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ASIAN FEMALE/ LATINO RELATIONSHIPS
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Valley Chick:
>Hispanic guys are ok but I only
>like the ones who are born in this
>country and speak perfect English.
In my experience, the fact
that I speak English with an
accent has been one of my hurdles
with most American girls. I tried
to get rid of it, but then I decided
not to because some girls (specially
White girls) seem to find it
"charming" and "exotic". If any
of you guys is having trouble with
this, just slow your talk down.
>what it comes down to is what is
>on the inside.
When any girl says this, either
assume it's total bullshit, or
that she's ugly (can't get a man)
It could also be that what she
really means is: "what it comes
down to is what is on the inside
[of your pants]." If she doesn't
find balls there, she probably
won't like you. Just kidding,
maybe she will still like you
balls or no balls. :-)
-Notty Boy
Thursday, November 15, 2001 at 05:10:38 (PST)
Womanly AsianLover said:
>All it would do is become a target for
>you to generalize me by saying typical >Thai this or typical Chinese that,
>etc, etc. I am an Asian woman. Full
>stop!
You are generalizing all Latino men,
though, aren't you? What would make
you so different from others who
would generalize you as well?
>And as for my "agenda". Unlike
>your agenda which is to promote
>and impose your views on other, I
>don't have one.
I think you do have an agenda, since
all you do is portray negative
qualities that you seem to think
Latin men have.
>I don't care if people agree with
>or disagree with my opinions. I
>never impose my views on anyone
>, and the reason i posted here was
>because it is a public forum for >opinions. I was never told it is
>a forum for like-minded people
>to delude themselves in false
>support groups by posting messages
>in which everyone in "your world"
>thinks alike.
That's cool, but when you post
opinions like the ones you're
posting you can expect people
to give you their own thoughts
and opinions back because they
agree, don't agree, or because
they're just plain bored at
work-- whatever.
Anyway, you say that people here
are deluding themselves in "false
support groups". What makes you
think that is the case?
-Notty Boy
Thursday, November 15, 2001 at 04:53:28 (PST)
Womanly AsianLover said:
>All I came here is to say that
>I am an Asian woman who loves
>Asian men only.
You like what you like, and that's
fine-- others like what they like,
and that's fine too. You can
be OK with that, can't you?
>I don't need a trophy White or
>Latino or Black or Hindu man to
>make me feel more confident and
>fulfilled.
I don't see how that matters. I
doubt that any normal man would
want his head hanging from a
woman's wall-- you're a very
confusing person. ;-)
Then God said:
>Let the Latinos be with the Latinas,
>Whites with Whites, Blacks with
>Blacks, etc.
And so it came to pass.
Seriously, though, how come you feel
this way?
>Anyway, Whites are an endangered
>species, they will soon disappear,
>then Blacks and Latinos and Hindus
>will be next, and then Asians will
>be left to rule the world. As nature
>intended.
Can you tell us how all of us non-
Asians, and our posterity will
disappear?
-Notty Boy
Thursday, November 15, 2001 at 04:37:44 (PST)
Being a Mexican-American, I grew up in a heavily populated Asian community. I liked many Asian girls there but I found myself dating the few Latinas in my neighborhood. Most of my friends and all of my best friends are Asian. Some of them would ask me to speak Spanish and would try to speak it as well--which I always admired. But the idea of dating one of them didn't occur to me as a possibility because I thought they wouldn't find me attractive and that I was just so different; it is perhaps because of this mentality that I dated within my race. It wasn't until a few days ago that I overheard three of my friends playfully teasing my best friend. They called her "Latin-freak" and as they would say this she would smile and giggle. When I walked by, they all paused and stared at me--hoping that I didn't hear them. I smiled and said that they were all such friendly and pretty girls. (I'm sure they knew what was coming...) and asked them to answer my questions truthfully--Well..I asked if anyone would date outside their race? Three of them (including my best friend) said it didn't matter and the fourth said she wasn't sure but they all agreed that their family would disapprove of it; my best friend said she wouldn't care what her parents would think. I then asked what they thought of Latinos as a people and they paused again. "They alright I guess" and "some of their food is good." But somehow I couldn't ask them about dating or even marrying one so I put the questions to rest and we went on with our day. Well (now that I'm done with my story..^_^) I was wondering... what makes a Latino appealing to someone? What about their culture do you enjoy most? What makes a Latino a Latino? (does language also play a role in this? I find that some of my Asian friends throw a couple of Spanish words here and there, listen to SPanish music, one even joined a Mexican folklórico class and another named her two dogs "Chiquito" and "Paco"--and they AREN't Chihuahuas ^_^)
Elpi
Thursday, November 15, 2001 at 01:54:04 (PST)
To Valley chick
Why do u date only dated US-hispanics?
