Asian Women & Caucasian Men Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN FEMALE/ CAUCASIAN MALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:32:31 PM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian female, which of the following most attracts you to Caucasian males?
Their facial features | 56%
Their physique | 11%
Their attitude and personality | 29%
Their education & cultural values | 4%

Assuming you are an Asian female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Caucasian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 13%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 74%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 13%

Assuming you are a Caucasian male, which of the following most attracts you to Asian females?
Their facial features | 66%
Their physique | 14%
Their attitude and personality | 17%
Their education & cultural values | 3%

Assuming you are a Caucasian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 76%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 15%

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I hate being stared at, but when I am with a white man, I get stared at even more. I hate that. I get stared at when I am alone too, and find that extremely uncomfortable but someone told me it was probably because I am pretty. I still find that hard to believe (low self-esteem, I know I've been told) most days, but when I am happy, I don't feel as if I look 1/2 bad. Still, the staring is very uncomfortable. When I am with an Asian guy, I don't usually get stared at as much, but I don't often get asked out by Asian guys. What's the solution to this problem? Add in another complex - afraid to approach men I am interested in. Must let them approach me (and this doesn't happen very often)
some aa girl Sunday, July 07, 2002 at 10:58:43 (PDT)

WM who's been there and gotten over it,

He couldnt even eat Goi cuon. Thats how bad he is. How can I bring him home to my parents if he not going to be open. Anyways, food was just an example I used. My concern is more of culture. He wouldnt even go to the Asian Festival with me. He is a true hard core all American boy. Baseball and all that.

Thanks for your advices. Your ex- girlfriend was a lucky girl and she didnt know it.
thuyni Saturday, July 06, 2002 at 20:20:29 (PDT)

Heart-Broken in MN,

Sorry to hear about your situation. However, I was also in the same situation and what a coincident, I use to live in MN too. My parents were the same way. They wanted me to marry an asian man but specifically a Vietnamese man. So, even if I was dating a Cambodian/Chinese man it was still forbidden. Whats worse growing up in the subarbs of MN, you dont see much asians period. Its also tough because my parents were involved in the community. And saving face is a big thing. So yes, I did gave up a lot of opportunity to date Caucasian and other Asian men because I knew I couldnt go beyond than friendship. I did end up marrying a Vietnamese man but 3 months later, he divorced me because it was okay for his family to dish mine but not okay for me to dish his. Two years later, I met a wonderful Caucasian man and finally my parents accepted him but even if they didnt I think the more older I got, the more confident I was to stand up against my parents. I did pay the price.

I think your ex-girlfriend was also a first generation Asian like myself. We are still very traditional yet Americanized in some ways. I am sure it was very difficult for her as it was for you. Just appreciate what good times you both had with each other. Who knows what will happen in the next few years. Good Luck.
Ngoc Saturday, July 06, 2002 at 20:11:48 (PDT)

Albi friend to asian woman

What I meant was having trouble with my Caucasian boyfriend not being open to my culture. Food was just an example! So you can keep you stupid 8 stages to yourself.
thuyni Saturday, July 06, 2002 at 19:52:14 (PDT)

Todd,

What do you mean by chinese women are easier for you to handle? You sound like such a weenie! I doubt if any AW are even giving you the time of day. I think your full of it.
disgusted! Saturday, July 06, 2002 at 14:13:35 (PDT)

"Stage eight, screw his brains out so he has forgotten what he ate. The next time he eats it. You can say, "well you weren't complaining that night..." And he will be to confused to complain.
Albi friend to asian woman Wednesday,Jyly 03,2002 at 15:46:00 (PDT)

I don't believe in that. It is letting the woman have complete control. I think the man should be in total control of absolutely everything in his life. This may even include a woman who is complaining entirely too much. I find that women who complain have no discipline. I have found that discipline will fix the entire situation when there are difficulties in a relationship with an Asian Woman. Don't take it the wrong way. Discipline also works when applied to White Women too. Asian Women just recieve it easier when it is given in a strict yet caring way. If you demand respect, you will get respect. It has always worked for me.
Todd Friday, July 05, 2002 at 23:35:36 (PDT)

Albi,

Are you as moronic as your posts?
ANTI-Albi Friday, July 05, 2002 at 18:53:34 (PDT)

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