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ASIAN FEMALE/ CAUCASIAN MALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated
Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:32:07 PM
to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)
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WHAT YOU SAY
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"Why should a girl only be able to date within their own race?"
Likewise for guys. How do you define race? Chinese or Asian American or Asian? Does you or your family consider Chinese to be a race, which means if you dated a Korean, you are marrying outside your race?
Indian Female
Monday, March 04, 2002 at 09:50:56 (PST)
"Do most Indian women *like* arranged marriages, or want to have an arranged marriage or not?"
Most have no other options. Back home some do not even know that there is another option or other options. But, educated ones do not like arranged marriages...more than half anyway.
Also, do some of these women dream of marrying men not of their race?
If we dream of marrying men of another caste, or someone of the same caste who our families disapprove off, it is considered modern. So, let us not even talk of race.
"I had an Indian schoolmate and she was saying that her older sister didn't want to have an arranged marriage/get married so she decided to pursue her masters' degree to gain some time. But of course, she ended having to marry an Indian guy in her country anyway. (She lives in the U.S. They got the Indian guy from India) Although my schoolmate said her older sister is "happy" to be married now."
I have sympathies for Indian women who are forced to marry back home. This Indian woman had an option like other white women to marry someone not arranged or of a different caste or race. She is as weak-kneed or perhaps gave into the "racism" of her folks..of course I would not call this racism..because Hinduism is unique to Indians (except Balinese)...but if they had insisted that she marries within her own caste and she did...it is no different from white women marrying a white male becuase her employer or parents forced her into it. Both the white women in this country and the Indian woman you are talking about have opportunities in this country. If I defy my parents, I am much less likely to end up in the streets here in the US than back home.
"I remembered a looooooong time ago in the Philippines, we also had arranged marriages."
They still have it in Japan and in the rural areas of China...I am not sure about Korea or Vietnam.
Indian Female
Monday, March 04, 2002 at 09:49:17 (PST)
"I have never dated a Caucasian male. The guys I dated were either Asian, Hispanic, or African-American. I'd rather date someone who understands my position in society as a minority, and truthfully thats something that most caucasians can't relate to."
Would this person be considered sell out too if in case she ends up marrying a black person? Or is it a term that is reserved only for Asian females who marry white men?
Korean
Monday, March 04, 2002 at 09:41:11 (PST)
Filipina/Catholic Girl:
I've not noticed much difference--though it does seem to me that some of the American born girls tend to be more self-conscious and less relaxed early on than those born in their native country. On the other hand, the girls born here will respond in English during coitus while the girls born elsewhere will respond in either English or their native language.
In any case, Asian women are great lovers and that's all there is to that.
WM Whose loved many AFs
Monday, March 04, 2002 at 09:23:55 (PST)
22 year old Filipina/Catholic Girl ~_~,
I'm not caucasian. But I have had intercouse with AA and asian women in Asia.
The only real difference is that causal sex culture of the USA, allows information on sex to be shared pretty freely among women. So there would be situation where some of my sexual partners would suggest ideas their friends gave them.
In Asia, where virginity is a norm to marriage. None of the women I was with wanted it to be known that they were sexually active among their peers, let alone take sexual advise from a friend.
AC Dropout
Monday, March 04, 2002 at 08:15:49 (PST)
I realize that there are many cultural differences between, people from india and anglos who think they are American. I am sure there are many expectations and desires of fullfilment. Culture amounts to very little, the Anglo laws in this country will dictate your actions. Good luck to that guy who thinks he is American. I hate the English, I hate the Anglo Politician... They still think they are living in England. They should go back to England. Maybe if they had to wage war against their own kind and never be recognized by American society they would know how I feel. No monuments, accept for Foitimes.com
You should give some of the white guys a chance. Stay away from the Anglo, unless you want to divorce them and take their money.
Not my laws, not my language, not my country. Put that in your minority mentality.
Albi
Monday, March 04, 2002 at 07:55:39 (PST)
To Chinese Girl,
It seems to me that the only person living a double standard is you. And I quote "I have dated only whites"...which isn't a bad statement unto itself but it's how you present it China Girl...it's as if you're "beneath all the racial stuff" but in actuality you're just another self-hating asian person in this forum. Your dating preferences IS purely based on race, therefore you are not as "open-minded" as you would like to think you are. China girl, if you haven't dated an asian man nor any other minority for that matter, then I think your self-righteous, single minded theories on asian race relations are totally off base...do it for love she says...yeah then how come you don't anyone but whitey? think about it..maybe you'll learn something about yourself...
Ghost Writer NYC-You can hate me but you can't shut me down
"Revolution is the fuse that ignites change"
Ghost Writer NYC
Monday, March 04, 2002 at 06:00:03 (PST)
Still Silly,
Indians and Arabs are probably the most conservative of all Asian groups and their culture still remains quite archaic.
I totally agree w/ all of Indian Female's statements.
Jay... the hapa who knows what's up
Sunday, March 03, 2002 at 23:08:08 (PST)
AFs,
What is your idea of a dream WM? Coloring, height, weight, personal qualities?
hotpicks
Sunday, March 03, 2002 at 20:22:27 (PST)
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