Asian Male/White Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN MALE/ WHITE FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to White females?
Their facial features | 62%
Their physique | 23%
Their attitude and personality | 12%
Their education & cultural values | 3%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with White females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 12%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 72%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 16%

Assuming you are a White female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 74%
Their physique | 7%
Their attitude and personality | 14%
Their education & cultural values | 5%

Assuming you are a White female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 8%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 72%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 19%

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Well said azn-boy bluntz. I've gotten a lot of advice here and the main advice has always been confidence. When did this board become a comparison between which lady is from where? Now on with the advice! I have never had the chance to date a white female and reading this board showed me that that there are WFs out there that recognize us and are open-minded and culturally aware. Confidence wasn't the issue. I just wish there were more ladies who are open-minded in my area.

White Chick
It's not that we're scared, I think it's the stereotyping we get from the media/public that we hear and get labeled as, I know that's a common excuse. As much confidence I had and as many WFs I asked out they gave me the same excuse: "Sorry i'm not interested and my parents wouldn't accept you." Maybe it's the area I'm in. I had a long argument one time with an asian girl FRIEND of mine and she wondered why asian guys had this problem. WM/AF relationships are very common here. My sister married one. My asian girl - FRIEND dated one. She asked her WF friend one time if she would date an asian guy and she said no because her parents wouldn't accept it. She asked if her parents were to accept it then would she date an asian guy. She didn't even answer her. I'm a very open-minded person and won't let the negativity stop me from asking WF out. But I think it's also a matter of meeting the ladies who are open-minded. So, scared? No. Just wish there were more open - minded ladies.
So, to all the WFs who read this board and give us advice. Thank you.

ABT pjchen28@hotmail.com Thursday, January 31, 2002 at 11:20:03 (PST)

To I Love the Mediterranean,
Israelis are jews and they are proud to identify as such thank you very much...

Some Israelis are european, some are middle eastern, some are african, and some are even asian... but they are all jews.
Israeli-chinese boy Thursday, January 31, 2002 at 00:11:46 (PST)

Hey Girlie Love:

'as an American woman, I have traveled all over the world'

REALLY??? Tell us more.

Luv2Luv Wednesday, January 30, 2002 at 22:58:08 (PST)

"maybe you are just scared of chicks in general."

yep cat's out of the bag, that's why there's the gay asians stereotype and why you get the gay AM porn but no other kinds of porn involving AM. it's all true.

:)
villageidiot Wednesday, January 30, 2002 at 20:02:31 (PST)

LoLz! i knew there would be hateRz..

Someone said "why do you come here" I came here cuz my friend gave me the link, and skimmed thru a lot of the posts here, so I decided to give my 2centz.. and let me tell you it does not take 20 visits to this page to realize how the ABC's are in here.

Confident ABC, u should be LMAO at yourself.. with a screen name like that.. its sounds like your 'trying' to give off that "confident" image.. (on the net!), if you were so confident you wouldn't use a name like that.. you ever heard of the phrase "killers stay silent, fakers run there mouths"? well incase you don't know what that means.. it's basically saying, if your all showing how confident etc. etc., your prolly not confident at all..for those that are confident, they don't need to show it off, because just knowing it for themselves
is enough.. oh and im 20.. so i might sound like a HS kid to you but i know what im saying.

to the guy that claim to know my race (LOL@YOU). Infact you sound more of a hater then I do, listen to yourself please, read over what you typed.. im anything but dweeby or white.. OK guy? I don't need to type really really proper with nice little sentences like most of yall, why? because im comfortable typing like this and its MUCH faster :). but I can use proper sentences if I really needed to :).. and guess what i'm also 100% dragon blood, Taiwanese.. so I guess your just wrong again.. "I can't tell you how much I savor that expression of impotent rage on their faces" you sound very angry there buddy.. but why? all cause of a Internet post you've read? like I said, some of you are taking this too seriously, when you should be out doing something about it.

yep, I go and talk to those flY white girls without hesitating.. you know why? Because i dont care about rejection.. for a 20 year old I prolly have more balls then you older guys huh? I am anything but the ordinary ABC. but maybe that's how it should be. Eh?

Tip for ABC's with no balls: try seeing rejection as a goal. And it gets easier after the 10th rejection, but then again lets say u hit on 30 random girls. I guarantee a handful out of that 30 ladies would say "yea heres my #" and DaYaM! fix yourselves up a little.. cuz alot of the brothers need some work....good for you.

It really upsets me that my own kind is hating on me, when all I was doing is giving you guys some help. But hey. you don't have to listen to me..shoot-- go ahead and play the game how u always did.. nothing will be different.

-out

AzN-Boi bLuNtz
AzN-Boi bLuNtz ODonAndY@NeTScape.NeT Wednesday, January 30, 2002 at 14:16:43 (PST)

Hello, my beloved Asian Brothers,

RE: [Beauty comes in all forms.]
And, I am glad that everyone has different tastes. Overly stating your personal preferences doesn't seem to be an useful article in a forum that is discussing the RELATIONSHIPs of AM/WF.

RE: [Just stop pitting one female against the other, this sh!t is making me mad!]
Get her points, bro. If you like certain type of women, good for you! It is not necessary to put down other types of women to make your type of women look like goddess. Every women is a goddess on her own. You need no comparison. Either you like her, or you just leave her alone. Putting her down doesn't not make you or your dream women look any good.

Now, can we talk about something more meaningful?

Say no more WHAT and ask no more WHY, just find out HOW.
-WHAT is where you are right now.
-WHY is how you came here yesterday.
-HOW takes you places you wanna go tomorrow.

You gotta know your past, know where you are, but, most important, find out how you are gonna go to places you wanna be tomorrow.

"Do or do not, there is no try" -Yoda.

Odysseus Wednesday, January 30, 2002 at 12:31:19 (PST)

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