ASIAN MALE/ BLACK FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to African American females?
Their facial features | 36%
Their physique | 36%
Their attitude and personality | 27%
Their education & cultural values | 1%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with African American females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 2%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 7%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 67%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 24%
Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 77%
Their physique | 4%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 4%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 78%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 13%

Jhonny I'll try to get the information to you today
Lilbit    Wednesday, January 02, 2002 at 10:01:10 (PST)
I thought this site was about BF's who are attracted to AM. All I'm reading about is how to put down multi-racial families and/or disrespecting black women & men. This is a multi-cultural site that is for (let me say it again) BF's who LIKE AM so why do some of you seem shocked or upset when it comes to multi-racial relations being discussed here? I was assuming I would come to this site and connect with others that view the AM interest in a positive way. I was wrong, all I hear is constant disrespect for each other. Again; If your not interested in AM why are you at this site? This site should be used to support each other in the multi-racial relationships you have or will have. I am always reading post from DrgnzLair and these WOMEN give very positive advise, there is a lot of sister hood, love and sharing at that site. I look forward to hearing from them each day.

Impersonating me will get you nowhere, nothing as mean and nasty that I have read on this site will EVER pass through my lips. Never again will I visit this site.
tsimonne tsimonne@onebox.com    Wednesday, January 02, 2002 at 05:56:36 (PST)
I am an pretty Americn female dating a Chinese man. We met in college and have known each other for over 10 years. He is from Malaysia. I am 37 and he is 40. I am of mixed heritage: African, French, Irish and Native American so I'm very light which makes me also very pretty. We are considering marriage and having a child. I have two teenage children (they love their future step dad) from a previous marriage with a white man who cheated on me and left me for a DARKER black woman. He has never been married and has no children. I wonder how I will be received by his parents. He says they will like me, but I worry about racism in the Chinese culture. I consider myself to be multiracial black although me and my Chinese lover have the same skin color. How are interracial couples between black and Chinese perceived within the Chinese community. I have not yet met his parents and have been told that they will be impressed that I am an attorney. Most people are impressed that I'm an attorney and I'm hoping that they will be too and make their acceptance of me easier. My boyfriend is an engineer. What should I expect when meeting his family. Are there certain customs to consider? Comments please?

OrleansCreole22    Tuesday, January 01, 2002 at 23:50:58 (PST)
Sorry, I meant for my message to go to Carisa and Farah!


BlackLily    Tuesday, January 01, 2002 at 16:47:49 (PST)
Hi Urada and Carisa,

I've heard of Jackal! His screen name is Jackal143.

I've seen his name in some of the Asian man/Black women clubs circulating in Yahoo.

He's QUITE a character!

BlackLily    Tuesday, January 01, 2002 at 12:22:54 (PST)
Lavita, Maia Campbell hot? No I don't think those two are that hot. They are ok. If they were in a room by themselves they would be ok, but once a goldenskinned beauty like Blu Cantrell or Alicia Keyes walks into the room they can forget it.
I love GOLDEN black women    Monday, December 31, 2001 at 13:53:56 (PST)
Carisa I know that guy you're talking about. Take it from me he's bad news.
one who got used    Monday, December 31, 2001 at 12:57:37 (PST)

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