Asian Male/White Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN MALE/ WHITE FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to White females?
Their facial features | 62%
Their physique | 23%
Their attitude and personality | 12%
Their education & cultural values | 3%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with White females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 12%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 72%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 16%

Assuming you are a White female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 74%
Their physique | 7%
Their attitude and personality | 14%
Their education & cultural values | 5%

Assuming you are a White female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 8%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 72%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 19%

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I have light brown hair. I am very pretty and attract alot of attention from asian men. I think Cute's perceptions are so backwards. How does she know the first thing of whether or not her face is properly proportioned. A plastic surgeon might very well look at her face, and assume it needs alot of help. So, her standards of beauty...and alot of the ones on here, are pretty sad. I date asian men. Not all of them have such "proportionate" features. But, they do have things that turn me on alot about them. I do alot of modeling, and I have noticed alot of narrow minded thinkers like Cute (living in their little bubble)don't learn too much from life.
Cindy Friday, March 22, 2002 at 06:10:45 (PST)

Cute n Blonde:

I read some of the comments on here for the first time. Do you really think that makes you sound attractive? It makes you sound as though you arent very bright. I am more attracted to women who look good, and who speak with a high level of intelligence. I can't believe how ignorant you sounded. Didnt your parents raise you to be better than that? If not, they should feel ashamed of you.
Jon Lee Friday, March 22, 2002 at 04:47:48 (PST)

I am a WF in Seattle WA. I am ashamed of people like Cute n Blonde, who make such dumb statements. As a white female, it is hard enough to deal with people judging us...and assuming we are cynical, snobby and prejudiced. I wish people with such ways of thinking would drop off of the face of this earth. But I know that will never happen. There are always going to be people like Cute n Blonde, men and women...with narrow minded ways of seeing things.
I do date asian men. They are very sexy in my eyes. When I do date them, its not just for some silly sexual conquest either. I want to really get to know them, learn about their culture and expand my knowledge. I grew up in a very prejudiced (strict) itallian catholic community, that didn't look very kindly on interracial dating. Especially with an asian man. They would literally beat the crap out of someone for just coming into our neighborhood...for being not a white itallian. This even applied to nordic whites(they used to refer to them as Anglo-Saxon Pricks)
jews,blacks,hispanics,asians...
whatever. They would physically beat people up for maybe even accidentally, coming into our "itallian"neighborhood. It was so ridiculous.And oh my god...if they saw an itallian girl with someone NOT itallian...both would get their asses kicked. It was terrible. This stuff still goes on there.
I was so freakin glad to graduate highschool, and move away from that stuff.
So now I am living out here, and its really great. I don't see as many people against the interracial dating thing.And, I don't see as many people with dumb and negative ways of seeing people...no matter if they are german,itallian,asian,mexican,black,jewish,or whatever they are. I think its really really so cool.Its all been such a great experience for me.
I am a techno rave DJ and I meet so many different faces. Its been really exciting for me, breaking out of that shell of a place I grew up in.
If any asian men are looking for an open minded city to interracial dating, with WW...Seattle is one of them. Its very open to AM and WW. If you haven't tried it, come and check it out you guys! Its beautiful!
:)
Gina(BlueEyes)Gianelli Thursday, March 21, 2002 at 23:28:21 (PST)

Happy Clam:
Well spoken. Intelligence in a woman is a very attractive. Especially one who is so culturally aware. Just being a so called "cute n blonde" and making rude and judgemental comments...(such as those lacking in the brain department)well, its really pathetic. I admire your spunk Happy Clam.
I also commend SouthernWhiteGirl for her spunk too. She really speaks up for herself, and she doesn't demean anyone in the process.
Tam Ngoc Le Thursday, March 21, 2002 at 16:28:56 (PST)

I am a natural blonde haired, blue eyed white cuban woman. I find asian men to be so beautiful and sensual. Their deep, exotic shaped...romantic eyes...And such soft soft beautiful clear skin.Some have such striking features, and look so sexy. I love the soft dark hair...the way it flatters their soft skin!!!! Mmmmm!!!! Aiy!Papi que rico...si me gusto me gusto!
Yes...I admit, it is physical. But, it can become deeper...looking into those eyes.
When I moved to California from Miami, I met alot of beautiul Japanese, Korean and Chinese men. They were such gentlemen, and really knew how to treat a lady. It was really really nice. Aquello si' que fue bonito... And as far as the sexual part...mmm...
Is this a G-rated poll? hehe!!!!!!!!!!
Its just something so alluring about asian men.
I have just graduated college...and getting ready to do alot of traveling! I will definitely be going overseas!
Christina M.Cruz Thursday, March 21, 2002 at 14:33:52 (PST)

"Beauty isnt always a flat ass and no lips"

Thanks for insulting white women who are here trying to meet asian men. I'm sure Italian women have "real" curves. All the Italian women that I know curves turns into super highways within a few years.
WF Thursday, March 21, 2002 at 14:07:01 (PST)

I'm in Amsterdam right now (on spring break), and the women here are quite into ethnic men, as long as you're friendly and outgoing. And in London, there were tons of ethnic men with white british women, mostly black guys though. But I think the reason for this is that the black guys in the UK are more outgoing and love to dance. I got some action at a club and then sumpin' more at her place in London. I'm no super stud, I"m just a good flirt and know how to make a woman feel good. I think that European women are much more open to relations with non-white men than white American women are. And the women in Amsterdam are quite beautiful. Of course there are the ugly ones, like in any place, but the hot ones are off the chart! I think its true what they say about the Dutch people's height -- women here average 5'10", no joke! But get this- I always see guys that are shorter with beautiful, tall women. I"m only 5'8" myself, and I hope to get lucky here. I feel fairly confident. I'm out, and on the prowl. Payce.
Asian Travelling in Europe. Thursday, March 21, 2002 at 10:24:43 (PST)

Trisha from Manhattan,

I live not too far from Manhattan. WHere in Manhattan are you from?
Lordt78 Thursday, March 21, 2002 at 09:53:27 (PST)

Hi Mark, I'd say that my first impression of a lot of AA men is that they are a little stuck-up, and have an attitude, but that they care about their appearance (which is nice! I hate sloppy looking men), are smart, hard working, and have good values. Then again there are those that are very quiet and book-wormish.
white girl Thursday, March 21, 2002 at 08:47:56 (PST)

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