Asian Male/Black Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN MALE/ BLACK FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to African American females?
Their facial features | 36%
Their physique | 36%
Their attitude and personality | 27%
Their education & cultural values | 1%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with African American females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 2%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 7%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 67%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 24%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 77%
Their physique | 4%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 4%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 78%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 13%

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To her twin,
True dat. There is that one scene, that one lovely moment forever engrained in my mind, when she is talking about how she lived her life. Sure it was Akasha in the flick, but I couldn't help seeing Aaliyah and hearing Aaliyah. I could go on and on with this topic. One thing that I didn't like at all is how they marketed the film. I thought she would have a more prominent role, but it was well worth it, to see her larger than life. I can't wait to buy the DVD, heard it'll have deleted scenes.

If you look like her, and possess similar high qualities that she had, then you must be a very special person too.

AM still digs Baby Girl Wednesday, February 27, 2002 at 01:15:24 (PST)

but I STILL have a crush on you, Girl X. This woman is merely a fantasy. *wink*
Racer X Wednesday, February 27, 2002 at 00:42:03 (PST)

Yea, I saw Queen of the Damned tonight and Yea, I'm mad because Aaliyah's in it for like a second....... I hate Hollywood they suck azz. They're gonna make so much damn money off that movie and she's not even here to reap benefits. I DID however see a strange crossover of people @ the movie theater. The place was jam-packed with goths, cyber punks and hood rats. It was awesome. And I DO believe I've fallen in love.....not with Aaliyah ( that's a given )
I saw the most beautiful black goth girl. She had long dreadlocks with these skull&snake hairsticks and cool-azz 20-hole steel-toe boots...( yea, i was looking THAT hard )She looked hardcore. I hope I see her again! Somewhere in San Francisco....
Racer X Wednesday, February 27, 2002 at 00:39:25 (PST)

Hi Girl X:

Hmm, well, to tell you the truth we were both kind of apprehensive at first even though we had been bonding solely on the circumstance at hand. Then like the guy was reading my mind he asks me if I have a beef with Koreans. I told him "no", that it's usually Koreans having problems with me being Japanese and that I was trying not to give him a reason to start anything that might make our girlfriends clock us right here at dinner. He laughed, I laughed and we went on laughing the rest of the evening. The guy DID say during the dinner that I turned out to be more "urban" than he expected at the start of dinner.
Take Wednesday, February 27, 2002 at 00:24:49 (PST)

Yay! It's so great to see so many AM/BW couples on this site in long term relationships! Marriage even! It gives me hope for the future. I've only been with my guy for about 10 months, so it's still a little early for us to go there... Well, that and the fact that the M-word sends him scurrying off to his computer for another round of CounterStrike... ;)

Bride to Be Veronica, congrats! How's the wedding planning going? Are your families involved in the planning? Are you going with a "traditional" ceremony or a cultural/multicultural ceremony?

Jon and Shauntay, I LOVE your "pearl of love" metaphor -- how sweet is that? So what was your wedding like? Did your shared military backgrounds figure into the ceremony as well?

Sorry for all the questions, but I've been passionate about wedding planning since I caught my first bouquet at age 5 (I had to beat down old aunt Betty, but she had it comin'!) As sappy as it sounds, I'm one of those girls who actually tears up while watching A Wedding Story on TLC ("Oh that's so sweeeeeeeet!").
In the past few decade I've become very interested in weddings that reflect the individual cultures of the betrothed. I've been a maid of honor in two multicultural ceremonies -- one Chinese/Irish American (the groom wore a red Mandarin Vest, the bride wore the traditional red wedding dress at the reception, and the program was decorated with Chinese and Celtic symbols) and the other British-Asian Buddhist/Southern American (it was a Buddhist ceremony in a temple, the groom dressed like a handsome young Elvis (white leisure suit, blue suede shoes and all!) and the potluck reception featured a huge wedding cake patterned after the one at Elvis and Pricilla's wedding.)

So if anyone has any ideas or stories about AM/BW nuptuals, I'd love to hear them. You know, just in case. ;)

Peace and love for all,

SistaMoonKitty Tuesday, February 26, 2002 at 22:47:40 (PST)

I have fallen for a beautiful african american female. She not only is my friend, but someone who I have always been able to count on. She has it all, inner and outer beauty as well as intelligence, ambition and the kindest heart I have ever seen. There is nothing that she would NOT do for others. I love simply looking at her, her chocolate brown skin, bright eyes, lips, beautiful body and smile. However, it transcends that, because whenever she speaks I long to listen. She engages my mind with her deep thinking and
articulate nature and there is a spiritual bond that I share with her that makes me weak when I am not with her. She also has a wonderful sense of humor and always can make me laugh. I love being close to her, talking to her, thinking about her.
So, here is the issue, as wonderful as she is, deep down I fear something when I think of committing to her. The problem is, I do not know what. She has feelings for me too, but I cannot totally give myself to her, but I cannot be without her, so I am stuck in this phase of in-between. I hope I do not sound overly clueless or helpless or hopeless, but any advice from the azn brothers and ebony ladies I would appreciate. What fears and issues did others in BF/AM face and or overcome. I do not want to let her get away from me because of my silly, unconscious, unknown fears.

HELP! from the south Tuesday, February 26, 2002 at 22:40:03 (PST)

kaykay,
Your last entry really made me laugh. I guess that leaves both of us rather curious.

JTHM,
I see your point. It's a good one. Thanks for the feedback.

A Black Female Tuesday, February 26, 2002 at 21:06:50 (PST)

Hi Jon and Shauntay!

Did you have a hard time with your parents and do you have a website?
bevfilm Tuesday, February 26, 2002 at 18:10:07 (PST)

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