Asian Male/Black Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN MALE/ BLACK FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to African American females?
Their facial features | 36%
Their physique | 36%
Their attitude and personality | 27%
Their education & cultural values | 1%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with African American females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 2%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 7%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 67%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 24%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 77%
Their physique | 4%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 4%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 78%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 13%

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OrleansCreole:

You don't want comments... you only want us to tell you that you are a troll, simple-minded, immature, priorities all messed up, insecure, self-hating, etc. etc.

That about sums it up. That's what you wanted, so there ya go!
Cinnamon Thursday, January 03, 2002 at 07:14:53 (PST)

i think this is a great sight to visit..only thing is alot of the bashing doesn't make sense.If you are a black female..don't fret one out of five people are asian so i'm sure if thats what you like you will get it.
peace!
DEME Thursday, January 03, 2002 at 03:36:16 (PST)

Hey "I love "GOLDEN" Black women",

Blu Cantrell looks like a White girl and Alicia Keyes, well she has style and I love the ethnic braids but she is just too pale for my liking. But to each his own. Give me a darker Black woman with the same hairstyle as Alicia Keyes (love those stylish braids) and I am a happy camper!

Hey how about the Black women here. Which types of Asian men do you tend to prefer. I hear many Black women who are into Asian men prefer the darker Asian men as well. Is this true?
Darker Blk wmn are underrated Wednesday, January 02, 2002 at 23:57:45 (PST)

Darker Black women are UNDERRATED IMO. I am not saying lighter ones are not attractive. However, I tend to feel that there are way too many light skinned Black women who are overrated or not really as "attractive" as they are made out to be beauty wise in the looks department because of this racist society's infatuation with women who are closer to White looking.

I'll take either, since I do not believe in discrimination but I prefer my Black women to be of a darker hue with Black features. If I want a woman with straight hair and fair skin I can always stick with my own Asian woman. I like the fuzzy/frizzy haired Black women with medium brown to darker complexions, full lips and curvy figures and round buttocks. But to each his own.
Darker Blk wmn are underrated Wednesday, January 02, 2002 at 23:52:54 (PST)

Jackal_143 is supposed to be some kind of playa from the false rumors circulating on the Yahoo clubs.

But, the women who he supposed to have played brought it on themselves for being plain stupid and they needed to be played.

Those women are the same black women who dog all black men and talk sh*t about other black women for mansharing black men, yet they don't think twice about mansharing ONE asian man.

Their double standards just bit them in the ass!!!

a lady who thinks Jackal Is Just Being A Man Wednesday, January 02, 2002 at 21:03:54 (PST)

HEY ORLEANS CREOLE22,

It's best that you ask your intended on some do's and don'ts before you meet the folks, what you may find as acceptable behavior may be a no no to them. It is true you do have to tread softly and make sure you don't embarrass your self or you fiancee. (I'm not trying to scare you :), you sound like you have your head on straight) Asian culture can be a little tricky. I'm just straight African American without the mixes, but still quite beautiful :).

You'll do great
Farah Wednesday, January 02, 2002 at 18:48:07 (PST)

OrleansCreole,

Trust in what your future husband tells you about his family. If he says they'll accept you, believe him! After all, they're his parents and he should know them! :) And, yes, you'll get more brownie points for have an impressive career! I think you'll do great! Don't worry about what other Chinese people feel and just be content with what you have and the family you'll be part of! Yeah, there are racist in the Chinese community just as in any other group. Don't let them get to you! Oh, I almost forgot, CONGRADULATIONS! I wish nothing but the best for the both of you! Now...if I can find the same for myself! LOL! :)
BlackLily Wednesday, January 02, 2002 at 17:48:10 (PST)

To: one who got used,

You're so right! I've heard all sorts of stories on that guy!

He doesn't seem to have a good reputation!
BlackLily Wednesday, January 02, 2002 at 17:38:03 (PST)

I just saw the movie Ali. It was interesting, very dramatic although a few scenes dragged on. However, while Jada Pinkett is kind of cute,
his second wife in the movie, a darker skinned black lady is sooo beautiful with such perfect features highlighted by her gorgeous dark skin.

Lover of Dark skin Wednesday, January 02, 2002 at 13:20:49 (PST)

To I love Dark Women and I love Golden Black Women,
I think you guys have great taste. It's very flattering to see both ends of our spectrum admired so. All of the women you both mentioned are very beautiful, and talented!

To OrleansCreole22,
My comment is that it's hard to decipher sincere posts from "troll" posts and I am not sure which yours is. "So I'm very light which makes me also very pretty" doesn't seem quite real and the quote about being left for a "DARKER black woman" doesn't seem necessary. Why was the woman's complexion an issue and why was it capitalized in your post? This seems somewhat "troll" like to me and not very real.

My Opinion Wednesday, January 02, 2002 at 12:03:37 (PST)

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