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Curious Girl, well said!!. From my persepctive as an AM, i think its great to buy your girl gifts, and pay for dinner and stuff, but F*##, some of these chicks on here sound so spoiled.
If being showered with gifts are the only way they perceived as "love", what the hell would i do if i can no longer afford these things. The point is, if you want your relationship to be lasting, build it on our intangible values, such as mutual understanding, respect, honour, trust, appreciation, and sweet compliments.
Superficiality is non lasting. I remember not too long ago on this forum some AM's complained that the reason they choose WF over AF is because AF are gold diggers, but this rationale doesn't seem hold anymore.
AM(24) from DownUnder
Wednesday, May 01, 2002 at 06:11:54 (PDT)
One comment on those ćyou got the lookä and ćhe got the money typeä of relationships:
I guess as long as you are both happy about it, interracial or intra-racial, it would both works out as long as you will always have the look and he will always have the money. Unless you two develop something others canāt provide during the time that you are together, your relationship will change if one of you lost what get you together initially.
Try to create feelings that the other partner absolutely have to have in a relationship in a way that only you can provide/create them and no one else can··. and itās something that you can do it as long as you breathe·· (money and look donāt last forever, do they?)
Loving Tenor LovingTenor@bigfoot.com
Tuesday, April 30, 2002 at 20:38:32 (PDT)
Hi Folks,
For me, it's ok for a man to be the provider in a relationship if he happens to be in a much higher economic status. If both of them are pretty much at the same level, then I can't respect a woman who spends all (or most) her money on buying her own clothes and expects the man to pay for her living. I treat my girl like a princess not a property. If I got a promotion/new job, I have no problem treating my girlfriend (or a least someone who has romantic interest in me) a dinner. If it's my birthday, then it's her turn (cooking me dinner or taking me out).
Before there is a relationship, I would appreciate the girl more if she would offer to pay half (or at least chip in). I think her effort (offering) means more than the money she actually puts in. If I know she's not making a whole lot of money, then I would offer to pay this time and ask her to cook me dinner (or make it together) next time, which would be much cheaper, and we would likely end the date in either my or her places (hehe...).
Besides, I never have to pay for dates to let the girl feel attracted to me. Money is not the thing that can only be provided by me, my personality is.
Carrie, this is not meant to criticize you. I don't know anything about you and your fianc. I am just expressing my opinions on the topic you brought up. You two seem to be happy about the way things are. Best wishes to you two.
(reposting)
Loving Tenor LovingTenor@bigfoot.com
Tuesday, April 30, 2002 at 20:27:57 (PDT)
Hey people,
I think what we all need is a genuine LOVE for other beings, either an AF who you think doesnāt look as good as you are or a WF who you think doesnāt have a clear head on her shoulder like you do. We all have differences among us. Itās not a crime to be born without a pretty face (or blonde hair) or to be educated in a way they have been.
A drop of honey can attract many bees, but a whole tank of vinegar wonāt. If you wish to just express your anger, you can use your harsh language all you want, but if you have the genuine LOVE for others and would like to show people how fortunate you are to be educated or how beautiful you are inside out, please use the best way you can to communicate to each other. Ignorance might have been someoneās own fault. It does not help them get over that by yelling at them.
If you donāt have any love for others and have a need to pick on the differences others might have to make you feel better about yourself, itās time to find some in your heart.
A final note, if some posts seem like somebody is faking them to stir up the hatred in your heart, donāt let them. Itās just exactly what they tried to do, and they succeed if you let them. After all, who knows who posted those posts.
Loving Tenor LovingTenor@bigfoot.com
Tuesday, April 30, 2002 at 20:18:15 (PDT)
What ever happened to romance? Talk about materialistic? What ever happened to those surprised romantic picnics that's supposed to impress the ladies? Now it's just money this? Money that? How about that one red or yellow rose you gave her and she knows exactly what you mean? Maybe that's just me? The hopeless romantic I am. Are there any other WF that share the samething? Or have most of you resorted to being gold diggers? (I know there are some WF on here that aren't like that) Because that's what it sounds like. Don't get me wrong, I spent my share of money on my past relationships but from what I'm hearing money is a very big issue with you ladies. If they didn't have the money would it be any different?
ABT (Hopless Romantic in Ct) pjchen28@hotmail.com
Tuesday, April 30, 2002 at 18:18:37 (PDT)
I will pay for a female. Not because I am some sucker, but because I am a gentleman. Not all men will do that. I have a cousin who wont do that for a woman. It isn't because the man is an AM. It really depends on the man. Its better not to generalize it and just assume; 'Oh hes an AM, so hes gonna automatically pay my way'
Not everyone is the same. Everyone is different.
Jon
Tuesday, April 30, 2002 at 18:07:42 (PDT)
Curious Girl,
Your post to Sexy was well put. That's fine if they want to live that way but that's not for me. There has to be more to the relationship than being spoiled by me.
Mile High Asian Guy
Tuesday, April 30, 2002 at 16:58:51 (PDT)
Carrie,
This post I did not write:
"Carrie I understand your relationship.
