Asian Male/Black Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN MALE/ BLACK FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to African American females?
Their facial features | 36%
Their physique | 36%
Their attitude and personality | 27%
Their education & cultural values | 1%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with African American females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 2%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 7%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 67%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 24%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 77%
Their physique | 4%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 4%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 78%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 13%

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Congrats Veronica!
Gabby Monday, February 25, 2002 at 08:35:54 (PST)

Black women are godesses from the heavens.
RANJIV Sunday, February 24, 2002 at 17:48:00 (PST)

Takeshi Da and Jin I,
Thanks to you both for the feedback. I do appreciate it.

Takeshi Da,
I think I'd describe your experience as a strong coincedence, and not crazy. You and the other couple must have had interesting conversations and a lot in common. In one of your posts you mentioned a strong attraction to Black women and expecting to deal with a black man in regards to it. I think you show strength of character in not backing away from what you want, or rather who you want to be with, even in what you expect to be awkward situations. I was thinking that such a rare interracial pairing must be quite a challenge for both parties, at times.

I have never been in an interracial relationship but am currently considering it. That is why I am visiting this forum. To the black women here, I look to your posts to get an idea of what my experiences may be if I do go interracial and therefore value them very much. To the men, you provide interesting insight into males, asian males, I couldn't otherwise get easily.

KayKay, I agree with your statement. Asian men are very attractive. I was curious though as to why their hands would feel any differently on your body than any other man's. Are you saying they are gentler than other men? Is that what you mean? Just curious. Ok, really curious(smile).
A Black Female Sunday, February 24, 2002 at 01:40:41 (PST)

hey guys im new to this poll because quite frankly id never dated a black woman so it didnt really interest me that much, im half malay half white from malaysia im tall 6'3, i got the black asian texture hair skin colour is not dark like a malay but in the middle, i came to the US when i was 10 and im 19 now, i recently went back to malaysia for a holiday with some friends, when i was there i would go to clubs and pubs quite often and i went to this club once and i was out on the dance floor, and this black woman with a beautiful body started dancing with me, we were dancing to R&B (my fav muzik) and things started to heat up and before i knew it we were making out in the middle of the dance floor we must have been standing there kissing for about 5 minutes seriously, anyway we sat down and had a drink after and it turns out shes a tourist from england who came with some friends, we didnt end up sleeping together but instead becoming really good friends for the remainder of her stay, but what im trying to say is my view of Black women used to be a no point trying to go for her attitude she probably dosent date asian guys, now im more daring hehe
g-spot Saturday, February 23, 2002 at 23:35:01 (PST)

Hi, I am a black female and I am engaged to marry a Chinese man this summer. We've known each other for over 10 years since we were in college. Both of us are professionals. I'm a lawyer and he is a computer programer. I don't know any other Asian Male-Black female couples. I would love to meet some. We plan on having a beautiful bi-racial child some day. Our families accept our choice and we look forward to a bright future together.
Veronica Collins (Wong) veronica@justice.com Saturday, February 23, 2002 at 20:10:24 (PST)

Though I live in a very diverse urban community, interaction between Blacks and Asians in next to non- existant.
Toni clrblnd@hotmail.com Saturday, February 23, 2002 at 12:57:20 (PST)

I just saw Queen of the Damned with Aaliyah, and it was all right, not great or anything. I wish she was in the movie more but for those that have not seen it keep in mind that it is a horror flick. The parts she was in, she was breathtaking and sexy. Funny how her life is still unfolding even after she passed on. Like she's still here (sigh). It is hard to watch her, and eerie to see her in that role. The ending seems rushed and has a sliver of logic. Everything till then was cool.
AM still digs Aaliyah Saturday, February 23, 2002 at 00:21:08 (PST)

from sista love I don't have any kids nor am I over weight. 5'7" 125lbs.
from sista love Friday, February 22, 2002 at 16:16:23 (PST)

WANT BW/AM FRIENDS,

Sure, e-mail me whenever you want, we'll be glad to hear from you.

JTHM, the parade was real nice, I loved it my boyfriend said it should have been better, but we had a good time. We had dim-sum early in the day. We should get together sometime and go to dim-sum.

Gabby,

I have some pic's but I need to lose a little more flesh before I put them out for all to see (I don't want yall to have to go through that trauma) but I'll post them soon.

Asian American Male,
Pentagon City Mall is the best place to catch me and my boyfriend (he loves Best Buy at Pentagon Center across the street).

Love to Everybody
FARAH NOORLTO@AOL.COM Friday, February 22, 2002 at 12:05:01 (PST)

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