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ASIAN MALE/ BLACK FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
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Hey guys,
First I'd like to wish the best holiday to you. I would agree that there are some asian men who do take black women for granted.
I have a friend who found her love (or in this case he found her). Well, they became good friends and talked about everything. Then things started to build up romantically between them. Well, a week before the tragedy, she decided to give love a break & just be friends until things got better for the both of them. But they reunited the next week, but he decided to give love a rest a week after that.
Well, they haven't been separated long, and she's gotten used to the separation...until she saw him publicly flirt with someone else, and left him after that. What made things worse is that the other woman tried to flirt with him while they were friends, then again while they were a couple.
I've takled to her a couple days after that, & now she's doing alright....she just won't date for long while.
Such a Shame
Thursday, December 20, 2001 at 19:47:01 (PST)
Newfound love: its funny you say that because I've always been intrigued by Asian men and the culture, but never thought to venture into dating an Asian man for fear of rejection by him or his family. I never thought they saw us as attractive and because of family and/or tradition they would never date us, but after finding this web page I see different. My problem is how do you know if he is interested or how do I let him know I'm interested? The fear of rejection is great.
Assante mbhotcoco@email.com
Thursday, December 20, 2001 at 13:38:45 (PST)
Newfound Love:
I must be one of the lucky ones. I don't know much about rejection from men, and I'm ACTUALLY a Black Woman! I'm sorry for you, but don't feel that we have a lot in common just because you're an AM and I'm a BW. I can hardly walk down the street without, some man, of some race, trying to hit on me. I seriously doubt you can relate to these types of experiences.
So, sorry, but I'm afraid I just do not see things eye to eye with you. I think the situation of the Asian male is far worse than that of the Black female as far as attractiveness. At least we have representatives and have made plenty of waves in the beauty industry. What have AM done as far being seen as attractive?
They just stay in their science labs, convenience stores or whatever... I don't think AM care about who sees them as being attractive. They only want to study hard and make money... eventually, a woman will at least date you for money. So don't worry.
I actually think you are just in your own silly way, responding to Confused, confusion. You shouldn't let people get to you like that though. You make yourself look stupid when you allow people to penetrate your mind so easily. If you find BW attractive now, you probably ALWAYS did. Confused sounds like she never found AM attractive and still does not, even though she's dating one. That's her problem and you shouldn't take personal offense to it. I only hope her boyfriend wises up before too much longer. And, I also hope no BW is stupid enough to date you, because you obviously also have a lot of growing up to do. Hey, maybe after Confused clears her mind, you two could get together!
Jamey
Thursday, December 20, 2001 at 12:20:22 (PST)
Damn Ms. Shag is nasty!
Li Chow
Thursday, December 20, 2001 at 12:00:36 (PST)
NewFound Love
Coming from a black woman, I like your "New" attitude. You may never know what you're missing until you've tried it. I wish you the best of luck.
blkazngirl
Thursday, December 20, 2001 at 11:41:08 (PST)
we're all adults here. right? so with that in mind.
why is it that asian men are the best carpet munchers around?
i've had my carpet munched by the best of them of all races.
white men were the worse. black men and latinos men were ok.
asian men were the best. they can go at it for hours and can tickle and tease and lick it like a lollipop or suck it like a straw.
where do asian men get this oral talent from? makes a sister lose her mind!
ms. shag
Wednesday, December 19, 2001 at 23:50:33 (PST)
I think many of us Asian guys take black women for granted. I have never been approached by white girls, Latina girls, many times not even by my own Asian ladies. Couple times, black women have tried to make a hit on me. I chose not to because it is somehow engrained in me that all black women are not attractive. So stupid of me. That was back then. I am sure many Asian brothers have been in my same predicament. Now, I say: "give it a chance." We are not alone in being rejected. The black woman can identify with us strongly.
Newfound love
Wednesday, December 19, 2001 at 15:17:14 (PST)
Hello everyone and Happy Holidays.
TO: Confused; I see the point you are trying to make, but you have to judge each person as an individual and nothing else. Try to think about all the stereotypes that are put on any race and how you would feel if your boyfriend could not see past them to love you as a person. That would hurt. If you care about this man and he treats you like gold, then it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. But if you can't see past his race, then maybe he's not the man for you, therefore you move on, but you may be cheating yourself out of something special.
Assante mbhotcoco@email.com
Wednesday, December 19, 2001 at 13:26:22 (PST)
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