Asian Male/Black Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN MALE/ BLACK FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to African American females?
Their facial features | 36%
Their physique | 36%
Their attitude and personality | 27%
Their education & cultural values | 1%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with African American females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 2%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 7%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 67%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 24%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 77%
Their physique | 4%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 4%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 78%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 13%

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"Are black women attracted to Orientals at all?"

SMART black women are attracted to Asian men who see themselves as Asian and not as Oriental and also, SMART black women are not attracted to Orientals who refer to themselves as Vibrator!

a SMART black woman Wednesday, December 26, 2001 at 09:33:10 (PST)

I would love to meet a nice asian man. I am a african-american woman who have always found asian men attracted. A asian man shouldn't hesitant to ask a black woman out. Many of us black females would love to meet a kind, sincere man who appreciates them just as I know asian men would like someone to appreciate them. Don't be shy. It's hard to find love in this world so take a chance.
jeri Tuesday, December 25, 2001 at 17:34:45 (PST)

Wow Jayme. Think you could be ANYMORE conceited and self-centered than you already are?
elitism Tuesday, December 25, 2001 at 02:23:57 (PST)

Merry Christmas everyone!

To Vibrator: Of course black women are attracted to Asian men. It's just a bit of a challenge to put the two together. Maybe you should try hitting a mixed club instead of an all black club for starters. Or maybe if you have black friends it would be easier to hang out at the Cristal lounge.
Urada ЙЬ Сј Tuesday, December 25, 2001 at 01:27:28 (PST)

To black women who thinks asian men don't find them attractive or take us for granted,I don't buy that, you're telling every asian man everywhere that exists thinks this. There are even people who think Whoopi Goldberg,Mick Jagger and Shaba Ranks are attractive. Black women are just as beautiful as anyone else. So stop complaining about this eurocentric beauty s**t. Look at Alek Wek she definitelly doesn't have any eurocentric features. She's one of the top paid models.To asian me who say that black women are unattarctive. You're telling me that you have never in your life seen an attarctive black woman thats pretty strange.There high yellow,brown skinned,dark skinned black women. There's even black women who look white. Hell there even some who have slanted eyes and look asian. I don't that s**t either. By the way does anyone celebrate Kwanzaa?.
LILBIT Monday, December 24, 2001 at 14:56:34 (PST)

I think Asian men are fine. And should venture out more. The world sees your finess even if it tries to make you all appear asexual. I go to ucla and have been on the uci campus, talk about some fine azz asians. I was in portland about 2 months ago and saw alot of Sistah with Asian males. I guess some places are more progressive than others.
Moca2002 drwill@ucla.edu Monday, December 24, 2001 at 03:29:32 (PST)

Jamey what damn bug flew up your butt!!!
savannatiger Sunday, December 23, 2001 at 16:44:06 (PST)

Newfound Love you are 100% correct that black women and ASian men have a lot in common and we can identify with each other!
savannatiger Sunday, December 23, 2001 at 16:43:15 (PST)

Hi,
I'm a 20 year old Oriental guy who lives in Edmonton, Alberta, Canada. I've dated and slept with women from other races except Afro-Canadian. So, I was this one curious little fellow, and yesterday I went to Cristal Lounge - a place where most of the people who hang out there are black. I'm the only Oriental male who hang out there (despite the fact that the owner itself is an Oriental).

It seems that I wasn't very accepted in that club. I sensed rejection from the black women. It's never been like that in other clubs. So... I was very confused.

Are black women attracted to Orientals at all?
Vibrator Sunday, December 23, 2001 at 01:38:37 (PST)

anonymos
I saw the the mart j. video that your taking about and your right. That girl who blew a kiss had the prettiest face i've ever seen.
JL Saturday, December 22, 2001 at 00:08:21 (PST)

Ok,

I can't really find the point in the story, but I understand her situation.

There's nothing much for me to say on my part. As far as relationships goes, all I've got to say is "been there, done that."

Actually, I'd love to have an AM who's not afriad to love me, but I guess I'll never know. And I'm not going to worry about it. So, I'll just take a berak form love & men before I end up giving up on them. Besides, I have a life to live, and I'm not letting one heartbreak get in the way. si, if there's one AM out there who can love me, I hope to meet you some day.
Val T Friday, December 21, 2001 at 13:26:58 (PST)

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