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ASIAN FEMALE/ CAUCASIAN MALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:32:23 PM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian female, which of the following most attracts you to Caucasian males?
Their facial features | 56%
Their physique | 11%
Their attitude and personality | 29%
Their education & cultural values | 4%

Assuming you are an Asian female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Caucasian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 13%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 74%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 13%
Assuming you are a Caucasian male, which of the following most attracts you to Asian females?
Their facial features | 66%
Their physique | 14%
Their attitude and personality | 17%
Their education & cultural values | 3%

Assuming you are a Caucasian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 76%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 15%




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Ya'll do realize that a lot of folks like me have come to exist because of relationships between WMs and AFs like my mom and dad. While I don't think that WMs who go after AFs EXCLUSIVELY are doing the right thing, those who happen to meet, find themselves attracted to, fall in love with and marry Asian Females because of them being attracted to them as women, not as "Asian women" are okay in my book. Usually these fellows have Asian Male friends which is a sign that they're not weird or stupid.

Plus, I'm all for having me and mine existing in this world...
Andrew Xiaoliang Campbell    Tuesday, August 20, 2002 at 08:16:17 (PDT)
Ive never slept with an Asian guy before

OK, i know im going to cop abuse for this but im going to be upfront and honest (and anonymous) here

Im an AF,24, Ive only slept with WM before. Before i get labelled, just to clarify i have only had two boyfriends, both WM and they are therefore the only guys i have slept with.Ive never had a one night stand before and i dont sleep around.

Ive really fancied black guys too and although i havent had much chance to meet them, my two times that I have hooked up with black guys were fantastic. Even though i have only had make out sessions with them, i find black guys VERY masculine, confident in what they are doing and a turn on.I have always fantasised about making love to a black guy but that has not happened as yet.

As for Asian guys ive never really been attracted to a great deal of them. Even when i kissed a Eurasian guy (Dutch/Indonesian) it felt really weird and the same chemicals that go round when I hook up with WM or BM, i just dont get when i have any sorts of experiecnes with Asian guys. I dont have the same "animal" instinct that I get when i see other guys. Strange?

Recently i have met an AM at a hiphop club i frequent. He is a dark Filipino guy, pretty masculine, and has been chasing me round for weeks and weeks. We dont click on an intellectual or emotional level but i have thought about what it would be like to have sex with an Asian guy, what the experience would be like, so i can compare it to my experiences with WM.

Is it crude to say that I am thinking of just spending a night with this guy just to see what it is like to be with an AM? Or is that just terrible, and degrading?

Can anyone see where i am coming from?
Is it bad to experiment a little?
AF Curious about AM ANON    Tuesday, August 20, 2002 at 01:40:56 (PDT)

Lovergirl,

I think you unknowingly, but beautifully illustrated A.D.C's point of preconditioned notions of beauty. I do not condone or condemn AF/WM relations, but just listen to yourself. Duh!
Do you realize why you're saying all that stuff?    Monday, August 19, 2002 at 13:55:32 (PDT)
JC,

i agree.....it's all well and good to go after AF's but if you don't have any AM friends that's hardly a balanced way of going about it.
maxdacat    Tuesday, August 13, 2002 at 15:12:39 (PDT)
"Asian men hot and white men ugly"?
A.D.C., in your dreams. White men are so much hotter than Asian men. I love their hair, their eyes and their white skin. Gorgeous blue eyes can make my heart melt. White men have always treated me better and with more sensitivity and understanding. An Asian man is not capable of giving me that certain feeling that a White man does. I am not saying that I don't think Asian men can make good lovers. I am only telling you that White men are more physically attractive.
lover girl    Tuesday, August 13, 2002 at 12:56:12 (PDT)
So Rob,

Where does this special bond come from. How many Asian male friends do you have? If not many, why don't you bond with them. Did you undergo the same challenges while growing up as Asians?
JC    Friday, August 09, 2002 at 06:54:45 (PDT)
Looks are all conditioned. 20 years ago people thought that Blacks were ugly. But after years of seeing Blacks on TV and in sports, people have begun to think Denzal Washington, etc. are attractive.

If we grew up in a society where you saw aminly Asian faces on TV, you would think Asian men are hot and white men are ugly.
A.D.C.    Thursday, August 08, 2002 at 08:36:35 (PDT)
It takes more than what that guy did to be a gentleman, wierdo......respect for one. Any guy can do what he did, and be a total jerk and have ulterior motives. There's a lot more to it than that.
T.B.    Wednesday, August 07, 2002 at 18:43:16 (PDT)
It's very true that there is a special bond between asian females and white males. Speaking as I white male I can say I'm friends with many asian girls and I'm attracted to quite a few as well! It's cool with me ;)
Rob doncherry93@hotmail.com    Wednesday, August 07, 2002 at 15:13:44 (PDT)

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