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ASIAN FEMALE/ CAUCASIAN MALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:32:17 PM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian female, which of the following most attracts you to Caucasian males?
Their facial features | 56%
Their physique | 11%
Their attitude and personality | 29%
Their education & cultural values | 4%

Assuming you are an Asian female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Caucasian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 13%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 74%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 13%
Assuming you are a Caucasian male, which of the following most attracts you to Asian females?
Their facial features | 66%
Their physique | 14%
Their attitude and personality | 17%
Their education & cultural values | 3%

Assuming you are a Caucasian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 76%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 15%



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WHAT YOU SAY

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Whatever,

No I don't know Mike or Napkin. Nope. Sorry.
Todd    Monday, October 07, 2002 at 10:20:30 (PDT)    [64.12.96.237]
Malaysian Chinese Girl,

Its a fact that tall women have the worst attitudes. Just look at how they are taller than men, and they look down at them. They also go out of their way to wear heels to appear taller. I also think they feel they are in charge or something. I can't stand tall women. Dainty little chinese women are my style!
Todd    Monday, October 07, 2002 at 10:19:17 (PDT)    [64.12.96.237]
Hi from Europe!
Hey I like Asian girls actually the first girl with whom I fell in love when I was 9 :) had Asian facial features. Today I have for an e-pal a girl from South East Asia and she is great. But when she compare herself with white women she has body image problems with her height and breast size. When she is down I like to give her my favorite example-when I was 20 I really liked a girl that was 185 cm high-3 cm higher than I am. Neither her height nor her “whiteness” prevented her to be mediocre and dull. So she was just a façade-an elegant one but nothing more. And I can guarantee that not all white men are totally mad about gigantic breasts :) I need a lot more than fake facade and big udder.
I    Tuesday, October 01, 2002 at 23:27:19 (PDT)    [212.72.201.33]
Todd,
But that doesn't mean that all tall Asian girls are like what you said. You are stereotyping
Malaysian Chinese Girl??    Tuesday, October 01, 2002 at 16:43:54 (PDT)    [161.142.100.81]
Todd,

Height has nothing to do with attitude. I'm 5'0 tall and I am by no means submissive. Height is just a genetic thing, I've known many submissive tall girls and many feisty short girls. Just say you prefer short women in general, stop making lame excuses. Furthermore, sounds like you're looking for a geisha versus a person to date. In that case why don't you get a mail order bride from the East.

by the way, do you know Mike and Nakapan? You remind me of a Todd I know.
Whatever.    Tuesday, October 01, 2002 at 14:02:32 (PDT)    [209.48.201.27]
It is a very difficult issue. Very sensitive for everybody involved. There is no answer. But what should somebody do when they have to choose? Family or the man they love?
Leera Motin-Asian Muslim. London_Udine@Lycos.com    Tuesday, October 01, 2002 at 09:54:39 (PDT)    [213.122.153.71]
Hey Kimora,
Your attitude is exactly why I don't deal with Hapa women. Look, I'm not trying to make you feel bad but you need to show some respect ya silly broad. You are on our forum for us White men that love Asian Women. This forum is not really about Hapa culture. So go take your anger to the Hapa forum and cry to other Hapas!
Todd    Tuesday, October 01, 2002 at 04:39:42 (PDT)    [64.12.96.237]
Malaysian Chinese Girl,

This isn't really the place to discuss height. I will say that I prefer short little Asian women because they are adorable. They are little angel dolls sent down from heaven. I have dated tall women before. The tall White women were complete witches that had no respect for men. All of that women's ammendment stuff, and ["I can do what I want Todd, you don't tell ME what to do"] The tall Korean women were too hard to handle and wanted to smart off with an answer for everything. BIG sign of disrespect in my rule book. When I started dating shorter Asian women there was a difference. They were the complete opposite. They really know how to appreciate a tall average looking guy like me. Enough on height. Alrighty then, now back on the subject of why else I love Asian women :P
Todd    Tuesday, October 01, 2002 at 04:30:03 (PDT)    [64.12.96.237]

Todd,
what do you mean tall asian girls have major issues in life? What is that supposed to mean?
Malaysian Chinese Girl??    Sunday, September 29, 2002 at 17:05:49 (PDT)    [161.142.100.81]
Was it pounds or Kilos? Yes, there is a difference. I had a dog that weighed more than 78 pounds. And that is not to say that you couldn't be just as good.

