ASIAN MALE/ BLACK FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to African American females?
Their facial features | 36%
Their physique | 36%
Their attitude and personality | 27%
Their education & cultural values | 1%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with African American females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 2%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 7%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 67%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 24% 		Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 77%
Their physique | 4%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 4%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 78%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 13%

Take,

"No Asian mother would put on an "act" as such. You apparently don't know Asians....
If they don't like you or are not too sure about how they feel, they basically avoid you. Let me tell you, they don't "front". "

First off its you who apparently doesn't know Asians. And how can you speak for ALL Asian mothers anyway.

Plenty of Asian mothers "front" because they don't want to be seen as racist or the cause of their son breaking up with a Black girl and then resenting them. So they pretend to like the girl and do every under-handed thing in their power to break the couple up.

The only time Asian mothers get really real, is when the subject of marriage comes up. Then they will plainly tell the girl she's simply too Black and simply not good for their son. As far as dating goes, fakeness rules.
Say What    Friday, January 25, 2002 at 09:00:19 (PST)
no sympathy for losers,
thanks for calling me a loser. the white gurls parents aint racists, i just don't know if they'd want her to date, since her being the number one australian figure ice skater, with all dat training and gold medal hopes. And with the black gurl, my asian friends say go for it, but the brothers say leave her cause i think their jealous.. now anywayz im off to do my own training... byez
stuntman18    Friday, January 25, 2002 at 01:32:05 (PST)
girl x,
i live in australia and most of my high school buddies are islanders. kia kaha
stuntman18    Friday, January 25, 2002 at 01:25:04 (PST)
sistamoonkitty,
thanks for the advice. yeah i think i might as well try (c).
stuntman18    Friday, January 25, 2002 at 01:22:22 (PST)
To: Maximuxxx,

What are the strong qualities that you like about BW? I am a 27 year old BW that is looking for and AM. I have never dated one before but I would like to.
Trice    Thursday, January 24, 2002 at 12:29:07 (PST)
To: Stuntman,

I'm sorry things have to be the way that they are, hopfully things will ge better for you. The only thing that you have to do at this point is make a choice of which ever woman you want to date or be with(either the WW or the BW).

Which one of the two ladies do you feel the strongest about? I hope that things work out for you!
Jas    Thursday, January 24, 2002 at 12:24:50 (PST)

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