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Why would a Somoan consider themselves black? They are Pacific islanders.
Crack open a book
Sunday, March 03, 2002 at 13:37:13 (PST)
I was dating this guy one year ago. He was from Burma (with full chinese ancestry) and I am a black female. He and I dated for like, 2 years.I really did love him, and I could tell that he really loved me...We made a really cute couple.We talked of marriage, and having kids together...even buying a house one day, moving by a beach.But in public...he seemed quick to let go of my hand...and not wanting to be seen as a couple in the public eye.Especially if it was alot of white people staring at us...(which they do that alot in this town I am living in)
It didn't really bother me, but it made him very shaky and uncompfortable. But when we were alone or around some of his friends...he didn't mind then.It really bothered me, and I would try to talk to him about it...he would completely avoid, and ignore the issue.
He had an older father figure, who didn't want to see
him with a non-asian woman...and definitely not a black woman. He became a very important influence in his life.Especially since his father was still in Burma...he looked to him as if he were his father. He gave him all of the intimate details of our relationship, even our disagreements. This father figure sent him away to work in another state at times...he was connected to him in the sushi business, and was his boss. He controlled where he lived, his transportation, his job investments and everthing...his name was even on the telephone bill! He told me that he had other plans for my boyfriend, and that I was getting in the way of it. It got really ugly with him, and other close friends.One of his friends attacked me...and swore that if he found out...they would see to it that I would never see him again.And threatened my life if I involved the police...They actually had that power to do all of this...and when I tried to go to him about it(and I was really scared to) I don't think he really understood...how serious this was, and that it was all affecting our relationship.He kept ignoring it, and didn't take it seriously. I finally told him we needed to break up. He didn't want to...and kept saying that he loved me. I felt he loved me just as much as I loved him...but he still continued to let these people have strong control over our relationship. He thought I was leaving him for another man...and I didn't. But, he thought that...and I let him go on believing it...and we broke it off. I feel very bad the way it ended like that. I never did leave him for another man. I wish it could have been different...because, I did really love this man alot...That father figure guy ended up sending him away to Las Vegas...
Celestial CelestialKiss@aol.com
Saturday, March 02, 2002 at 04:04:36 (PST)
BLACKSAMBO:
I have the CD "Songs In A Minor" & I have to day that she didn't deserve all the awards that she got. Jane Doe & Troubles were really the only good songs, to tell the truth. She's half White that's why she won. I know some light skinned chick is gonna come on here & bite my head off, but can you deny that this is the reason? Not only is Alicia Keys' Whiteness a factor, but a particular song of India Arie's... Brow Skin. I think that the White Supremacist judges weren't happy with a song that celebrated colored skin, especially when it's brown! She made Brown skin sound sexy & they don't want that. When she was backstage with U2, did it look like she was crying when she bowed or is it just my imagination? I AM UTTERLY P.O'd! India should have gotten something!
AsioPhile 81
Friday, March 01, 2002 at 20:42:42 (PST)
To: BLACKSAMBO
I have to admit that I was sad that India.Arie didn't win too. Even though Alicia Keys is my girl and I'm glad that she won, but I think India should have walked away win one or two of those awards.
India has been through thing considering her skin color, of course most Black Women do. Whether light skinned, brown skinned or dark skinned, we are all shade from the same root, Black.
India had one of the most inspirational songs that had came out in 2001, the song "Video". She will get her Grammy one day, she deserves it. Did you know that her father use to play for the Houston Rockets and he was one of the original "Twin Towers"? Yep, it's true.
PJ
Friday, March 01, 2002 at 14:40:18 (PST)
Hi Her Twin! I can understand looking like a celebrity too. Alot of people tell me that I look like Janet Jackson. So I'm a twin too.
Janet look a like Jackson
Friday, March 01, 2002 at 09:21:43 (PST)
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