The problem I face with short women is that I like to walk and my legs are so long that they can't keep up. It is no wonder the mongols were good on horses.

I like short women because you can stand in line and see what is in front too. And they can clean areas where tall people cannot reach. And they take up less space in the car.

In closing, they are also more exciting in bed. Tall women can only perform a few exercises.
Albiyes    Sunday, September 29, 2002 at 14:47:00 (PDT)    [68.98.93.175]
Pure Chinese gal, I like short asian girls. They are so cute and adorable. They don't give their men much trouble. I really love that about them. Tall ones have major issues with life!
Todd    Sunday, September 29, 2002 at 12:22:19 (PDT)    [152.163.189.232]
Tod you are an idiot

hapa by culture????????????? omg you are so stupid. do you even know what hapa means?? if you don't even know the meaning of the word, stop using it. i am hapa myself. let me drop some knowledge on your stupid ass. hapa is a short term for hapajin which refers to people who are half white and half japanese. thank you very much. there is no such thing as "hapa by culture". if you mean a mixed population then say just that. and east indians as well as malaysians are infact asian being that both those countries are parts of asia. stupid idiot. just becuase certain groups are not as slant eyed as others does not mean they aren't asian.

stupid people like you need to shut up.
kimora girlafraid@sonnet.com    Friday, September 27, 2002 at 18:08:20 (PDT)    [67.120.80.9]
Marcopolo,

Stop trying to blame other people for your divorce. I am sure that you had something to do with it. Divorces are rarely that one-sided. Especially given the way you are criticizing people. If you own up to your own shortcomings, maybe you will mature.
Mag    Friday, September 27, 2002 at 10:27:18 (PDT)    [165.123.243.13]
AJB,

i'm not sure if it's nice to compare someone to your dog!.....but yeah when i think i weigh nearly 78 kilos that is pretty damn light.
maxdacat    Friday, September 27, 2002 at 01:20:27 (PDT)    [129.227.32.34]
md

"sometimes I think of how nice it would be to have an AM/WF couple as friends."

I would too but there are so little of their pairing to even have them as friends. Still mostly AF/WM couples instead. Why can't there be more AM/WF couples? Are they that rare to find?

Pure Chinese Gal

"I just wondering am I really TOO short or something, I'm like 4"11 and 78 pounds"

YES You are! Even my dog weighs heavier than you! You sound like a damn 12 year old child with those measurements.
AJB    Tuesday, September 24, 2002 at 16:11:22 (PDT)    [199.174.224.42]
Pure Chinese Gal,

Yeah you are pretty short. But there are white gals your height.
Eric    Saturday, September 21, 2002 at 19:00:57 (PDT)    [205.188.208.136]
well i'm recently divorced from my af wife due to her family's constant disapproval, mostly her mother (she had ambitions of fixing her up with her best friend's nephew -AM) and her brother (racist AM, once told me to stick to my own kind since i was a dirty foreigner)they basically wouldn't let her visit if i was with her and her sisters and father didn't help, so she eventually caved in and asked for a divorce. no parents, no siblings, no aunts uncles or cousins or grandparents, she couldn't live like that. she wanted me to promise to never date or marry another AF. I wonder why she'd say something so dumb.
marcopolo    Saturday, September 21, 2002 at 13:22:35 (PDT)    [65.94.232.216]
Heya people ;) I'm a Chinese gal, 17, and I live in Hong Kong. I dunno - I just think caucasian guys are hot - I mean... lol, way cuter than Chinese guys.

