Asian Male/Black Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN MALE/ BLACK FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to African American females?
Their facial features | 36%
Their physique | 36%
Their attitude and personality | 27%
Their education & cultural values | 1%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with African American females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 2%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 7%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 67%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 24%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 77%
Their physique | 4%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 4%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 78%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 13%

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Jas

MJB is so cool, so very down to earth. It was a pleasure to work with her. We had such a good time working on her video.

That Asian guy is about 5'10" (my estimation)& he has long, beautiful, jet-black hair. He is so cool with everybody & he's definately not shy with the darker sisters neither! When he gave me a hug,I was too shy to say something to him, but now I wish I had. I am kicking myself in the a$$ for that.
BlacKorean Yojah Thursday, December 13, 2001 at 07:54:31 (PST)

To the sexy ASIAN guy who came to my job the other day at the Simon Edison Mall in Fort Myers, Florida..I, enjoyed talking to you and you allowed me to "place our shop's "thumb cuffs" on you..I, remember how hot your skin felt when you touched my hand by mistake?I, guess you couldn't talk because of your guy friend? I, too felt warm all day when you left...you made my day.I, enjoyed your sense of humor too..you're great.
G.I. Jane Thursday, December 13, 2001 at 07:23:48 (PST)

The girl in the MJB video is one of the singers from the group Blaque
bluebird Wednesday, December 12, 2001 at 18:13:37 (PST)

I have a problem and would like some advice. My current boyfriend is Asian, and we have been dating over a year now. I think he is the greatest, treats me well, and honestly hope we get married. Just one problem: I have never really been attracted to Asian guys, and really I have always been pretty turned off be Asian races in general.

I'm attracted to him, but not like I am Black guys. And, sometimes, I think he knows it or senses it because he can be very insecure at times. But, I am in love with who he is on the inside. He has all the qualities I could ever dream of. But still, most guys don't wanna hear you love their insides. They want to think that you find them hot.

I struggle with this often. My sister and I grew up thinking that Asians were very unattractive people, even used to joke about it, and I guess I still have some of these predjudices. But, I need to get rid of them, for my boyfriend's sake. I want to be more interested in Asian culture and encourage him to be proud of his race. I feel like if I were more interested in Asian culture, it would boost his pride, because as strong as he is, I know he struggles with pride in his race, as I hear many Asians do.

Does anyone have any advice??
Confused Wednesday, December 12, 2001 at 13:49:08 (PST)

I'm sorry Blackstrawberri, I
meant to put my name instead if yours.
I was typing a message to you.
LILBIT Wednesday, December 12, 2001 at 13:20:49 (PST)

To everyone that is in a relationship or has been in a relationship with an am or bw:

1.)What do you consider the most admirable trait that this person had?

2.)What was the one thing you wanted to change to make the relationship better?

3.)What stereotype did you feel was REALLY TRUE concerning that person?
TELL ME YOUR STORY :) Tuesday, December 11, 2001 at 21:45:05 (PST)

To: BlacKorean Yojah

How was it working with MJB? I love her music. The cutie (Asian Guy) that was in the video looks pretty tall, is he tall? He is a fine dude and I wish that you would have met him in person and got his name.

Did he seem like he got along with everybody on the set of the video?

I know I'm asking a bunch of questions, I'm just being a littl nosey (LOL)!
Jas Tuesday, December 11, 2001 at 13:29:55 (PST)

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