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ASIAN MALE/ WHITE FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
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Pretty Babe,
It is tough, but try (constant effort) to maintain your good qualities despite what people say or think about you. I am guessing you are younger b/c you are not afraid (like most adults are) to admit that other people's words and thoughts affect you. Remember that a lot of minority/asian women are hurt when they see you because they want to BE YOU. You are the girl they have seen in magazines since day one and you are closer to the "ideal beauty" then they will ever be. If you really care about people, know that often times their hatred of you really stems from insecurity within themselves. Imagine what is like to be an "unattractive" girl. Develop compassion for them, you will value this ability far more than your looks.
Observer
Saturday, May 04, 2002 at 08:51:51 (PDT)
Trish from Manhattan:
How old are you? 12? I'm glad you didn't respond to my email, why would I want to settle with such an immature and unstable person like you? You sound sooooo insecure. Damn it, you're giving all the white females a bad image here.
By the way, you should work on your grammar more, go back to school or something. And I'm abcDUDE not abcGUY, how dare you!
abcDUDE
Saturday, May 04, 2002 at 07:27:16 (PDT)
Gina G, Curious Girl - Thanks for your remarks. Just finding it very hard to meet WFs here in Ct.
Cindy - You couldn't have said it any better. That's exactly the type of female I'm looking for.
ABT (Hopeless Romantic in Ct) pjchen28@hotmail.com
Friday, May 03, 2002 at 19:35:37 (PDT)
Kudos to Just An AM!
Megan
Friday, May 03, 2002 at 18:18:37 (PDT)
Boo hoo alot of women are jealous of PrettyBabe. Wow. She has so many problems in her life.
South Girl
Friday, May 03, 2002 at 18:16:05 (PDT)
Trisha I think Smurfs are cute.
AM
Friday, May 03, 2002 at 18:14:19 (PDT)
Pretty Babe
You should of given him food instead of money. although one time I offer this homeless guy a sandwich and he gasped and asked for money.
Why do you suspect all these women are so jealous of you? Are you that beautiful?
Can you spare a $5 dollars?
Friday, May 03, 2002 at 17:09:37 (PDT)
Loving Tenor,
You sound really cute and you're probably really sweet, but I have to say most women probably wouldn't want to have to pay for their own date. I understand your reasoning behind not paying for all the dates. Grad school is expensive when it has to come out of your own pocket. Do what ever you have to do to get through it, but don't assume most women want to split things 50/50. If a woman liked a guy who was broke all the time, I think she would rather do things with him that didn't require money then having to pay for her own date. I know I would. Most women--I think--would be understanding to your situation. I'm not against paying for my date at times either. And too, as the realationship develops, I've found myself spending as much on "us" as he spends on "us." I know it sounds sexist, especially in this day and age, but most women do want to be made to feel special. Unfortunatly, paying your own way through a date will not make you (the woman) feel special. Like I said, I understand the financial burden you are under at the present time, but just don't assume "most" women won't mind. I think they would.
Hugs and Kisses
Friday, May 03, 2002 at 08:11:05 (PDT)
Trisha...it's SNERT
A SMERF is a little blue cartoon character.
Maybe you ARE a Smerf though, so I won't push the issue.
Poo
Friday, May 03, 2002 at 07:23:41 (PDT)
I think everyone must have misunderstood me. I was not putting down AW. I am sorry, I didn't mean it like that. It just makes me so frustrated when they stare and say things I can't understand to each other. I don't know if they were staring because we are an interracial couple. Or if its because they are just jealous. I assumed they were jealous because alot of women are really jealous of me. Not just AW but lots of women period. People just see whats on the outside and not whats on the inside. They assume I am a bad person but I am not. I care about things and I care about people. The other day a homeless person passed me and asked me for some money,and I gave him $5.00. If I wasn't a caring person, I could have just kept walking by.
PrettyBabe
Friday, May 03, 2002 at 05:35:32 (PDT)
know what, guys,
The first thing that y'all can do to improve your chances with WF or any female for that matter is to get your asses to the gym and pump some iron. By developing a great bod, you will overcome the stereotype that AM are a bunch of skiny, wimpy, sexless geeks.
Sadly, in the real world, physical appearance is a huge factor in making that favorable first impression.
The second thing is to simply go up to the one that you find attractive and say the magic word "hi". If you are making a favorable first impression (see above) on the object of your desire, she will reciprocate to your advance. Just saying that magic word will open up more doors that you will ever imagine posible (ladies, please confirm this).
Don't pay attentions to stupid advices on how to behave around women. Just be yourselves, be sincere, go with the flow, and, most important, pay attention to her.
Good luck, dudes.
just an AM
Thursday, May 02, 2002 at 14:14:12 (PDT)
Yea well Poo,LXiangstyle,Abc guy
and all of you other men that called me a smerf! Stop making fun of me.
Well you guys are the smerfs!
So I changed my mind, big freaking deal.
A girl can change her mind any time she wants to. I can get back together with my boyfriend if I want to. It was mine and his decision. If you men don't like it then so what. And I am Not a smerf thankyou. And I did email someone on here to explain my situation to him, and I guess he just got mad or something. I hadn't checked my email in a really long time and I tried to explain that too. I had been working really long hours. He was a big baby about the whole thing. If he emails me again I am ignoring him.
My boyfriend and I are back together now anyway. So there!You Smerfs!!!
:P
Trisha from Manhattan
Thursday, May 02, 2002 at 13:32:31 (PDT)
AZN Realist,
LOL. ãThe Joy Luck Clubä? Letâs not go there. How many Asian men have you seen in your whole life do that to their wives? None. Zero. Nada. I believe most if not every Asian men join their financial resources with their wivesâ when they got married (if not hand everything to her, lol). Get your head out of the MEDIA!!
Before a relationship is formed........
Read the posts from WFs who have clear heads on their shoulder. Women nowadays want to be independent and respected. They want you to know that they are not going out with you for your money. My dates usually reach her wallet the same time I reach mine. I am in graduate school and only make very little money. They know that too. I would be totally broke and in serious debt if I buy dinner every time. After I start my new job at the end of May, I will probably make more money than most of my dates then it will be a different story. I will still appreciate and respect her more if she offers to split the bill. Most likely I wonât let her if sheâs not that established financially yet. Thatâs the same way I would treat my friends too. Actually, donât go on dates. Just get together for coffee, tea, lunch, etc. It takes the pressure off both of you, and you will be more relaxed.
Buying dinner is not the best way to impress a lady. Itâs a wishful thinking. And why do I need to impress the lady? Maybe I will let her buy me dinner to impress me.
Loving Tenor
Thursday, May 02, 2002 at 13:12:27 (PDT)
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