big trend of hot WF dating African-American guys. This still exists to a wide extent but it's not nearly as big as it once was. Then I noticed more and more hot WF with AM. It's no where near the amounts of WF that I saw with Black males, but it's getting to be significant and noticeable numbers of these couples around. It seems that every few years, attractive white women discover a 'new' ethnic or racial group to seek out, and having a boyfriend with such a guy actually confers status among her peer group, as if she's found a "catch" which is out of the mainstream, "different", and a little exotic -- and can actually make for a better relationship. With the black guys, it seemed to be the thinking that the sex was great and that black guys were somehow exciting, masculine, better dancers, etc. as well as better lovers. With Asian guys the allure seems to be (from my admittedly rather naive perspective, perhaps) that an Asian guy is more humble, not as full of himself or egotistical as a white guy, but is just as ambitious and career minded.

With the WF/BM couples, however, they seemed to encompass a more working class demographic of people (both male and female) where with the WF/AM couples, wung is right, they seem to be concentrated more among the college-educated, professional crowd.
nonnymouse
From what I've seen of other AM/WF couples, I agree with your assessments. It does seem that the majority of the WFs dating AMs are very good looking, and highly educated, they have at least a college degree if not more. They're kind of forming new "power couples", where both the AM and WF are good looking, successful, educated and well-to-do.

"I think that many of these professional, hot WF young career women like the fact that AM generally aren't full of themselves, don't act [private]y, and aren't talking about themselves all the time. They are much more soft-spoken and well-mannered than most WM."

I couldn't agree more!! You have no idea how ill-mannered, rude and sloppy a lot of white men can be. Asian men take much better care of themselves and have superior etiquette. wink.gif
D2K
I posted a message in another thread that really belongs here. It seems to me that, in my social and professional circles at least, a lot of Asian American men gravitate to women who are successful, well educated, have high standards, and take good care of themselves. A good portion of such women happen to be White (still the majority in America after all). They're the type of women that beer-guzzing, sports-obsessing, going-nowhere men dare not approach.

Such women want intelligence and substance in men, but can't always find it easily among Whites. In one instance I'm aware of, an attractive female attorney dumped a boyfriend after finding out that he was actually semi-literate. "He seemed very articulate when we talked," she confided, "so it was a shock to discover that he couldn't write a sentence without making ten different mistakes."

I expressed disbelief, because I knew the guy and thought he was relatively intelligent. To prove her point, she handed a note he had written. I had to admit she was right. The fellow, a corporate executive, could not spell and had no concept of basic grammar. The truth was, he was a good talker without much substance.

Today this female attorney is much happier with an Asian male (also an attorney). Together, they look very much the part of the power couple. I can't help but think that perhaps they are the prototype of the new power couple for the new millenium.
nonnymouse
The difference between the common WM/AF pairing and the AM/WF pairing is really striking. The WM/AF pairing usually involves an AF that hates Asian men, has never dated one, and only wants to date whites. The white male counterpart is usually nerdy and unattractive, and puts down white women because they are too "career-focused and manly". However the AM/WF couples I've seen tend to be more equal in terms of sucessfulness, attractiveness, etc. Most WFs I know that date or are married to AMs have usually dated WMs but can't seem to find one that embodies all of the characteristics that their high standards require. These indeed will be the elite power couples of the next century.
y3miii
interesting, really interesting smile.gif
dcguy
nonnymouse wrote:

>>The WM/AF pairing usually involves an AF that hates Asian men, has never dated one, and only wants to date whites. The white male counterpart is usually nerdy and unattractive, and puts down white women because they are too "career-focused and manly".

I couldn't agree more! You nailed it -- the vast majority of WM that I see dating AF in big cities consist of nerdy, unattractive white guys usually with AF who are recent immigrants (as opposed to American born). I don't know too much about the attitudes of these AF toward AM (whether they "hate" AM or not, as you said) but I do know that there must be some reason why they "must" have a WM. But my focus in studying this phenomenon has really been on the WM who become "Asian crazy" and focus so much on seeking out and dating Asian women, as if they are some sort of easily available "commodity". I think they are training their eyes and focusing their prospects on Asian immigrant women because they have had bad experiences of being rejected by most White women who have been raised in this country, who have developed sophisticated requirements for a male partner, and who won't compromise to date an unattractive nerd. But, many of these recent-immigrant young Asian women don't know the "difference" between an unattractive, nerdy WM and an attractive, popular or confident WM -- because they haven't been acculturated in this country. So, they willingly say "yes" to almost any WM who isn't a known convicted serial killer or child molester! Also, amazingly enough I had a friend (a very good friend actually and I'd never compromise his identity here) who was a reeeeally nerdy white guy (like a "supernerd", very awkward but intellectual -- he admitted his nerdiness) who dated nothing but recent immigrant Asian women, and proudly said to me, "They don't know the difference between a nerd and a 'normal' American guy!"
nonnymouse
Unbelievable.

