Asian Male/White Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN MALE/ WHITE FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to White females?
Their facial features | 62%
Their physique | 23%
Their attitude and personality | 12%
Their education & cultural values | 3%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with White females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 12%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 72%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 16%

Assuming you are a White female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 74%
Their physique | 7%
Their attitude and personality | 14%
Their education & cultural values | 5%

Assuming you are a White female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 8%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 72%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 19%

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To Mean abc DUDE:
No I am NOT 12. I am 19. My birthday was last month. I graduated from high school early. I am in college, and currently working through my internship/and working another parttime job. I am a very hard worker.

("Your giving all the white females a bad image here")-
What does that have to do with my personal choices? Just because I am a WF, I don't represent every other WF on here? I am an individual person.
Why are you being so cruel? You are being really mean to me- but I don't think that you are making all the AM look bad. It would be wrong for me to say things like that. I just don't think in that sort of way about people.
I am sorry for calling you a big baby. That was wrong of me, I admit it. I had no right to call you names. I just don't understand why you got so mad at me, when I emailed you and explained. I am sorry for misspelling your SN. And I am sorry for misspelling that 'snert' word. I was so upset when I saw it, I wasn't really paying attention. I am really sorry once again. I don't like upsetting and hurting people. I am not that type of person. I don't think I will be coming on here anymore. Some of the messages of some people have been warm and inspiring. On the other hand-Most of the others have been designed to specifically hurt people and make them feel bad.
I don't like to argue and have enemies and to make people feel bad about themselves.
I am sorry once again if I have upset you in any way. I really didn't mean to do that.
Take care,
bye

Poo-
You just like to post nasty messages. You get some kind of sick thrill from saying the meanest things you can think of to hurt other people. It must make you proud.

(PS...)
I have seen that some people have had a bad habit of stealing other peoples sn. If my name shows up posted, it will definitely not be from me
Because I will NOT be posting anymore messages on here ever again.
Trish Sunday, May 05, 2002 at 23:35:05 (PDT)

Gina G,

I am very picky too ( I am a well qualified bachelor). But I am always a gentleman and usually assume the "pursuing" role for only the attractive and educated females. My last caucasian girlfriend was attractive but she was too "easy" to get. So the excitement was not there.
I did go out with this beautiful WF on the weekend and spent several hours together. She has the most beautiful big brown eyes and a perfect body (ideal body weight and curvy). We got along quite well. We haven't talked about second dates however. One thing about Caucasian women is that they are not pretentious in general and very honest. I really enjoy that and also the challenge of pursuing "picky" ones.
Asian Lover of Caucasian Woman Sunday, May 05, 2002 at 21:02:36 (PDT)

hi guys,

I think it's reasonable to doubt the existence of ćTrishaä , but why would any man feel upset at all if ONE girl didn't return your email? Itās just one girl. You give her the power to run your emotions and she will run your life for you. You are the man, you lead and she paces. If she doesnāt, somebody else will. Itās her who misses the opportunity to be with the wonderful you and to experience all the amazing feeling she will never have elsewhere with anybody else, why would you feel upset at all?

And Trish, I am sure it feels awful to be called names. I am also sorry about the person who got mad at you. It doesnāt feel good, doesnāt it? I donāt think those guys who emailed you feel great to be ignored and name-called either. If you donāt wanna be called names, donāt call names (same to everyone). You have your reasons, just spells them out. If he takes it, he takes it. If he doesnāt, he doesnāt. Just say ćBye, have a good life!ä You give anyone the power to run your emotions and s/he will run your life for you.

Well, shake hands and make up··. ok?

Loving Tenor Sunday, May 05, 2002 at 17:04:41 (PDT)

Hugs and Kisses· for me?

Awww, to what do I owe this honor? And, I sound really cute and sweet? Is this one of those signals? cause I am really bad at picking them up (according to one of my female friends). Actually, I did pick those up. I just donāt know how to read them··. Most of the time, I just think that they are friendly. If you must know, I am new to the dating scene after a very LONG term relationship. advises please, everyone?

