Asian Male/White Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN MALE/ WHITE FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to White females?
Their facial features | 62%
Their physique | 23%
Their attitude and personality | 12%
Their education & cultural values | 3%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with White females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 12%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 72%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 16%

Assuming you are a White female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 74%
Their physique | 7%
Their attitude and personality | 14%
Their education & cultural values | 5%

Assuming you are a White female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 8%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 72%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 19%

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I've just looked at the AF/WM board and I found the postings quite interesting. Thanks Ron. Guys, why not look at how WM think about WF and how AF think about AM?

I started thinking about WF/AM relationship 2 weeks ago, and it seems to me that STATISTICALLY AM are in a very bad situation. Statistically, there are more AF than AM marrying other races. Also every year, most of the new asian immigrants are males, most asian students coming to study in the US are males. Most of these students choose to stay in the US. So, if AMs don't consider IR relationship, a lot will have to consider ARRANGED MARRIAGE BACK HOME!!!!!! Dear Asian brothers, I don't want to see any of you end up having arranged marriage.

PS: A week ago, I cared about statistics, but from now on, I won't care about statistics anymore because it is just a matter of understanding and most importantly GUT.
ttyxterm ttyxterm@hotmail.com Saturday, March 16, 2002 at 16:02:20 (PST)

Thanks everyone. Yay white girls! You rule!

Indeed they do! Have you been to Asia and seen all the English magazine racks...only white girls. My friend you are stating the obvious!

From Hong Kong Saturday, March 16, 2002 at 15:15:16 (PST)

Tonite, i go out with my buddies (8 guys) to see that movie "Evil something..." and walking up the steps (minding my own business) in front of a bunch of girls in the Cinemark, i felt someone pinch my ass. Yes, i said "pinched my ass!!!". Then i heard a "did you do that? i cant believe you did that..." and giggling.

I look behind me to see some very cute & pretty black and white females. I think like 4 or something.

umm..i guess this goes in the BF forum too? Now i'm really Confused?!?!
Puzzzled Again Friday, March 15, 2002 at 23:44:58 (PST)

Ttysterm,

I acted "shy" when I was dating my husband. Of course, after we got married he realized that I'm not shy at all, but that didn't bother him. He fell in love with the real me. I acted shy because at the time, I was in his home country and I was just respecting his traditions which he found appealing that I, a foreigner, could understand and adapt so well. So, I wasn't acting shy to fool him, I was acting shy to get what I wanted which was him. I got him so it must have worked, right. Everybody, wish me luck on my move, our place is empty and I won't be able to come around much.
Southern White Girl Friday, March 15, 2002 at 23:26:55 (PST)

what's the feeling on asian men with ink? i've got 2 tatts, one on my chest and the other on a shoulder-blade.
got ink done Friday, March 15, 2002 at 14:25:57 (PST)

I'm moving to Bay Area soon. I've been there once and I like the weather. But 2 weeks ago, I started thinking about the dating situation and the fact that there are a lot more men there than women. Does anybody want to share their dating experience in Bay Area please?

Ron (Bay Area), thanks for your reply to my e-mail.
ttyxterm ttyxterm@hotmail.com Friday, March 15, 2002 at 10:20:45 (PST)

Hi all,
Ok, let's see. I've been lucky to meet some ladies that were interested but found out that they had some issues and ended up where they weren't ready.
I've been meeting a lot of ladies who are either divorced or just broke up with their bf. The ladies who are divorced are into casual dating which I'm trying to get used to right now after having been in real long term relationships. The ladies who just broke up with their bf end up not being ready, even after it's been a year since their breakup, which i can understand. I've only dated asians and they were mostly 2 to 4 year relationships. Now things have changed and starting to meet more WF. Is there something to casual dating that you have to understand? Go with the flow? Not expect so much? Etiquette 101? Especially after they get a divorce/ breakup? Any insight from the WFs on this forum I'd love to hear it.
ABT
ABT Friday, March 15, 2002 at 09:08:07 (PST)

I have a couple of problems with Cute n Blondes comments.
To say things are complete opposites precludes any overlapping of similarities. NOT all white women, irregardless of their hair color, have " slim noses, proportioned lips, and slender, shapely, or curvy body types". SOME do..as do SOME black women. One trip scouting around your local mall will show you plenty of white women with big thick noses , disproportioned lips, and , frankly, fat asses and big guts.
A discussion of the physical characteristics of Black and White women, is not, ironically , a black and white issue. There are too many variables...too many different ways women of all races appear. Look at Iman versus Oprah, Heather Locklear versus Shelly Winters. Theres no ONE set of features all white or all black women have .
The most disturbing thought to me is the implication that the " white" features are the desirable ones, and a black woman not possessing those " white " features cannot be deemed attractive.This is what is being expressed by Cute n Blonde saying 'opposite'. Despite the fact that its nonsensical and unsupported, its incredibly racist. I wonder what kind of scrutiny Cutes features could undergo?
Does this hold true for men as well? Lets see ...Drew Carrey is white...Denzel Washington is black. Who was named People Magazines sexiest man of the year?? I think there are, quite simply, attractive people and less attractive people to THE EYES OF THE BEHOLDER within all races, and if you want to say this individual versus that individual is less or more physically appealing to me - fine. But to take two races and think they are all identical in appearance and features within their race, so therefore able to be compared and deemed " opposite"...its not only illogical and unsupported by a shred of scientific proof...its also incredibly racist.
And guess what? No, I am NOT a black woman, I am a white woman...but there are plenty of black women I would love to trade noses or lips with, and plenty of white women I don't think are at all attractive.
One final thought - as far as looking at women in a strictly physical sense and having preferences of skin color, hair texture, etc..thats a personal choice. We all have a " look" that turns us on, I guess. But lets not forget people bring with them their cultures, and I don't think a black woman wants to have her culture dismissed any more than would an Asian. Its NOT just a physical difference when its a racial difference and I say this to support the fact that you cannot strip away people's identity and reduce them merely to haircolor or nose width. I appreciate Chris being open minded and his views of love one another, but my loving my Asian husband INCLUDES his culture and ethnicity and not merely based on his eye shape and hair and skin color, and I think a black woman wants her culture and race not to be swept aside, even by someone admiring her physical appearance. Women - people - are package deals, and its sad we pigeonhole each other to death.
Happy Clam Friday, March 15, 2002 at 08:18:51 (PST)

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