Actually I have read a lot of posts on Goldsea from AMs that have dated AFs that have SPECIFICALLY SAID to them that they "don't usually date AM's" as though they were doing them a favor, and would actually say that WMs are BETTER THAN AMs, right in front of them. How screwed up is that?? So yes, I think there are a lot of AFs that hate AMs.

I also see tons of white men that will only date asian girls, especially recent immigrants that don't speak very good english. But I can't say I've ever known a white women to be an "asiaphile"- to only chase after asian men.
OriginalCyn
The one AF who expressed a disdain for Asian (well, specifically Japanese), men was an extremely beautiful Japanese woman who had married (and subsequently divorced) an American G.I. She once said to me, "Japanese men are ugly!" I was amazed that this comment was coming out of the mouth of an individual who represented all that is handsome/beautiful about Japanese people. (Obviously, the Japanese--like anyone else--can have looks that vary from a "1" to a "10". They're no more beautiful or ugly than any other ethnic group, IMO.)

Maybe she didn't really think that Japanese men were, as a group, homely. Maybe she had grown to dislike Japanese men because--before she'd gotten married--she'd been a bar hostess, and perhaps she was disrespected and/or treated as a sex object in the course of her job. Now, I'm not all that familiar with Japanese culture, and it's not my intention to offend anyone. But it's my impression that the "scene" among businesspeople in Japan nowadays is not too different from the "scene" among American businessmen in the 1950s and 1960s. --Which basically means that drinking after work is something that's almost universally done, that just about everyone smokes...and that women are treated as inferiors and/or as sex objects. As much as I might like Japanese-American men, I have to say that I might not be too enthusiastic at the thought of dating a typical native Japanese "salaryman".

It could be that, for many a native Asian woman, casual abuse of/disrespect for females is so much a part of her native culture that marrying an American man--even a sexist, racist, nerdy, loser of an American man--might be perceived as being better than continuing to deal with the men from her native country. But--as I said--I don't have more than a passing familiarity with the customs and attitudes of various Asian countries, so my theory just COULD be "full of it". No offense is intended, and please correct any misinformed ideas that I might have within the context of ignorance, rather than racism. Thanks!
nonnymouse
Cyn, I think you make a valid argument for native-born Asians, and I can understand that line of thinking- anything is better than that type of treatment.But actually from reading other posts here it seems that most of these girls that only date whites and put down asian men are American-born Asians that have lived here all of their lives.
D2K
Nonny (Shakespeare eh?), I agree with your observation. I know some Asian girls born and bred in this country who actually TAKE PRIDE in stating that they have never dated Asian guys and never will. They don't say outright that they think Whites are better than Asians, but if you ask me, they may as well write that up as a sign and paste it to their forehead.

It's a good thing that not all Asian American girls are like that. Recently I have encountered some who don't have that particular hang-up. They are like a breath of fresh air.
maxdacat
I think you guys have got issues

All I keep hearing is how nerdy white guys with no social skills are going out with AF's......or that their stated preference for AF's is an indication of some deep seated psychological maladjustment....then I hear AM's who say they just wanna date AF and that is the way they are....fine but we all have our perference.....from my own experience i hear AM get a lot of respect from their AM friends if they ever go out with a white girl....it's almost as if they are "getting white guys back" for all the AF they are stealing.....this is really childish and anyway it's not like WM have a monopoly on nerdishness......i know heaps of nerdy asian guys....lovable yes but nerdy too
nonnymouse
maxdacat, I've read a lot of your posts over time and you are the epitome of the asiaphile white guy. You always whine about how you go to asian parties and the asian girls don't want to talk to you, they want to talk to the asian guys. Get lost, loser.
junhee
i've been away from this board for a while and nothingchanged. (!!)

Every point seem to be flogged to death and there is one that some people beat a dead horse on. There isn't a WF-AM topic on goldsea that the AF topic hasn't been brought up...(!!!)

Kinda funny...tongue.gif
The trend i notice in WF-AM topic is AF has been constantly brought up by some AM and even WFeven some(not ALL) WF(so much for securir\ty issues) .I guess some people, do not seem to be satisfied w/ minding their own business. AF , or more specificaly speaking has been involved in AF-WM every now and then. *shrug*But gaining a cheap ego boost doesn't help in the long term. What helps is for one to go about his/her own business instead of putting down others in order to feel good abt themselves. I don't see how AF has a lot to do w/ this topic or am i wrong? smile.gif

And do not bash me for speaking that out because That is how things come across if you ask me.smile.gif The more you react, more your personnality and self esttem are revealed. The real world out there is much more complicated than your childish view/steroetype.

and in case you are curious...i am an AF who has dated WM and men of my own kind . need to bring that up lest you will automatically assume i am a'sellout', or a'second class' citizen.

