Asian Male/White Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN MALE/ WHITE FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to White females?
Their facial features | 62%
Their physique | 23%
Their attitude and personality | 12%
Their education & cultural values | 3%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with White females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 12%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 72%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 16%

Assuming you are a White female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 74%
Their physique | 7%
Their attitude and personality | 14%
Their education & cultural values | 5%

Assuming you are a White female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 8%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 72%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 19%

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"Chris, how naive. A white female with blonde or red hair will have certain facial features (slim noses, proportioned lips) and body types (slender, shapely, curvy). The complete opposite of black girls. How can you call that minor or arbitrary?"

Cute n Blonde:

I think you may have misunderstood me. When I said "...it's a minor, arbitrary physical preference" I meant that the preference part of it was arbitrary, and not the physical differences. Of course black, white and Asian girls look completely different! There's nothing minor or arbitrary about that.

But take, for instance, a person's preference for blondes or brunettes. There's really no logical reason why someone would prefer one over the other; for the most part, the only difference between the girls is their hair color. It's just a simple preference--like preferring Pepsi to Coke, oranges to apples, or whatever--that needs no real explanation.

Someday I hope that racial preference will fall into that category too: where women of every skin, hair and eye color will be equally beautiful to everyone, so that people when picking their favorites are not doing so with race in mind. In a world such as this, I would never get in trouble for stating my preferences, and no one would give it a second thought if I said that I prefer Cute 'n Blonde girls over skinny Asian girls. ;)
Chris (Poet/Warrior) fearless1976@yahoo.com Wednesday, March 13, 2002 at 23:42:54 (PST)

I had a "quickie" with my co-worker, and yes, she is a hot young blonde. Don't want to get into details, but yes, I think there really is a racial difference in sexual satisfaction and feeling. It just felt good with her. She was the best. Prior to her, my other experiences were with Asian girls.

I admit it that I am very sexually attracted to white blonde women. I really like taller and well-endowed women.
no qualms about it Wednesday, March 13, 2002 at 23:16:02 (PST)

Southern White Girl, in your earlier comment you mentioned that your husband didn't play basketball seriously and your brother and dad thought he sucked. But they were proved wrong. I think most people in society tend to judge people quickly without being modest and fair. Any time when someone is really good at what they can do, they are modest because they know there's others that are better than they are even though they are good and also it's not really based on your physical appearance but your hardwork put forth to attain such skills. For example, you don't often see Olympic champions being arrogant (although a few do and are looked down on). Speaking of athletics, one story of AM/WF that inspires me is the story of a top Chinese gymnast Donghua Li that had injuries early in his career and in 1988 fell in love with a Swiss tourist, Esperanza when he was giving directions in Beijing. He was given the decision to be on the Chinese olympic team or being with Esperanza. He choose to be with Esperanza and moved to Switzerland. To make a long story short, he won the gold medal in side (pommel) horse at the '96 Atlanta games being the first Swiss to do that in some 40 years. It just shows you that love can overcome a lot of things even if the odds are against you.

I think although your husband beat your brother and dad both of whom were feeling bad, it's a good bitter lesson that not everyone are as they might appear. This is a lesson that most WM need. I think most AM I've been around never underestimates or overestimate someone.
Zeta Wednesday, March 13, 2002 at 20:27:29 (PST)

Does anyone know what the AM/WF dating situation is like in Austin, TX or just Texas in general? I'm going to UT Austin next fall.
Incoming Longhorner Wednesday, March 13, 2002 at 17:44:34 (PST)

Confident ABC,

One of my best friend was from Cape Cod, and his sister dated an Asian dude I knew, and his younger sister was friends w/ my younger sister.

I've been to his house lots of times and both of his parents were very friendly to me.
JJK Wednesday, March 13, 2002 at 13:00:08 (PST)

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