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it is disgusting to have interracial marriage!

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it is disgusting to have interracial marriage!

frankly i have to ask, what makes you think so?

you may find the idea of romantically affiliating with certain people repulsive (as with all people), but are you prepared to say interracial marriage in and of itself disgusts you?

speaking from the perspective of a non-american westerner i find it utterly lamentable that some pockets of america have clung on to anti-miscegenation laws up until only a few years ago, and that a phenomenal percentage of americans still oppose interracial marriage. puzzling really.

don't you realize the historical agenda that such laws are designed to uphold? ever heard of the "one-drop" policy? i'm not american and i've heard of it.

-"The language of blood was most often used by southerners to explain their opposition to marriage."
-"Whiteness was easily corruptible and blackness was all-consuming."
-"This was the foundational fiction of the American racial dichotomy - blackness polluted and overpowered whiteness..."
(Romano 2003, pp. 47-8; my italic emphasis)

"We deplore the conditions which have poured a broad stream of white blood into black veins, but we deny that any appreciable amount of black blood has entered white veins. As disgraceful as the sins of some white men may have been, they may not in any way impaired the purity of the Southern Caucasian blood. Southern white women have preserved the integrity of their race, and there is no one who can today point the finger of suspicion in any manner whatsoever at the blood which flows in the veins of white sons and daughters of the south." -Senator Bilbo.

(All black references above are easily substituted with "colour" in general.)

Please, keep an open mind will you, lest that kind of racial propagandist language appeal to you. People of colour are really decent people once you get to know them, and whilst physically the don't conform perfectly to the america's ideals of beauty, they have the potential to be attractive to any person whose views of the world aren't tinted with prejudice. They make model husbands and wives.

-"With regard to the flourishing of the human species, skin colour is irrelevant.
-"Any two fertile human beings of a female-male pairing can produce progeny." (We are naturally compatible.)
(Thomas, 1999, p. 189).

Nature and/or God "has not provided any argument against the irrelevancy of skin colour or hair texture or ethnicity or what ever..." Only humans do.

Well scholar, you and I both know the problem doesn't lie with whites objecting to marriage of people with colour, but more specifically the objection is with white women having imtimacy with men of colour.

Those "white blood" which flowed into "black blood" were mostly women of colour that were raped by white men. White men had no objections with sex with any female. Their own mixed children were simply orphaned or sold into slavery.

American media is literally flooded with sexual scenes of white men and non white women. So lets be frank and admit, it isn't about mixing blood its all about sexual dominance by white men.

Heck no. I'm a white girl and I say asian guys are amazing. I also don't know why everyone says that asian men don't get the white girls because they certainly do.

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*LOL* It is easy for you to say!!! Please send me a white girl who love asian man.
I have been keeping my eyes and ears wide open.

Henry

Easy for more than just her to say. Just depends on the guy.
MTSG

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Sound like you disagree? Where's your contact info?

I agree with you 100% 'Observer!!!

Observer & Ironbar, have you ever thought what the scenes would be if Asian film makers had WF in their casts? I am sure it would match the WM Dominance with AM Dominance, if not surpass it. The male dominance culture that has saturated Asia since the rise of Confucianism is as strong or stronger than the concept of male dominance in western culture.

WM dominate all women in Hollywood because the money is in their hands and has been from the very beginning. Even Asian made historical dramas set to when some Asian cultures were matriarch still refuse to portray them as such. They may show powerful women, but only as evil and warped creatures who eventually are conquered by the glorious Asian male.

Get over it boys! You ALL tend to assume you are the dominant species, so stop the finger pointing. (Hmm, maybe its not fingers....)

As for the historical blood mixing crap that is a throw back to at least a half century ago, I challenge to you find any human race where such a thing has not been demonized or drop that whole line arguement.

Now that I have probably irritated every AM on this board, I will answer Phoneman's question (though already answered elsewhere).

Yes, I was agreeing with Barbie. I have always been attracted to East Asian men, though the prevalence of smokers in that group greatly reduces the field for me.

Personally,I do not find interracial marriage 'disgusting',but, I am opposed to it,and,regard it as being socially irresponsible and-therefore-immoral. However,I am not opposed to interracial dating &-therefore-sex: just interracial marriage &-by 'extension'-miscegenation.(Afterall the primary &/or fundamental purpose of marriage is the rearing of children.) Why am I opposed to interracial marriage/miscegenation? Because I firmly believe that it promotes disharmony between the races,&,causes confusion and future turmoil for any progeny produced. I am not opposed to interracial dating,but, I am not-exactly-for it either. Unlike interracial marriage,I believe,that,interracial dating has the capacity to promote harmony between the races.(So long as it isn't done on a large &/or disproportionate scale...and does not result in miscegenation.) It's natural for men and women to come together and etc,etc and to make offspring; but,the human race is more than mere animal. And, this 'more' is the reason why I believe,that, interracial marriage/miscegenation will always promote disharmony between the races.

That has me rather confused. Why would mariage bring disharmony, if dating promotes harmony? With the two so interralated, I fail to see how you consider them to have opposite effect on humanity? I might be able to understand (though disagree) if you considered casual friendships to have a less negative effect than dating and marriage. But once allowed the intimacy of dating, regardless of the depth of that intimacy, it should have a similar impact to marriages.

The only differentiation I can think of that would cause someone to view dating as more favorable to marriage in terms of interracial relations is when dating is a means to an end without committing to the responsibility of marriage. And if that were the case, it would no longer be in the best interest of interracial relations for that person to be even allow to date.

The difference I was thinking of reading that is the assumption that a couple who is just dating won't have children while if they're married they definitely will, and/or once you've married someone you're committed to someone of another race. People look at dating as if it doesn't have to lead to or be anything serious, so no harm done. Dating other races makes you just look "open-minded" and like we're all becoming more open-minded. However, if you marry someone of another race, people look at you as if you're "not coming back" to your race, you've chosen to "sell out"/hate your race and you're a lost cause. And so it might make people who have a problem with interracial couplings angrier than just seeing that couple date, accuse white men and white women or whoever of "stealing our women/men," etc.

Plus, people assume that interracial kids have all these mental/identity problems and/or want to be white and assume that some will pass/are passing. That bothers people because everyone wants to label and be able to tell quickly and accurately what race someone is, and they want people to identify as the race they're labeled as not all this "hapa" stuff or saying "I'm neither black nor white--I'm multiracial" or whatever. I've seen so many try to say that biracial and multiracial kids will singlehandedly eliminate entire races, and if you're Asian or Latino I can see where you're coming from if you believe that because the kids do get lighter and lighter very quickly from generation to generation if your family keeps marrying whites (in addition to so many mixed kids not wanting to identify/label themselves "Asian" or "black" and so on).

Me too! It really depends on the guy though. But I almost always go for asian men over white men.

I'm a white woman and I think Asian met are HOT!!! If you are interested in a white lady then ask her out. I can't tell you how many times I was friendly and flirted with Asian men (Chinese and Thai) and they never asked me out. I would have loved to have a chance to get to know them better. Best of luck to you in your search.

Why don't you flirt with me then? I am never that lucky, darn it!