Asian Male/Black Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN MALE/ BLACK FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to African American females?
Their facial features | 36%
Their physique | 36%
Their attitude and personality | 27%
Their education & cultural values | 1%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with African American females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 2%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 7%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 67%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 24%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 77%
Their physique | 4%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 4%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 78%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 13%

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Wow! What a site! If anyone is in the Fresno,CA area and is interested in meeting a very attractive African American Female email me.

I guess AA men and Af Am women are doing alot of assuming here!
tlc5ft4 tlc5ft4@yahoo.com Thursday, March 14, 2002 at 19:45:54 (PST)

Yay Tom Tom! Five years of marriage and two girls and a boy? You are living my dream!

As far as the children dissolving the friction with the grandparents, did it happen right away, like when the babies were first born? What did the grandparents say when they saw the babies?

I wonder about these things since my boyfriend and I are both the oldest in our families. My little sister already has a 2-year old, and whenever I see my mother (twice a year), she makes these oh-so-subtle hints about how my guy and I could make such beautiful grandchildren for her. Plus she likes the fact that I have such a wonderful guy in my life.

As for my boyfriend's mother, I still get the feeling that she's holding out for a nice Chinese daughter-in-law. Recently I joked with my boyfriend that if I did have his baby, she would completely disown him and ignore the child. He suddenly got a very serious look on his face, and then he told me that she would love and adore that baby like any other grandmother would. It really made me stop and think... maybe this issue is more complex than I'm giving it credit for.

Peace and love and goths (just kidding!) for all,
SistaMoonKitty Thursday, March 14, 2002 at 14:10:24 (PST)

Lexington Heights,

In my experience, I find Corean men to be more open to this type of "hook up" than the Japanese. Where I live, I get approached more by the Coreans & I personally find them very attractive.

Also, it probably depends on location &/or what generation they're from.
Park Ave. Thursday, March 14, 2002 at 13:07:15 (PST)

tomtom:

What a beautiful real life story. I wish you and your wife the best. I've been in the same situation, but he was too shy to ask me out. We continue to be close friends.

Kevin Lee:

Thanks for the recommendation. I'll check it out and let you know what I think.
Luscious Jackson Thursday, March 14, 2002 at 08:34:40 (PST)

I'm a black and vietnamese mixed female. I am really attracted to asian men. I notice alot of them wont get serious with me cause I'm half and half. I just moved here to san francisco. I am definitely not ugly or anything. They talk to me ask me out. Its just that they ask me what nationality I am. I tell them how I am black with a vietnamese daddy. And, its like they don't wanna get serious cause they want a unmixed black girl. Maybe they think if they get with me and have a kid, the kid will have too much mix.
anybody goin through this stuff?
if you are what do you do?
LeLe Thursday, March 14, 2002 at 08:17:01 (PST)

Hey Lexington Heights!
Yea, I think you might be right about that. When I was staying in Tokyo, I noticed alot of the Japanese men were more open to interracial dating. It was really cool. I have met some nice Korean men before though. They were just like, really worried about what their parents would think. But, they were alright just as long as it was just a "dating thing", and wasn't too seriouse. I guess it just depends on the guy though.I cant say all Korean men think this way though

Xia Thursday, March 14, 2002 at 07:53:29 (PST)

JTHM,

On the matter of religion and culture...
I have found religion to be a big challenge with my man and I. He was raised as a Buddhist...and used to be a monk...
my family has alot of Baptists.
I am not really too much into going to church. I don't go as much as I used to...but he has asked me if I would consider converting to buddhism.
And, he says he naturally wants our children to be raised into the beliefs.
Its funny...because when we met...
we never discussed these sort of things.It was mostly about ourselves...and we were so swept up into discovering our deep fascination with each other...that those issues were barely discussed. I do however feel that now...I have now considered, sitting down and really discussing it with him...
Celestial CelestialKiss@aol.com Thursday, March 14, 2002 at 07:46:21 (PST)

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