Asian Male/Black Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN MALE/ BLACK FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to African American females?
Their facial features | 36%
Their physique | 36%
Their attitude and personality | 27%
Their education & cultural values | 1%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with African American females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 2%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 7%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 67%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 24%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 77%
Their physique | 4%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 4%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 78%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 13%

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Ok, my name is Danielle. I'm 28 yrs single mother of 3. Dark skined and curvey and I want to meet a nice Asian men with a horny appetite. I work in the retail sales business. Secret cyber geek. Adores Maxwell(the musician). Heavily into Bossa Nova and Samba. Loves music and can sing. Loves latin dancing, yoga, walking, and sexy NONBLACK men with a sense of humor. Trying to get my butt back into school. Also a poetess with severe writers block. Well, thats who I am right now. Subject due to change.

Peace,
Moks
garota_de_norte Thursday, December 27, 2001 at 07:13:52 (PST)

I was talking to a BF the other day and she said that all men are dogs and that we always think that the grass is greener on the other side. I said females think the same way.

Here's a switch, I'm not the "typical AM." I'm an Asian jock, high school and college football player, built like Junior Seau and a mind of a scholar. I've perused some of the comments here and the impression that is left on me is that a lot of BF think AM are wimps, and live too much on the straight and narrow. I get stepped to by BF and more than happy to oblige. I'll do my part to bridge the abyss between BF and AM, for real. Most of my friends are other races and any Asian friends are on the periphery. I'm a freak too. BF just turn me on.

Here's my dilemma. I've known a certain BF for about 4 years now and I have always been crazy about her, but for "timing reasons" we never ascended to the romantic level. I feel that I have fallen into the friend level. She means a lot to me but she is seeing another AM. I even met the lucky bastard. Then they broke up and I made my move, but she was not responsive, she was still sprung on him. I don't want to be homies, I want to be knowmies, I know her and she knows-me. Is it possible to leave the friend zone? If not, any BF in So Cal wanna chill with a fly AM?

AM for BF Thursday, December 27, 2001 at 01:44:49 (PST)

Lilbit-

Very good points. The fashion and beauty industry is now moving farther away from the "flat butt" and the "even flatter hair" standards of beauty that were so prevalent during the 90's. Now a more natural look is cherished from nubian locks to soft curls and waves. Even the beautiful vanillas, mochas, toffees, and coffees of the Black female complexion are being revered.

Also, it would be possible for an Asian man to say that he has never seen an attractive Black woman. It really is a matter of preference. In my life I have found it extremely difficult to be physically and sexually attracted to Caucasian males. It really depends on who you talk to. (too? to?)

As for Kwanzaa...I might as well be celebrating Chanukkah, it's certainly older, has more spiritual meaning and, to me at least, makes a lot more sense than some holiday made up for the soul purpose of pacifying people.

Oyasumi!

Johnny the Yuletide Homicidal Maniacal Reindeer Wednesday, December 26, 2001 at 17:44:09 (PST)

Ms. shag thank you. It's all in the tongue.
hellafineaswine Wednesday, December 26, 2001 at 13:55:48 (PST)

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