You speak wat u want...watever...i will stop here seeing as how this topic doesn't concern AF. there are business of my own i have to go about instead of ranting on childishly about things that have nothing to do w/ me.
nonnymouse
Oh please. WFs dating AMs do not have insecurity issues. If anything it's usually the AFs dating WMs that do.
D2K
In my opinin, anyone who dates any particular ethnicity exclusively has got to have some issues. Within this broad category we find all kinds of people, including AFs who date WMs exclusively. It would be self-deluding to pretend that they don't have some sort of inferiority complex that drive their refusal to date AMs.
mixitup
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Oh please. WFs dating AMs do not have insecurity issues. If anything it's usually the AFs dating WMs that do.


Hmm. I was a bit unsure on how to take your earlier comments regarding Asian women before I read this. Glad I found it. Well, it's good to find this type of thing out early out so I didn't spend a lot of time trying to converse or worse yet, flame.


junhee> good policy regarding the topic. I think I'll follow suit.

And lest I be labeled a sell out also, I'm Eurasian female married to an Asian male. smile.gif
ocorndoggie
Hi everyone;

This is my first post on this board. I am a 34 year old single white female who prefers Asian men. Although their physical features are the ones I happen to find most beautiful, I also am very attracted to intelligent, educated guys. As such a large number of Asian men grow up in households where education is very highly stressed, I naturally am drawn toward Asian men! Unfortunately, I live in the Midwest, and this isn't a hotbed of Asian culture. I consider myself an educated, intelligent woman (BA in Political Science), and Asian guys are, in my opinion, the hottest men around. biggrin.gif
honeyroasted
junhee,

Your post is very lame... Maybe it has something to do with the way you truly feel about Asian guys and about the way you truly feel about yourself with respect to white women. Any attempt to respond to me--and it is only my honest opinion that I have given--would only reveal your true insecurities. Maybe I should stop now so that this thread doesn't get derailed any further.
maxdacat
Nonnymouse,

I don't really feel like getting lost, thanks.....but i do appreciate you have kept track of some of my previous posts.....if you have something to say then why not add to the discussion instead of.....anyway you criticise me for whining about AF's wanting to talk to asian guys at a party (maybe i did) then in your next comment you generalise about how AF's with WM are more insecure than WF's with AM.

i know all WF's aren't as nasty as you but i still feel glad i prefer AF's. mad.gif
nonnymouse
whatever dude, good luck to you in your quest for af's.
D2K
Max, why get worked up over some Internet messages? The animosity is not really necessary, is it?
nonnymouse
max, I know all white men aren't as insecure and hostile as you, but I'm still glad I prefer AM's. wink.gif
maxdacat
yeah that's good advice.....no reason to get worked up

forgive my animosity but i was only "responding in self defense"....but now we have closure let's move on

peace out from whitebread Vienna
maxdacat
ok now we're even!
D2K
Max,

Kids get even. Adults just let it go. So I'm certain you're only kidding.
sbz
I agree, the dynamics of AM/WF couples are very different from AF/WM couples. First of all,
WF and AM are on a more even level in America, in terms of social/political status, unlike
WM/AF. The WM is dominant in this society and many AF's date them largely because of that.
The WM has the power - WM privilege - to exploit AF's with that social climbing mentality
and insecure AF's who are ashamed to be Asian. sad.gif This lopsided power dynamic is the reason why AF's are very available to WM's, the large number of AF/WM couples and the explosion in the Asian fetish and AF porn.

WF and AM, however go against everything the WM power structure dictates - it goes against
the WM's attempts to emasculate AM's through the media and it goes against WM's desire to
have WF's only date WM's. For these reasons, WF/AM couples are more likely to be together
due to true love rather than ulterior motives. I think the kind of WF that go for AM's tends
to be very intelligent, maybe a little rebellious and choosy. They are smart enough not to
be manipulated by racist stereotypes. biggrin.gif
JeilHotKimchee
sbz:

I think the percentage of AM-WF is smaller than WM-AF couples.

Some of the reasons are what you've said.

According to my aunt who's Korean, she says she does not want her daughter to marry a white male because white people tend to divorce a lot.

Well....hmmm....that may be true. However, there are some true WF or WM's out there who act according to Asian culture.