I really appreciate your great advises, Hugs and Kisses. I think they are true and women have been programmed to feel special when men treat them dinner. I guess I am having difficult time telling whether itās a DATE or not since I get together with girls for dinner quite often (one on one). They canāt possibly all be dates. I would pay for dinner for girls having romantic interests on me, and I would suggest she make dinner for me next time. Platonic gathering would make more sense to split 50/50. Since I canāt be sure on what kind of interest she has on me, I usually just let her share the cost if she reached her wallet the same time I did (not always 50/50 though cause I usually pay for tax and tips). If she happens to be short on cash, I would suggest we take turns. Of course itās easy to tell later on if she has romantic interest on me, but the first time would be hard. There is one time that I heard one girl saying that she doesnāt have to spend much money on food cause she goes on dates (free dinners) a lot. That really hit me hard.

Question for everyone: If I ask a girl to get together for dinner, how do I know itās a date or not? How would a man know that she is not only out for a free dinner?

I think coffee and lunch are much better since itās very much a platonic ćget togetherä. You can get to do know each other the same way a dinner date does. Lower pressure, lower budget. You can end it in 20 min if you two just donāt click. I think your advises on do it the cheap way sounds just right for men who has not much money to spend on dinner dates. Actually, I just set up a date with a Siberian babe for dinner tomorrow. This one I am pretty sure that itās a date and I offered to treat her since I got a new job starting at end of May. Sheās an even poorer graduate student than me.

I understand that most, actually every, women want to feel special and pampered. I donāt have much $ to offer, but I have ćmeä. I would bring her little things (that SHE LIKES) to her before I pick her up to dinner, not usually a flower cause itās too general and a little bit too heavy on the first date. I would take the key and open the car door for her and help her getting into the car even sheās the driver. I would walk on the outside of the walkway. If a car jumps the curb, I would be the dummy and she can get away. I would take her coat when we walk in the restaurant and help her putting it on later. I would help her with the chair when we seat. And other millions things I can do for a girl to make her feels special. Just image she can walk into a room full of warm candlelight and soothing aroma in the air, taking a sip of the ice-cold champagne and then slipping into the lurk warm aromatic soapy hot water with bubbles, and feeling every inch of her skin revived, every cells in her body just come alive with all the senses screaming wildly at late night hours in a misty room.......... Of course, a hot-oil back rub with relaxing music would be great too........

And, guys, donāt ever forget the ultimate tools god gave us men to win the heart of women, mouth and tongue. Uhhhh, not that··.. (if you are thinking of sex, well, although it wouldnāt be wrong either, lol).
ćThat man that hath a tongue, I say, is no man, if with his tongue he cannot win a woman.ä--- William Shakespeare.
I am talking about the proper way to talk to a woman so she can feel emotionally connected to you. Well, itās a whole new topic, and trust me, there is a lot to learn because men and women think and talk so differently. Anyway, also learn to sing a few love songs even you donāt have the voice you would like to have. You can do an easy one. Itās the effort that counts. It would worth all your hard work when you see her melt right there when you sing to her.

Oops, I guess I have enough of my share here today. See ya next time.

BTW, Hugs and Kisses, I am at least up for making friends if nothing more. You know what to do. I am moving to Philly at the end of May if that matters to you at all. And I donāt have racial preferences when it comes to either platonic or romantic relationships.

Loving Tenor LovingTenor@bigfoot.com Sunday, May 05, 2002 at 15:53:28 (PDT)

I have noticed that the people who use screen names like Whatta Babe, Im So Cute, Beautiful Angel and Hunk O Rama - all tend to be far far from that. Almost stellar opposite. I say this after meeting people from chat rooms with names like Azn QT Pie ( gag ) and Chinadoll 4 U ( bleech). Its a funny little thing, but those who really are all that don't usually have to try to tell you so in their names. Can you say " fantasyland" ...? I knew that you could!
Poo - I am just the opposite of Poo you bet Sunday, May 05, 2002 at 15:13:36 (PDT)

to the do-good-ers out there: DO NOT, repeat, DO NOT hand out money to panhandlers. you'd be doing much more good by writing a check to a homeless shelter or children's fund than throwing money on people who might go buy beer or drugs. giving to a soup kitchen will at least ensure your money is going to where it's needed. i donate money as much as the next unmarried idiot, but only to legitimate organizations like the UNICEF or my time to the local soup kitchens.
villageidiot Sunday, May 05, 2002 at 12:12:41 (PDT)

"I think Smurfs are cute"

that's got tons of hidden meanings about somebody's sexuality, especially considering that there's only 1 female smurf and she wasn't even created by evolution, but lab made. so anything you want to confess about what you have in your closet? :D
villageidiot Sunday, May 05, 2002 at 12:06:12 (PDT)

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