People say I'm hot n stuff... well I just kinda fall for blond hair, blue eyes lol. Actually, I really think that Chinese guys are kinda ugly.

My first language is English actually - my second language is Chinese (I mean - Cantonese). See, I lived in Canada when I was like 2 years old and when I was like 9, I went back to HK.

My ma's.. just kinda doesn't REALLY want me to marry a caucasian guy - NO IDEA A LA. So crazy* - racist. I just wondering am I really TOO short or something, I'm like 4"11 and 78 pounds.
Pure Chinese Gal    Thursday, September 19, 2002 at 08:49:01 (PDT)    [203.218.99.249]
I just happen to be scrolling through the archives and came across the post from "AM transplant in CA". Your outlook is most refreshing! Being married to a WM myself, I've often wondered (secretly to myself) what my fellow AMs or AFs REALLY think. I've obviously found many opinions here. However, I couldn't agree with you more. As a matter of fact, sometimes I think of how nice it would be to have an AM/WF couple as friends.

By the way, as a native CA gal I would be delighted to be on the recieving end of one of your friendly hellos!
md    Wednesday, September 18, 2002 at 22:59:49 (PDT)    [205.188.208.136]
I am Albiyes. Some of you may remember me. I was the one who had a Grandfather placed in an internment camp because he was of germanic decent.

Well, surprise I joined the Navy. I saw ads on this site and it sucked me in. I don't have the same attraction to Asian women that I used to have, ever since my girlfriend gave me the heave ho for joining the Navy.

But I will always have a special place in my heart for Kyung Hwa Lee. She was the best girlfriend a guy could ever have... I miss her.
Albiyes jmushorn@yahoo.com    Wednesday, September 18, 2002 at 19:37:53 (PDT)    [68.99.225.225]
If you're malaysian chinese that normally means your parents came from somewhere in China (village) maybe two generations back to escape from war in general (with japanese at the time)

therefore, you are basically chinese, but since you were born in malaysia, you call yourself malaysian chinese. there's nothing 'hapa' (what an interesting word) about being malaysian chinese at all. however, malaysian chinese girls are not like girls from china, simply because they were born in malaysia and thus grew up with the different culture and stuff.

it's just like saying, i'm american chinese because you were born in america but came here from china.

in general. and yes, i'm malaysian chinese myself.

safe sex AF, i think your experience with azn guys is probably a bit limited, two guys only you know didn't use condoms? just stay away from them, you don't need to get pregnant and they don't need the baby. most of my friends are asian and i know tons of azn guys who would never do such a thing. it may be a cultural thing as you say but don't limit yourself.
kate (af)    Wednesday, September 18, 2002 at 09:53:24 (PDT)    [203.29.131.3]
Todd,

you are such a dick....don't you get it....Malaysian chinese means a person of Malaysian nationality who is ethnically chinese.....it's got nothing to do with being hapa

there are Malaysians of indian, chinese, other and of course malaysian ethnicity, and probably a small percentage of a mix of all these

Not all Malaysian people are mixed.....your gut feeling is WRONG you moron.......if you said that in Malaysia you would be shot and rightly so!
maxdacat    Wednesday, September 18, 2002 at 01:37:49 (PDT)    [129.227.32.34]
Todd,
Ummm.........the truth is, Malaysians consist of different ethnic groups. There are all kinds of races over here in Malaysia like Chinese, Indian, Malay, Mixed, Eurasians, Arabs, Pakistani, Oborigines,European etc. As for me, I don't know for sure. My dad is Malaysian-Chinese ( don't know the exact ethinicity ) and my mom's from Hong Kong and she's Chinese.But as for my features, I've been mistaken many times by friends and strangers that I'm Mixed or Eurasian. Don't know why. you could be right. Most Malaysians are mixed nowadays.But, every ethnic group in Malaysia still holds on to their own culture and practise their own religion. But no, not all Malaysians are mixed.
Malaysian Chinese Girl??    Tuesday, September 17, 2002 at 22:05:32 (PDT)    [161.142.100.81]

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