Okay, I am Mexican-American just to say. And I have a thing for Japanese girls, mainly because I look at most Asians and find Japanese more attractive. I am not saying that other Asians are ugly. It's just, I can't really explain.

Anyway, I am always thinking of getting a relationship with an Asian. Because when I am picturing myself married, I love to think it as me there with a beautiful Asian woman with her little eyes and great skin. But back to the point, is it wrong to try to go for one race of women or what?

Seriously this is just a choice. I am not saying I only want to marry an Asian. I just like to see myself in a picture hugging an Asian woman or something. Believe me, if I found my soul mate who happens to be another Mexican or Black, I wouldn't mind. Especially since I want to be in a interracial relationship.

I am asking if it's wrong because a lot of people say it's foolish but some others say it's okay. I just want to see some opinions. I just worry too much that's all. I know it's not true but I sometimes think it would be hard for me because Asian girls wouldn't find someone like me attractive. But I truly know that Asians are no different than any other woman.

According to your profile, Ultima Nemesis, you're still really, really young. WHy are you thinking about getting married already? As far as your thing for Japanese girls, well, there's nothing wrong with liking the features of a particular race, as long as it doesn't involve self-hatred for your own Latina sisters. However, I would say don't limit yourself. Date all kinds and get to know all kinds of different people. The ones you date may not turn out to be your soul mates, but they might know others who could be...

Well, you might be more attracted to Japanese girls because they may have slightly different features from other women of Asian descenedant. From a genetic stand point, all Asian groups are different, but are of similar ancestry (we see this with the little blue spot on Asian babies.) In Japanese semen, there is actually an enzyme missing that is unique to the Japnese race you could say. Also, when you move south from Northern Asia (Siberia, Mongolia) to South East Asia (Vietnam, Laos) it is said that facial features change. People of Southern Asia are categorized be being smaller in sature and having more rounded and softer faces. But, because of things like war and invasion in Asia, people have very diverse charactertics. This is all detrimined by human migration patterns and genetics. Interesting, neh?

Actually, further thinking about this, I think it's alright to have aprefence. It's like how some guys prefer blondes. I prefer Korean and Chinese guys I think! ^.^

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Because when I am picturing myself married, I love to think it as me there with a beautiful Asian woman with her little eyes and great skin. But back to the point, is it wrong to try to go for one race of women or what?

I know you probably know this, and you probably didn't realize it when posting this topic, but not all Asian girls have perfect skin in little eyes. Yes, I know many AFs that have the monolid, you could say, but many have eyes that are quite large and almost seem more stereotypically Caucasian. Good luck to you with your g/f! ^.^

Well I guess I am too young maybe, but really I don't believe it being too young
I guess that's just my opinion. Anyway, thanks guys, I really apreciate it. It's kind of hard to actually for me because I am home schooled and I don't really get to talk to people. And no I don't have a problem with my Latina sisters. I would like to date them. Sometimes I get this stupid urge like I would only like an Asian (But that is not true. It's just those stupid things I get in mind.) but everytime I get near a girl that is Latin, White or Black, I usually feel really good inside because sometimes they are pretty. I would also like to date a black as well. I find them pretty attractive.

Oops, I made a couple of grammer mistakes. If you just see something wrong, just forget about it please

Go for it! We need more unity between the Asian and Mexican communities anyway, so go for the Japanese girls! I don't think there's anything very wrong with inter-racial preferences, although it is healthier to prefer your own race. I myself had an African-American guy preference for many years, before I turned Asian Pride. In the words of Nike, go for it!

mijo, listen.... you sound perfectly normal to me. . if you find japanese women pretty, that's fine. it's very healthy. in fact, just as healthy as finding chicanas pretty. having to stick to just mexicanas in order to appear healthier in the eyes of others is ludacris. the very idea of anyone thinking it more healthy to like someone of our own kind sounds confining and borders on a polite form of racism. like whoever you want to , and be proud of who you are. i'm sure when the right girl comes along it won't really matter what race she is.

Thanks. Man I wish I knew someone who would say that to me. My family knows that I have a thing for Asian girls but they never really talk to me about relationships or anything. It's a topic that I would like to talk about since there is nothing else better to do. I just hope there are a lot of a Asian girls in Houston.

Finding a japanese girl wont the be the toughest part.. its dealing with their parents

Yeah I hope so. Now I don't care if it's a Japanese girl or not, just Asian. As weird (or possibly disgusting) it sounds, I would like to make friends with a AF for like 3 or 4 years then go out with her. I just hope to God I can be in a interracial relationship (preferebly an Asian) but it won't matter. That's why I want to be friends with a girl before going out with her. To keep myself picking anybody because of looks or race. So If I am friends with a girl and she is a non-Asian, it wouldn't matter cause I would love her too much of a friend.

But I guess I'm just weird but hey, I find my preference for Asians a good thing because it makes me who I am as a person. Just like how some find Latins and Whites attractive.

"As weird (or possibly disgusting) it sounds, I would like to make friends with a AF for like 3 or 4 years then go out with her."

I don't think I described this enough. What I mean is that I hope that my best friend in life "Happens" to be..an Asian Female.

It's not bad, since that's kinda what I want to do when establishing any relationship. Friendships really "just happen" though, IMO, so don't expect an instant rapport with any woman you meet, asian or not. You need to have a lot in common to make it work.

Man I really wrote this? I've changed a little bit since then. I'm not crazy about them now, not anymore. I guess it was just a small phase. Even though I still find Asians really attractive, I respect that because that's how God made me.

To Ultima Nemesis: I know a lot of Asians that are with Latinos. In fact, several of my family members are happily married to Latinos. I think it has to do with our similarities in culture (in our case-Catholicism, strong familal commitments, etc). So don't worry, one of these days you will find the Asian (or whatever) woman you been waiting for.

To Ally-Chan: What "little blue spot on all Asian babies"? I have never seen a "little blue spot" on any Asian babies. According to my mother, I never even had anything resembling a spot when I was born.

My best friend is Mexican American and he has a thing for asian chicks too........

My advice: Be very successful, otherwise you're not going to get any. People of color rank very low in the social hierarchy scale, especially to Asian girls. How many asian girls have you seen with latinos?

God didn't make you, your father's semen did.

Most japanese girls are overrated imo. The majority of the ones I've seen have unattractive features. That makes me cringe. The girls you see in japanese AVs and movies are not the same as your everyday japanese ladies in japan contrary to what most people believe.

I wonder how many of you guys watch Asian (Japanese) porn. Sh*t, I'm a spoiler.

young man you are expressing your normal worries for your age. I am a korean and the father of three korean females. my older daughter is married and has a child with a Salvadoran (caucasian looking man)and are very happily married for about 5 years now. they travel to korea and el salvador,and they have very little worry about how people look at them. They probably experienced more funny looks in korea,as most koreans are not used to see inter-racial couples. My other two daughters have dated asian, latinos,white,and blacks,without any bad experience so far. and they are very open minded. Ithink that inter-racial dating is not taboo any more. I see it in NY everyday. I got used to the cosmopolitan way of life. I think that probably inter-racial dating would be more scandalous in small cities and the suburbs. This does not mean that if you find a nice girl of your race you should ignore her in favor of japanese girl. Date different races if doesn't cause you trouble with your family,but even so,they will come to accept your choices if they love you.
Good luck.