Why not REAL latins from latinoamerica (kidding hermanos u r as real as me)?
I would like your opinion, but i have to say that based in my personal experience white girls in the US have a THING about us latins from here, they really like our accent, and they even told me that it was wrong for me of trying to change it,(i told them that i was going to try to better my english and of course my accent, sice i dont think companies are interest in it), and they all told that that i was crazy. Even in California, i think most people were very pleased and even interest in meeting a latin guy that wasnt mexican (out of curiosity of course), but nothing wrong with your opinon.... Chao and take care
Carlos H.
Wednesday, November 14, 2001 at 18:43:22 (PST)
To: Womanly asian lover
I think that u should tell whats your nationality, because asians tend to think very different, actually i know that filipinos koreans, chinese and others HATE the japanese, (in general, and i know this first handed). Some others might think that they are superior, etc.. so since most asians are totally diferent and they are NOT as united as we latins or europeans, or even arabs, your nationality matter big time. But dont worry it would be stupid of u to assume that SOMEONE is going to insult your country, because nobody is going to offend so many people based just in u.
U have the right to your way of thinking, i really dont care, but what u said is bullshit, latinos are wayyy more romantic that the general people world wide, we placed family above most things, and we do care great deal about our loved ones.
Carlos H.
Wednesday, November 14, 2001 at 18:22:19 (PST)
Thanks for the reply. I thought that you might be an Asian woman who only liked Asian guys but took it off my list because I didn't see why you would post in here if this were the case. Frankly speaking, I'm glad to hear that someone like you exists for the sake of some of my male Asian buds. Too bad you sound kind of like an Asian version David Duke or Hitler:
"Anyway, Whites are an endangered species, they will soon disappear, then Blacks and Latinos and Hindus will be next, and then Asians will be left to rule the world. As nature intended."
Which leads me to my next question. From your previous posts it sounds like you are none too fond of us Latinos -Which is ok but then why exactly are you here?
Just out of curiosity do other Asian people reading this agree with Womanly AsianLover's perspective on interracial dating and the future of human existence in general? I'd like to get your takes.
By the way Womanly AsianLover, regarding your nationality -some of us would like to know what nationality you are. I promise I won't say typical this or typical that. How about it, you've been honest so far right?
Latino Net Detective to Womanly AsianLover
Wednesday, November 14, 2001 at 16:51:35 (PST)
I am in with the others. (Wo)Manly Asian
Lover has to be a guy.
Who else but a man would need to tell other women what to do and would need to have his fragile ego stroked? (*wink, wink*):p
As Austin Powers aptly put it, "She's a man, man!"
Flamenco Vixen
Wednesday, November 14, 2001 at 16:47:27 (PST)
Womanly Asian Lover,
As an Asian woman, I take offense to your comments that Latin men and Arab men are hornier than Asian men and that only Asian men can take care of Asian women. I have met Asian guys who are horrible to their girlfriends just as I have met Asian guys who are decent and good to their girlfriends. Ditto with men from other races/ethnic groups.
If you yourself don't like to be stereotyped by others, then why are YOU asserting stereotypes about other races?
You said that you don't like to impose and promote an agenda, and yet your comments contradict what you have said.
Case in point:
"As Asian women we must stick to our men." That sounds to me like you are promoting and imposing beliefs. Why use the word "must"? Who are you to tell other Asian women what we MUST do?
"I don't need a trophy White or Latino or Black or Hindu man to make me feel confident." Nevertheless, you sound as if you do lack confidence. By making disparaging comments about others just to pump up your ego demonstrates classic symptoms of an inferiority complex.
By the way, I assume that when you used the word "Hindu," you were referring to sub-continental Indians. FYI, Indians are Asians too.
Flamenco Vixen
Wednesday, November 14, 2001 at 16:37:15 (PST)
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