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ASIAN FEMALE/ CAUCASIAN MALE RELATIONSHIPS
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Malaysian Chinese Girl,
What I'm saying is that I had a gut feeling that Malaysian people are mixed. The name Malaysian sounds like very Hapa. As you all stated, its a mix of Indian,Chinese and something else. So its a Hapa culture. Don't worry, I have no problem with Hapa people. I just was curious about it and found out that I was right. Malaysians are mixed people. So which ethnicity in your heritage do you appear more like in face features etc.? Your Indian heritage? Chines heritage? Or the something else one? You will have to forgive me, I had a couple of Heinekens with my golf buddies and just got home. So I'm a bit plastered right now.
its the Todster!! yeehah!
Tuesday, September 17, 2002 at 00:34:33 (PDT)
[205.188.208.136]
I'm an AF, and I LOVE MY MAN!
He's Caucasian, but I'd love him just the same if he's Asian, African, Latino, etc.
Kimi
Saturday, September 14, 2002 at 21:04:24 (PDT)
[4.60.201.84]
I love asian women. They are beautiful and different.
john
Saturday, September 14, 2002 at 00:19:58 (PDT)
[203.63.235.11]
Question for the Asian girls.
I am an AF Just recently been seeing an AM. From my experience with him and discussions with my AM friends, Im finding that AM are MORE "dirty" than WM. I always thought it was the opposite, that AM were conservative, well-behaved, dont sleep around etc but seems to not be the case.
When produced with a condom, this particular AM refused to wear it. He admitted that he has never used one in his life, saying that it is good enough that the girl is on the pill. I asked him how many partners he had, when i heard the answer I nearly died.
Another AM friend of mine admitted that he got his ex pregnant twice, she had an abortion, he never used contraception and neither did she.
Ive never slept with a black guy before, when i hooked up with one some months ago, he also didnt have protection and didnt care about it. This in my opinion is pretty dirty and because of this i refused to "complete" the transaction with him. (much to my disappointment)
To date, I have only slept with white guys and the mentality that we have about protection has been the same. They always bring protection, and so do I. It is not even debated about. Maybe it is a cultural thing i dont know. The people i have been with have also had less than 5 partners, me being also in that category which i think is clean.
Feedback appreciated.
Safe sex AF
Friday, September 13, 2002 at 22:38:15 (PDT)
[139.134.64.153]
OK, this may be off topic but anyhow... I'm just curious about what American born Asian girls think about white guys, in terms of relationships and so on.. I've met a few Asian girls in the past but I find that there is something fascinating about Asian American girls, they have something from both worlds... anyway, just sharing my opinion, and of course, that's not a generalisation...
cheers
Jorg
Friday, September 13, 2002 at 22:02:09 (PDT)
[65.92.58.202]
AC girl said: "I have always felt more compfortable dating white men. I am not really sure why, but I have always felt more relaxed. I am only a tad bit attracted to asian men. ...I really have strong hopes of marrying a wonderful white man someday. Someone who will make my parents see they have no authority over me anymore. That will show them. I can't wait to see the looks on their faces!"
I used to notice a lot of AF (as well as some AM) thinking the same way you do. This was over a decade ago (almost two) when there weren't as many asian immigrants as there are now. White men and women were glorified in the media, AW were built up as mysterious geisha-types, while AM either hardly ever existed, or were portrayed as a side joke to make WM look good. And unfortunately a lot of asian females born in the west bought into all that.
There used to be a lot of asians who would desperately want to only date whites as a result of "image" and representation. Even if they weren't aware of it.
With the younger generation of asians(who are more cynical about representation in the media), there really is no difference between dating people of either race. Also, with many asian immigrants coming along (with different individual backgrounds), stereotypes are subtlely diminished.
I'm actually noticing a trend where more and more western born asian females date "Fobs" (new asian immigrants). This would be something avoided at all costs by western born asian females many years ago.
Jan
Friday, September 13, 2002 at 17:02:29 (PDT)
[66.185.85.81]
todd,
I still don't really get what you mean? Sorry? Please explain?
Malaysian Chinese Girl??
Thursday, September 12, 2002 at 17:03:46 (PDT)
[161.142.100.81]
TODD! Malaysian is not necessarily hapa! You are so stupid! You have no regard for people.
another Malaysian Woman
Thursday, September 12, 2002 at 13:10:50 (PDT)
[205.188.208.136]
Malaysia Chinese girl,
I had a gut feeling that it had to do with being Hapa. It sounded like a mixture but I wasn't really sure. I did some research on it today. The women are "Okay" looking. Not the best. I still say Chinese women are the hottest angels! YEAAAHHhh! Its just hard to find any single ones around. Men snatch them up like roses! Damn it! Leave some for the Todster dudes!
Todd
Wednesday, September 11, 2002 at 13:25:01 (PDT)
[64.12.96.237]
Todd:
Your question reminds of my life in America. Whites used to ask an Asian American friend of mine, "are you really considered American?" Guess, now you have elevated the American ignorance to a higher level by saying, "Are you really considered to be an Asian woman? Isn't both Malaysian and Indian considered something else? A category of its own?"
Americans need to snap out of their ignorance.
From Singapore
Tuesday, September 10, 2002 at 11:11:59 (PDT)
[138.220.70.76]
Todd,
Malaysians consist of different ethnic groups. Whether it's Indian, Chinese, Eurasian, Malay etc. You can't really define Malaysians as only one ethnic group. Malaysia is situated in south east asia and it's part of the asian region. So, Malaysian Indian Gal is Asian.
Malaysian Chinese Girl??
Tuesday, September 10, 2002 at 05:14:48 (PDT)
[161.142.100.81]
Malaysian Indian Gal,
Are you really considered to be an Asian woman? Isn't both Malaysian and Indian considered something else? A category of its own? Are there any Asian women who are Chinese on here? I absolutely love Chinese women. Korean women are a little too tough to handle. Chinese women are so delicate like little dolls. I have dated plenty of dimwitted White women. I have dated some Korean women that killed my bank account and wallet. Chinese women? Man their perfect! They don't ask for all of your money. I notice that alot of them around here are already in a relationship. Where are all the available Chinese women? Is there a place to meet them exclusively? I met a few at some places here. Not a whole lot though. Man their sweet! Hey, help the Todster out a little. Where are all the sexy Chinese ladies?
Todd
Sunday, September 08, 2002 at 07:30:38 (PDT)
[152.163.189.232]
I think Todd is some sore asian guy pretending to be white just to make us look bad.
Don˘Ąt pay any atention to this loser!
franc
Thursday, September 05, 2002 at 20:48:46 (PDT)
[196.40.43.74]
Todd,
Shut up!
Denise,
Sounds to me that you used a guy, so how could that be so bad if you didn˘Ąt get sentimentally hurt?. Anyways, How could you have unprotected sex with a stranger?
franc
Thursday, September 05, 2002 at 11:49:49 (PDT)
[196.40.43.74]
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