He pay.
You lay"
Monday, April 29, 2002 at 21:10:01(PDT)
Mile High Asian Guy
Tuesday, April 30, 2002 at 16:44:04 (PDT)
To all the white girls here:
Any suggestions to a well qualified single Asian guy to win the heart of a very attractive (both in and out) Caucasian girl on the first date? She has agreed to go out with me. Should I be a humble guy or should I be totally honest about my "qualities". I have always gone out with attractive females (1 Caucasian girlfriend in the past only and rest of them Asian) but none compares to this one's beauty both in and out. I am very nervous now because she told me that she is very very picky.
So am I actually.
Lover of Caucasian Women
Tuesday, April 30, 2002 at 16:41:41 (PDT)
Julie..
" and he paid for my surgery."...
Well as long as he was willing to pay for your lobotomy, I say you got yourself a keeper there, little lady!!
Poo
Tuesday, April 30, 2002 at 15:08:49 (PDT)
Did Trisha from Manhattan respond to any of you guys email? Weird...why would you post your email and not respond?
abc DUDE
Tuesday, April 30, 2002 at 14:35:16 (PDT)
prettybabe-
I highly doubt there is anyone on here that agrees with you. You sound like your very much in love with yourself.
and Julie-
You sound just as weakminded.
Both of you have no idea what your talking about. I cant imagine any guy wanting to be in a relationship with either one of you. Both of you are lacking. I would want to be in a relationship with an AM for more than how much money he can give me. And its hilarious that you think your so much more than you really are. I doubt if anyone at all really cares what you have to say. Noone is buying into it.
Cindy
Tuesday, April 30, 2002 at 13:56:15 (PDT)
I have a girlfriend who is really great. She is smart, cute and has a great personality. We were talking the other day, and she told me she is an atheist. She said she doesn't believe in god at all and that he doesn't exist. This was the first time she has ever told me this.
Now when we talk, it seems like we end up on that same subject all over again. And we get into these arguments.
Her parents are not atheist and raised her up in a christian home. She says its what she has decided to get into after college and hanging out with some group of other atheists.
Is anyone going through a conflict like this? I am a christian and believe in god. If I pray over something, she calls me Godboy. She says,"Oh here we go again its Godboy" Its like it kills her for me to even pray. I am not a religion fantatic. I just pray every now and then. Like with the 9/11 thing that happened, she said it was a waste of time to give a moment of silence. Is it me or is my girlfriend a little insensitive? Or am I being insensitive to her feelings. I am having trouble understanding why she doesn't believe in god at all. I wonder if maybe I am not considering her feelings on her beliefs. I don't really know. Does anyone know?
Arirang
Tuesday, April 30, 2002 at 11:27:40 (PDT)
Everyone...
Lets all ignore the dumb and airhead comments made by people like
prettybabe, cute n blond, and the infamous wf...
hmmm...
Wf, I hope your not the same self righteous Cow that wrote all of that racist stuff. Because that would mean that everything you are as a person spell BIGOT.
I am tired of some of the negative, shallow WF's on here. I am an intelligent, educated WF. There are plenty of others on here as well. Why don't we as intelligent WFs' and AM, not even respond to the ignorant things that some of these women are posting. Why not just ignore them until they disappear completely. I think it would do all of us a favor. I hope. If there are people on here posting just to cause tension, their little game wouldn't work if we ignore their asses! They don't deserve a single response.
So. Who loves Asian men? I do I do I do!!!
>:) its me...again and again and again
Tuesday, April 30, 2002 at 09:45:29 (PDT)
wf
no I am afraid not. I am definitely a white female. Perhaps you are a black female trying to point fingers at me. Do I sense a hint of jealousy? LOL
Pretty Babe wf
Tuesday, April 30, 2002 at 08:56:35 (PDT)
I think I need to get my Asian husband to read these posts...all these Asian men spoiling their women , spending all this money on them...what were his words to me this morning? " Honey, give me back the credit card..." !!!!SIGH..
I do have to wonder one thing, in all seriousness - and maybe it's a generational issue, that's possible - but some of my WF "sisters" on here with their snotty attitudes about AF's and their uncontrollable egos....how come I just don't see eye-to-eye with your views, yet I am actually MARRIED to an Asian man, not merely dating ? I have his child...I am now part of his family. It seems to me if you speak to ( and about ) the AFs who have successfully become married to AMs , you will find they did not harbor the attitudes of girls like Prettybabe.
So take it from one who got the full fledged committment from her AM, Prettybabe, - racism won't fly, especially with a self respecting AM, and I don't encourage the adoption of that attitude for WF. It just shouts out not only borderline racism , it also shouts out low self esteem.
Remember - those who can, do..
Show me the wedding license Prettybabe, and I will believe your claim of his devotion to you. Until then, I don't accept anything you say as more than fluff...
Happy Clam I am , I am ...
Tuesday, April 30, 2002 at 07:17:09 (PDT)
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