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AngerManagement
Why Asians keep complaining about things everything?

People complain about Asian stereotype like submissive, nerdy, unviolented, Extremely high-educated...etc. Actually, all the race have their own stereotype. There are always some idiot haters keepin talkin [expletive] about minority. U guys really don't need to be surprised. Stereotype is hard to change. U guys just doin yourselves, that's all.

I know they're many Asians (especially those Taiwanese and Japanese from suburb) are really fit in stereotype. Just let them be. As long as they feel happy in their own world, then it's OK. The Asian who's worse than that is not dare to fight back the bullies (some stupid people think that we're easy to [expletive] around) but cry in back of them. It's totally how a bitch do.

I heard some of you complain about some people ask stupid questions to Asians. Wiat a minute, This kind of complaint always crack me off. C'mon, what's wrong with askin question? Just directly answer to them,that's all. Why don't you guys just chill out? Other people ask so-called "stupid question" just because they don't understand us. We're minority here. We're a lot fewer than Blacks and Hispanic. If u guys think it as dissing, then other people will never have chance to understand us. I know there are some people just make fun of us by askin question. U know why? because they think ur reaction is the way so [expletive]in funny like a lil girl or lil kid or something. It don't even need to be complained. This kind of complaint i think is totally stupid.

Other Asians complain abou other stuffs like parents (This is the most reasonable complaint, some Asian parents are such as a abnormal psyche bitch), Asian youth......etc. We're the luckiest minority. We really should enjoy our life. Don't think about those tiny nosense [expletive]. Try to have a good time. It makes you feel comfortable. Think about blacks and Hispanic. A lot of them have worse situation than us (You guys never know how's the [expletive]ed-up life in ghetto). I rarely hear complaint from them, so why sould we complain?
BasinBictory
You rarely hear complaints from Hispanics and Blacks? That's not what I see - there are lots of various protests I see from those communities, about anything and everything. On the contrary, I think Asians, by and large, complain far less than most other minorities. If you're basing this thread on what you see here at goldsea, then it's not highly representative of what you see in real life. I mean, Asians, I've observed, for the most part just do their own thing and don't give a goddamn about what everyone else thinks. When you hear Asians complaining, it's generally to each other, in the same manner you'd hear friends complaining about mutual acquaintances they don't like, or men complaining about women, or women complaining about men, or old people complaining about young people - in general, it comes to nothing, and mostly it's done in private.



IjinZalan
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You rarely hear complaints from Hispanics and Blacks?


Tell that to the school districts debating on teaching their kids ebonics or having spanish language ballots!!!! I'm with you there!

As for asians complaining too much..... maybe on these forums. I'm partially with you there!!!
IjinZalan
^ In addition to that, it would be a different way of reading the newspapers and cable news networks about the Katrina disaster in New Orleans if those very same blacks and hispanics, mostly blacks in this case, didn't complain as you once stated. I'd already seen my fair share of black leaders and journalists use the race card over the local, State, and Federal government's incompetent response to the flood victims of Katrina, esp. in New Orleans.

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I know they're many Asians (especially those Taiwanese and Japanese from suburb) are really fit in stereotype. Just let them be. As long as they feel happy in their own world, then it's OK. The Asian who's worse than that is not dare to fight back the bullies (some stupid people think that we're easy to [expletive] around) but cry in back of them. It's totally how a bitch do.


Yeah! Quite true! Those type of asians are pussies. What's wrong with the mentality of punching back when punched upon? Predators of the human kind such as bullies usually stop or lessen their attacks when their targets show some measure of resistence. Even the worst of bullies don't want to get hurt themselves, and in order to avoid such injury to body and/or pride, they go after easy targets. Just my opinion and experience. There are plenty of sadistic type of bullies out there who do more than just injury pride in ways that they would end up being tried as adults and serving time.

The funny part of all of this is that almost every race has something to complain about. Each believing that their troubles are more warrarnted than the rest. Why do you think AMerica has all these racial special interest groups from the NAACP, Anti-Jewish Defamation League, to fringe groups of rabble-rousers like the Aryan Brotherhood and hardcore gangs like Nuestra Familia (NF)?
gillette
zalan,

i'd say i'd agree with you...each group DOES have something to complain about.

however, some groups have VALID complains (meaning, blacks, hispanics, asians and, yes, jews to a certain extent) have faced racism/prejudice, often to the point of being denied the right to vote, own land, marry (within the race and outside of the race) and even to live. these are VALID complains, and groups like the NAACP and the Anit-Defamation League have served a worthwhile purpose.

the skin heads, etc., DON'T have valid issues. they're simply out of work bums/idiods who are mad at what THEY feel are their opportunities being taken away by 'others'. many of these racist groups also advocate violence on minorities and others that don't agree with them. thus, they not only don't have a valid issue, they often espouse illegal activity.

big difference from blacks/hispanics/asians and others that face REAL racism.
hewy00
I have to agree with pretty much everybody here except for Angermanagement. Sorry to call you out little brother, but you have not experienced enough of life to say some of the things you are saying. I checked your profile, and if your age is right, you will figure it out in time. These message boards are a forum for debate, complaint, or even just to see other peoples perspective. Most of it isn't complaining though. Maybe you and your homies never lived in a ghetto, but there are plenty of poor Asians living in ghettos, it's just that most Asians with money like to pretend like they aren't there, just like in Asia. I wish that all I had to complain about was my parents. I wish that there was no racism, injustice, disease, war, famine, etc to complain about. I personally am not really a complainer, but I will state an observation if I see it. I agree with Basin and Zalan, you do hear other races complaining, but when is the last time that Asians stood a protest in America? Gillette you are right, those special interest groups do serve a great purpose, but I do not think that Zalan was saying otherwise. I would agree that those organizations exist to protect the freedoms you mentioned, but I think that those freedoms are threatened, or have been threatened in the past, not necessarily by those particular extremist groups, but by the mindset of racial or ethnic superiority that drives them. That is what I interpreted what Zalan said to mean. Angermanagement, I hope that life never brings you pain, sorrow, loss, or suffering, because if it does then you might have something worse to complain about than strict asian parents.
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