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Villageidiot, I've always tried to be honest and say that from 1 through 10 I never pick a number. I'm a person. Not a number.
pretty please
Friday, January 18, 2002 at 09:36:04 (PST)
Terri made a great point.
She's right too. All those morons who want and can only praise European women shouldn't be here but at one of those Buy A European Bride site. Which makes me question why are you guys here instead of over there purchasing a bride? They really don't cost that much, I've looked out of curiosity. I think all you have to do is be able to afford the plane ticket and some legal fees and the woman's yours.
I've lived in Europe for many years and as another wf who is also a Yank, I can say first hand that European women are no prettier or nicer than American women.
If European women were such beauties then where does that stereotype comes from of the manly, bearded, European female athlete that we love to poke fun of in our comedy shows?
If European women were such prized then why are so many European men falling all over themselves over American women? They go crazy of American models, actresses and the average American girl next door and dream of dating and marrying us.
I've even had males from royal families vying for my attention and telling me how much I look like the young version of Brooke Shields.
But, I don't want a European man. I can't help myself but always find myself drawn to Asian men which I find to be more sexier, sweeter and warmer.
I just find it a bit confusing. What I've learned here is that Asian men don't like Asian women and consider Asian women to be golddiggers and unattractive, but White women are better. Then Asian men don't like white American women and consider us to be golddiggers and unattractive, but consider European women to be better. It's confusing.
So, Asian men replaces Asian women with White women. Then replaces White American women with White European women. What's next? Will Asian men run out of options and replace White European women with African women?
Let's stop this craziness. Please?
pretty please
Friday, January 18, 2002 at 09:34:39 (PST)
What is all this stupidity regarding European vs American women? As Monika (I think) pointed out several posts back, MANY Americans are of European ancestry. My parents are French, my Mother a stunning beauty - I am proud of my Euro heritage.
Maybe some members of the forum should educate themselves regarding their family history instead of spending time at the Beauty Salon.
Parlez vous Francais?
Friday, January 18, 2002 at 08:13:58 (PST)
Terry wrote:
"Good to know so many Asian men have such low opinions about American women, white AMERICAN females like myself now know to think twice the next time some Asian man is staring my way!"
That's right. Not everyone in the world thinks American girls are the center of the universe or all that appealing in terms of personality. Boo hoo, get over it. You're going to have to get your backside kissed by someone else. Not all yank girls are bad but your little outburst is the perfect example of typical American female narrowmindedness, as if attention from you is some grand favor to us. Some of us don't have the time or patience for some of you to finally grow up when there are plenty of other good women who already are.
Asian Hauptsturmfuhrer
Friday, January 18, 2002 at 07:20:32 (PST)
I love american women so much.
,,,,,please don't blame asian men.
I am sad........
asian guy
Friday, January 18, 2002 at 01:22:38 (PST)
Hey..for all Asian dudes who want to meet white girls, especially the European ones, go join eurocircle.com. It's a club for European professionals living overseas. They are mostly Europeans but they take anybody of any nationalities. So you get to meet many American, Australian, South American, Asian girls too. They also tend to be professionals(VPs, directors, etc). So, many of their events are not that cheap. You have to wear nice clothes a lot like suits, black tie, etc. I went to one of their parties and I had a grrreat time. I was dancing with all the girls there (too much wine) and went home with 2 phone numbers, one from a French girl and the other from an American girl. My 2 Asian friends hooked up with an Aussie girl and a latin girl. Oh, and you don't have to worry if you have an accent because everybody speaks with one.
me_likes_white_chix
Thursday, January 17, 2002 at 23:25:26 (PST)
Yes, European women are friendlier than American women in NYC. But again, this could be the fact that these Europeans are tourists or foreigners in another country. People behave differently when they are in another country. They tend to be friendlier, I guess, because they know they are not in their 'hood. It's like going to someone else's house. I bet American women are friendlier when they are abroad too. I heard that the Japanese are very reserved in Japan, but they seem more open and friendlier here in America. It doesn't have to be among people of different countries, here in NYC I've found that even domestic tourists from other parts of the US are friendlier than the local people.
me_likes_white_chix
Thursday, January 17, 2002 at 22:07:09 (PST)
ABT,
I am not a WF, but I thought I would like to put in my $.02.
Courting is like dancing. You can dance fast, and you can dance slow. It all depends on you two. There is no universal speed limit. Usually, as a man, you lead, and she paces. If you start dancing faster, and she follows it. That’s good. If she doesn’t, slow down and form a better connection with her before you picking up speed again. If she decides to lead or gives you signal to change the dynamics between you too, you then respond as you wish. If one of you keeps dancing faster than the other one consistently, it will break the rhythm, and the relationship won’t work.
