Asian Male/White Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN MALE/ WHITE FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to White females?
Their facial features | 62%
Their physique | 23%
Their attitude and personality | 12%
Their education & cultural values | 3%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with White females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 12%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 72%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 16%

Assuming you are a White female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 74%
Their physique | 7%
Their attitude and personality | 14%
Their education & cultural values | 5%

Assuming you are a White female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 8%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 72%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 19%

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To All MY Beloved Asian friends:

I agree with other's comments that it seems not enough Asian men are willing to step to white women. I think there are many reasons--number one is fear of rejection (which literally ALL humans feel when meeting a new person).

Another reason may be because AM/WF relationships are very rarely portrayed by our media, so they may feel that a white woman simply has never considered dating an Asian man, and won't know what to think of it.

Let me reassure you that more and more white women are considering Asian men as potential dates/lovers/husbands! I see a lot of AM/WF couples in my area, many are married with really cute children. So, just go for it! Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
Girlie Love Friday, February 01, 2002 at 05:20:46 (PST)

Luv2Luv, What do you wanna know? :)
I've been to Asia, Europe, Africa, Australia, etc. I was surprised when first traveling in countries like China and Malaysia, when Asian guys hit on me! They told me I was beautiful, I was very flattered. I had no idea that some Asian men find white women attractive.
Girlie Love Friday, February 01, 2002 at 05:17:41 (PST)

ABT,

If you're in Virginia, I'll be upset because I'm going there this month. WF are as picky as AM.
Confident ABC Friday, February 01, 2002 at 01:14:14 (PST)

AzN-Boi bLuNtz,

I'm so upset. A single tear rolls down my cheek. You dipshit. I was referring to MY OWN HS FRIEND JEFF! I was on your side and you pissed on my post and threw me out like garbage. Fine, I'll call you JEFF from now on! You either WANT me to hate you or you need to study more english.

Killers stay silent my ass. Put your friggen X-BOX away and read a book, Jeff. And if your typing doesn't improve, I might "hate on" you some more. You reply what you like, I'm going back to the AM/WF chit chat.
Confident ABC mcse2020@yahoo.com Friday, February 01, 2002 at 00:39:24 (PST)

I think that many people have stereotyped Asian Males as this and that. But the truth is,...man are just being "disoriented" by how the Media, sp. Hollywood reflets Asian Males.
I wish there'd be a GREAT improvement in the Future.
ERIC marines27au@yahoo.com.au Thursday, January 31, 2002 at 23:14:48 (PST)

-"I find you white girls very attractive and very very blah blah blah!" STFU already and do something, you make asians like me look bad"

Hah... HAHAHAHAHAH!! I liked that. :)

-"Killers stay silent, fakers run there mouths"

Run their mouths...

Nice quote, but isn't that what you were doing here? ^_^;

Keep posting, ya doing great! =P

AzN Canadian Thursday, January 31, 2002 at 21:07:52 (PST)

To AMWF love pisses whitey off...
Hey, now, bro! Slo down a tad...as a non-asian female, i take great exception to yr' statement.."Frankly, I enjoy public displays of affection with white women not only because I love them to death, but also because there are still quite a few white males out there who bust a gut when they see me running my gook hands all over pristine nordic womanhood. I can't tell you how much I savor that expression of impotent rage on their faces." 'Kay...so, like, how do you expect us to believe that you gorgeous guys are not now just after us to piss off whitey? Being part american indian, part italian, i will no longer be with white guys..my choice. And i thought you men had more intelligence than that.
heartbroken in LA emptymeyer@hotmail.com Thursday, January 31, 2002 at 19:38:59 (PST)

I think that it doesn't and shouldn't really matter if you are Asian or white male, as long as you love whoever it may be you should persue this person despite barriers that come in the way(stereotype, cultural difference, blah blah blah) you should just forget about these things (which won't help you) and act like yourself. These are little issues that stand in your way of your desire. The media and other voices can blab about all they want, but it's really you that can make a difference. I found that blaming media, others, or even my god given features won't help. It's really how you as a person feel towards someone and expressing that despite all that nonsense which come in your way.
dga qwerty9494@yahoo.com Thursday, January 31, 2002 at 17:45:56 (PST)

ABT,

Re: She asked if her parents were to accept it then would she date an asian guy. She didn't even answer her.

I am not interested in whether she would date an AM or not. I am only interested in whether she would date me or not. Cause her idea of an AM is usually far from who I am.
Odysseus Thursday, January 31, 2002 at 17:36:03 (PST)

AzN-Boi bLuNtz,

Sound to me like you're more of an arrogant punk than a confident person. Listen to yourselves... Jesus, if you don't have something to say don't say it. Ever heard of manner, compadre??? You're right about one thing though... The killer tends to stay silent and I know so because I am one in a different category: popularity... You tend to get sick of it after a while and sometimes you don't want anybody to talk about you anymore and just be normal. I know so buddy... I know I am too humble and modest, but boys like you don't know what it meant because all it takes is a couple of chicks to feed your ego and you be spilling out crap bashing your own brothers and sisters thinking you're king of the gods over such feeble accomplishment. An advice: think before you type... All of us are men here so we can understand you perfectly. You're right to some extent because a lot of Asians don't have the ball. Some of us really need to say just once "What the fuck!!! How bad can it be!!!" sometimes... Sigh...
NonExisted Thursday, January 31, 2002 at 15:56:21 (PST)

Re: [Tip for ABC's with no balls: try seeing rejection as a goal. And it gets easier after the 10th rejection]

In the bar scene:
There is this game guys play that you put together $5 or $10 from each person, and at the end of the night, the person who got the most "rejections" got the whole pot.

Pretty often, it's the same guy who got most numbers too (at least one who's doing above average). It's a number game. WM doen't do much better in the bar either.

I would prefer the following places:
Yoga classes
Dance classes
Meditation workshops
Art galleries
Museums
Church
malls
cafes
bookstores

Even street is a more friendly place than bars/clubs for picking up girls.

Odysseus Thursday, January 31, 2002 at 15:22:50 (PST)

The more Azn-Boi-Bluntz speaks the more I want him.

Bad
licking my lips Thursday, January 31, 2002 at 14:07:37 (PST)

I'm a white female that has an Asian male friend I'd like to date. I'm not at all worried about my family disapproving, but get the impression his family wouldn't like it. He's told me his parents are pushing pretty hard to set him up with a girl in another country he's only met once. I'm not sure if this is just a universal parental "I wish my son could meet a nice girl and settle down" thing or if it a definate push towards an arranged marriage. Anyone have any suggestions?
Ms. Wrong Thursday, January 31, 2002 at 13:17:36 (PST)

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