It also depends on where you live. For example, I use to live in Seattle, WA. There is a substantial amount of AM-WF couples there. I had a white female teacher in elementary school named Ms. Miyashiro!
And in Hawaii, since the Asian-AMerican percentage rate is high, the Asian females there are more likely to marry Asian males, and less likely to cling to White males. In California, New York, Texas, Georgia, Illinois,...on the other hand,....Asian females will date white males over Asian males.

That's what I've observed so far.
nonnymouse
sbz, I think you summed up the differences between the two types of relationships pretty well. As for choosy, I think it's important to be picky! You don't want to date just anyone that asks you out, it's important to have high standards. And then the lucky guy that is chosen knows that he is special. smile.gif
junhee
this topic isn't for me but...My brother just got married w/ a WF. they are such a nice couple. I am happy for them.
I am living in France and i know some WF friends going for AM and I am always on good terms w/ them. Not to mention my brother got married w/ a WF. Believe it or not, as an AF my relationship w/ my sister in law is more than good. Probably because In France, the Ir relationship doesn't seem to be much of a big deal as it is in Americ where Asian population occupy abt 4-5 %(?) of the population . Seriously what is the point in caring abt who dates who????Making assumptions about the nature of relationships is one of the most shallow thing to do. I hope some people just grow up. . We are all humans . seriously, that is really immature to be hostile to each other for shallow assumptions like AF jealous of Am going for WF, AM/WM are intimidated by WM/AM, etc. One would fall into the habit of falsely generalizing.
White , black or asian it is all good as long as there is love. This post is not meant to target anyone. I just want to express a little thought on the topic. Anyway excuse my English.

honeyroasted: don't worry...i don't have any attempt to overwhelm you with a serious response. Coz seriously I have no idea what you talk about in the first place . ..Me secure or not, i know that better than anyone else. At least I am sure I 've never been critical any IR relationship or expressed anger over anyone who doesn't show hostility towards me. I am sorry, however , that you felt offended by my previous post. peace..
sbz
I'm planning a vacation to Paris. I hear that French girls like AM's (after all they do have good taste in everything, haha). Does anyone know where the pretty French girls hang out? Any specific part of the city where people are more friendly towards Asian guys?
Outofeast
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We are all humans . seriously, that is really immature to be hostile to each other for shallow assumptions like AF jealous of Am going for WF, AM/WM are intimidated by WM/AM, etc. One would fall into the habit of falsely generalizing.


Tell that to the whites, especially in the U.S., who, for the most part, still feel or want to project the image that IR (particularly WF/non-WM) as unnatural or, even, a social taboo for them. (I believe, if I'm not mistaken, in the state of Alabama an IR marriage is still ILLEGAL.) Remember, this is a free country where everyone can supposedly "pursue life, liberty, and happiness." Sounds a bit corny and idealistic, but the reality is so far from the claimed rhetorics, including the part of happiness to which a relationship between a man and a woman of different ethnicities falls under and should not be stigmatized but, nevertheless, is, that it wreaks of hypocrisy. My point is that you're absolutely right in principle and it should not be a problem or a controversial issue that it is made to be, certainly, by those who claim to be color-blind yet practice bigotry that discourages or interferes with the potential or existing IRs. That's where my beef is.

Anyway, good luck to your brother and his wife. And good luck to your own relationship with a man in the future, whatever his ethnicity. That's all.
Wil
Uhm, Hey Ed. Why does it seem that white females are held in high regard around here? It seems that they are being held up as THE women to have on your arm. In essence; a trophy. What the hec? I thought that we were supposed to be past that.
Personally, I find white women boring and bland. I like women with some ethnic flavor. I like Spanish women myself. Ever seen "Primer Impacto" on Univision? The two main anchorwomen are hot.
sbz
Yes, latin women are HOT! Roselyn Sanchez and Sofia Vergara...mmm. The anchor women on hispanic stations in LA are beautiful. I think I know the two you're talking about. I like the one with the shorter hair.

Yes, we shouldn't regard ww as ideal. I didn't mean to imply that. But I meet more ww than latin women. I may have to try and change that.
ChineseKickboxer
Well I have to admit, Asian males and White females really do make cute couples together and a lot of times the insecure white trash boys are the one that's trying to hate and talk shiet about it. I guess they're just insecure that they're sisters are leaving them and going for other race. I'm also tired of white boys giving me rude stares in public when I'm holding hands with my wife which is a beautiful White female. What's the matter with those white boys anyways?! Can't stand an Asian brother taking their own females away? hm.. guess not... well deal with it. Don't hate and appreciate. late.
Outofeast
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I'm also tired of white boys giving me rude stares in public when I'm holding hands with my wife which is a beautiful White female.


Next time kiss your beautiful white wife in the public and get'em riled up more. If any threatens you for your show of affection to her, then either kick their teeth or, if you don't want to resort to a physical violence, cuss them out loudly and call the cops on them!
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