Asian Women & Caucasian Men Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN FEMALE/ CAUCASIAN MALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:32:32 PM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian female, which of the following most attracts you to Caucasian males?
Their facial features | 56%
Their physique | 11%
Their attitude and personality | 29%
Their education & cultural values | 4%

Assuming you are an Asian female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Caucasian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 13%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 74%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 13%

Assuming you are a Caucasian male, which of the following most attracts you to Asian females?
Their facial features | 66%
Their physique | 14%
Their attitude and personality | 17%
Their education & cultural values | 3%

Assuming you are a Caucasian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 76%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 15%

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I tell you there are a lot of picky people in this world. It is amasing to me how much people bitch and moan about food styles. We should just be happy that we have food. Alergies are of course an exception, as many a jew can testify.

My advice for introducing foreign food elements is to do it in stages.

Stage one, sneak a little asian basil in his favorite meal. They do this with many caged animals so it will probably work for the white man. Then remark at how proud you are of him for digesting this foreign matter.

Stage two, ask him if he has ever been to an ethnic grocery store, if not take him on a field trip. Make sure to bring something with you from his culture for when times get rough, like a generic chocolate bar.

Stage three, let him touch the food, sniff it and carry it around the store, and play with it. But when he gets to excited, rub his belly. But only in the direction of the hair follicles. He does not need any extra stimulation at this time...

Stage four (false empowerment), ask him to think of something you can prepare for him using his new play toys. Let him pay for the food at the register, this gives him a feeling of ownership.

Stage five, political propaganda. Have some of his most ethnic pals call and talk about how they love asian food. Have them ask him if he has ever eaten some unknown dish.

Stage six, introduce the food. In a dark setting. Use sex as a distraction. Later on you can introduce the food with the lights on. But the first full fledged asian food experience is a critical time so be careful. Play some very comforting and familiar ethnic music.

Stage seven, let him wash the dishes. This will allow him to feel more empowered.

Stage eight, screw his brains out so he has forgotten what he ate. The next time he eats it. You can say, "well you weren't complaining that night..." And he will be to confused to complain.

Albi friend to asian woman jmushorn@yahoo.com Wednesday, July 03, 2002 at 15:46:00 (PDT)

Ed,

I guess you didn't post my last post. I'm dissappointed, since you let my apes***-rage filled post go to waste. I'm not always sugar and spice, you know. =P But oh well. Everyone knows that Todd's a moron anyway. Take care everyone, I guess I've worn out my welcome here. I'll always be proud to be Korean AND Irish.
Shannon Jung -- I AM Asian, Goddammit! =) Wednesday, July 03, 2002 at 11:40:29 (PDT)

thunyi,

A person could still love you while not loving certain types of food. It could definitely still work between you and your bf. But, be aware, if a person is unwilling to be understanding of your background that could be a bad sign. In which case you could do much better.
wishing you the best Wednesday, July 03, 2002 at 11:37:43 (PDT)

I'm a white male who dated an Asian female for awhile. We had so much fun together, and I was starting to fall in love with her. I think she was starting to fall in love with me too. Then one day, she tells me she has to break off our relationship because her parents won't let her marry anyone except her own people. She told me that she just couldn't upset her parents. She even said that they had someone picked out for her. I couldn't believe it. She was dumping me for a man she didn't even know! To say the least, I was heart-broken. This was the first Asian woman I had ever dated. Maybe she was just using me to have some fun because she knew this was coming, I don't know. I'm not opposed to dating Asian woman again, but it left a bitter taste in my mouth. She obviously chose tradition over love. I would just like to get other Asian women's opinions on this subject. I would like to know if a lot of Asian women are like this, or if I just happened to be unlucky in my relationship.
Heart-broken in MN Wednesday, July 03, 2002 at 10:46:47 (PDT)

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