Odysseus
Thursday, January 17, 2002 at 15:19:45 (PST)
Berlin Bear,
Are you a mild-mannered guy? Coz I'm not. I'm Korean, with an explosive temper to match. I would've probably started some crap with them. If you are physically capable, make a point my insulting her to her face, right on the spot, then when her boyfriend steps in to protect her "honor", proceed to start a physical altercation. It isn't classy, but hey, it gets the point across. I've humbled more than one dumb Asian bitch and her white boy-toy in my lifetime -- and I'm no hulking mass of muscle either, just pure balls and heart. BTW, I'm not some disillusioned Asian guy who's been hurt one too many times by Asian women and now only dates white women. I've dated white women, but my current is a wonderful loyal and SECURE Asian woman. Life is good, but you gotta protect what is yours. And that also includes your dignity.
I Get What I Want
Thursday, January 17, 2002 at 12:46:54 (PST)
As a white female married to a Chinese man, I have always found this an interesting forum to read and respond to.
Now I am particularly intrigued at the new American women vs. European women topic, because my mom came here to the States from Germany at the age of 19. So although American born, I am half European, with my father's "American" ancestry only going back as far as my great-great grandfather - after that they are all Welsh relatives.
Obviously growing up in the States, I consider myself American , and am proud to be so. However, I was not raised in a traditional American valued and American cultured family. My mom's customs and views and European outlook weighed heavily in my upbringing. It would be when I was at friend's houses, or they visited me, that I became most aware that my family did things a little ( or a lot) differently.
I am glad now I was fortunate to have this upbringing, as I think it's important to honor your heritage and feel a connection to your roots. For this very reason, my child is being raised with exposure to his European side, his father's Asian culture, and that which is uniquely American as well. I think and hope this will make him a well rounded, interesting and ( more important ) interested man when he grows up, with respect for diversity and tradition .
At any rate, I recollect as a young teen being somewhat unable to relate to my other female friend's views on beauty and desirability and sexuality. It seems they bought so heavily into any and all media generated ( i.e: cosmetic company, haircare products company..) concepts of beauty. They felt the need to follow every trend and fad with a kind of insecurity and frantic quality. I understand the impact advertising and the media plays on people- our youth in particular - but boy does it lead to one homogenized bland blending of people, all dressed alike, looking alike - with no concern for whether any of the choices made reflect that person's concept of comfort and beauty and self expression. How many girls today are trying to emulate Brittney Spears, only to look like every single other girl in every mall across the country? No sense of self seems to exist among these young women wearing their clothes and hairstyles with a degree of insecurity so palpable it makes them unattractive.
I am not trying to criticize the young girls here - its hard at that age, its hard to fight the current. I am just trying to illustrate the fact that from very young ages on ,American females are lured into some kind of system that decides for them how to dress, act, talk, think...and I do not see this as heavily among my European relatives and friends. They are much more self accepting, much more attuned to what makes them unique and therefore able to enhance it, whether that be physical or emotional or intellectual attributes.
Someone remarked about the European women being more self assured, and that does seem true to me. I know that personally I never wanted to fit a cookie cutter image. I always found anything exotic or different about my self to be a blessing , not a curse.
I don't denounce the typical American woman - shes doing what she can, to the best of her knowledge. But I do have to wonder how anyone who has met a European woman or travelled to a European destination could not agree completely that theres a certain " something", a certain " essence" they possess which American women think can only be found in a bottle of perfume or a pierced navel. And its that edge that makes me grateful to have my German blood.
Lastly , one of the BEST qualities I think we Europeans have is that theres not just an acceptance with ourselves, and a confidence- but an acceptance of other women too. We don't have our claws bared so quickly...so despite some of the rather hostile and petty and unfounded remarks about hairness and such ( lol ) made by some female posters, I do understand that its always easier to try to diminish that which we are threatened by, as opposed to trying to rise to its level.
P.S. My husband and I do a bit better than most AM/WF relationships, I think, because I can more completely understand his feelings of " being an outsider" within the white world..despite my being white. I do urge AM interested in white females not just to consider the European girls, but also those who are first generation Americans. We do understand what it is like to wish to maintain one's heritage and support and encourage this against the overwhelming force to mainstream into America's big life-is-a-sitcom mentality.
Happy Clam wschien1@home.com
Thursday, January 17, 2002 at 12:21:58 (PST)
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