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ASIAN MALE/ WHITE FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
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Michelle22 expresses nicely her sentiments on her boyfriend in the "WF Attraction/Perception of AM" column of the AA Issues section (it's also on the home page). As I read the many stories like hers and other WF's, I feel very encouraged in seeing the many similarities in the attitude of the indiviuals involved. They're the ones who make the AM/WF relationships special. The chemistry is undeniable!
Oh, while we're on the subject of the best places for interracial dating/relationship, Seattle gets my vote. I did community work there in my college years. I worked with many Asians in the community. My impression is that the community is very large, diverse, lively, educated and most Asians seem to get along well with each other and the rest with the exception of minor racial strife here and there which I think would occur in any big city. Unlike other cities I know, the various ethnic groups of Seattle do seem to mix and intermingle. It helps that they have the International District, a city within a city they can call their own, where they set up shops, offices, where they work and live side by side ... and oh yes, where single WF like me like to hang out :) (or used to).
BrunetteGirl
Wednesday, March 13, 2002 at 03:17:28 (PST)
Hey, I remember when I was in China there was a number of white females, especially in Beijing. I was in Beijing, Harbin, and Qiqiharar (hope I spelled that right, my dad's from there) to visit family, my aunt told me that most of them were students after I asked why there were so many whites in China (I was like 16 at the time). Anyways, I was just wondering if the majority of the white females in China are interested Chinese men or they're there just for school. I know it's kind of a hard question and it's probably based on personal opinions, but oh well. I'm not planning on going to China just to pick up some chick btw, I'm just curious. My answer would be yes, because after being in a place with so many people of the same race you'd eventually become used to it and begin living like them. Of course there could be some that just hates China, I noticed people spitting in restaurants and women not shaving their armpits there.
Yao Ming=dunk on Shaq
Wednesday, March 13, 2002 at 00:57:57 (PST)
But someday, I hope that the difference between saying that you prefer white girls to black girls is as innocent as saying you prefer blondes to redheads. It's a minor, arbitrary physical preference that no one's going to chastise you on. "Can I get a witness? Can I get an AMEN BROTHER?" :)
Chris, how naive. A white female with blonde or red hair will have certain facial features (slim noses, proportioned lips) and body types (slender, shapely, curvy). The complete opposite of black girls. How can you call that minor or arbitrary?
Cute n Blonde
Tuesday, March 12, 2002 at 23:29:38 (PST)
My friend asked this hottest blonde in our senior class to prom and got turned down. But it's not because he was Asian, but because someone asked her out 2 days ago. She gave him lots of hints but too bad he didn't ask her earlier. :(
OK this is happening in the south so don't think everyone's all racist down here.
Student in Dixie Land
Tuesday, March 12, 2002 at 20:39:52 (PST)
Mile High, Puzzled, any other guys,
I didn't mean to "go off" on all you guys. I was just a little annoyed with that "imposter" post at the time. :-) It sounds like some of you are really nice guys and I'm glad you take personality into consideration too. There's nothing wrong with some physical attraction too, it's normal. I think we all understand each other. Mile High, thanks for re-clarifying, and thanks for your sweet response. Puzzled, don't worry I don't think you're a player, you were just wondering what was going on. Don't have much time to write anything else since movers are here and it's crazy.
Southern White Girl
Tuesday, March 12, 2002 at 12:31:05 (PST)
Chinese Aussie Bloke
I work with an WM anglican from Cape Town and he say's they're no real opinion on Asians down there, only blacks vs whites. The general view is Asians are hard workers and we don't nag about quality of life issues like westerners so long as the money rolls in. But I've never been there.
Confident ABC
Tuesday, March 12, 2002 at 12:23:20 (PST)
Southern White Girl,
Williamsburg, VA. I was there for training at the naval weapons base. I'm originally from NYC.
Confident ABC
Tuesday, March 12, 2002 at 12:08:11 (PST)
lordt78,
:) personally i dont need any, but share your advice with everyone!
freaky chakra
Tuesday, March 12, 2002 at 12:05:32 (PST)
tenor,
"Sorry for being a big mouth and nosing around."
not at all. to the contrary, i thank you for the advice, it's very nice of you to post these things for other people's as well, if not for my own benefit. but i had enough heartaches in the past to not really want to play the game anymore.
"Don't put all your eggs in one basket."
yep, i learned this lesson the hard way until i realized the american dating culture is about getting to know as many people as you can and then make your decision based on what's best available. i made this mistake with a girl before and the funny thing is she actually told me not to put all my eggs in one basket. so now i know better and to not have expectations and to take things as they come. who knows what will happen in a relationship, i know for sure now i won't be the first to make a commitment. the old adage works for me, you've got to be happy by yourself because others can't make you happy. so i'm not looking for relationships because i'm content being single.
as for the being friends when she already has a boyfriend issue, i've been burned there as well. in fact, i still see those two every week in classes. not to make a long story about it, but suffice the say the boyfriend is somebody who lies and dumps girls left and right until this girl he met which he says is his dream girl. she seems to be happy, so good for them. but i was trying to be a true friend and told her to be careful, not what the boyfriend had done in the past mind you, but just to be careful in relationships in general. so of course, i immediately become the big-bad-wolf and am the one who's trying to break people apart because she probably thinks i'm trying to manipulate her feelings. funny thing is the boyfriend is the best manipulator of them all. so you see tenor, now i don't want anything to do with either of those two. and like i've said, others who you meet on the acquaintance level with boyfriends say you can be friends, but you only see each other once a month and it's the usual "how's life going."
what, me bitter? i've no problems at all speaking with girls, i just don't care anymore about the hooking up part. besides, i'm graduating this spring and it's unfair to start a relationship since i think i'll be moving anyhow. but once again thanks man.
and as for WF specifically or not, if i can use the AF excuse, WF are a majority of girls who i'm in contact with, but other than that i really don't have a preference or care about ethnicity, as long we get along together i enjoy meeting all sorts of people.
AMEN BROTHER to the poet warrior.
villageidiot villageidiot1@collegeclub.com
Tuesday, March 12, 2002 at 10:08:49 (PST)
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