Asian Male/White Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN MALE/ WHITE FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to White females?
Their facial features | 62%
Their physique | 23%
Their attitude and personality | 12%
Their education & cultural values | 3%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with White females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 12%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 72%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 16%

Assuming you are a White female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 74%
Their physique | 7%
Their attitude and personality | 14%
Their education & cultural values | 5%

Assuming you are a White female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 8%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 72%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 19%

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I personally agree with [wfemale marine] and [??????????]...We should end the arguements and start encouraging other WFs and other AMs to enjoy each others' good company.
six_leader six_leader@yahoo.com Tuesday, May 21, 2002 at 00:00:27 (PDT)

wfemale marine, ???????????????

I'm very much interested in an interracial relationship but was never given a chance. Would love to do more talking and less arguing. Would love to answer any questions you may have.
ABT pjchen28@hotmail.com Monday, May 20, 2002 at 21:07:10 (PDT)

wfemale marine,

"Are there any intelligent, decent AM on this poll? Are there any open minded and sincere, genuine AM interested in WW?"

There are actually several intelligent, open minded, sincere, genuine AM that post here. We just choose our times to post. We don't involve ourselves in the senseless banter that sometimes goes on here. They are not worth the response and it just adds fuel to the fire. I have been watching this site for a long time now and it always seems that the quality of the subject matter comes and goes. There have definitely been some very good and intelligent coments that have been posted here. Keep stopping by, it'll change. The only thing that is frustrating are the people who post as someone else to cause problems. So if you continue to post, be prepared to be a victim of an "imposter". It usually takes a couple of postings to clear things up.

Mile High Asian Guy Monday, May 20, 2002 at 16:45:43 (PDT)

Most of the woman that I have dated in the past were white. I don't know what it is, but I can't say no to long beautiful blond hair, real or not. Things usually do not work out, but who cares. I was raised to respect woman, and most of the woman that I've dated prreceive me as a Bad Boy type, and I'm really not. But I do find white woman very attractive and just white woman, but I do love that long blond hair.
bigsquill Monday, May 20, 2002 at 12:47:27 (PDT)

Everyone.
Its better not to get so caught up in the bickering. Why not air our thoughts and feelings in a more favorable light. We all have this in common. Something drew each and every one of us to this site. Something made us want to come here and say things. Why do they have to all be so negative? When obviously there is some sort of interest there. We all have curiousities and interests in these interracial unions as AM and WFs. So why not voice positive feelings on them. Share our good experiences and take from them. Its much better than chopping each other down, and complaining back and forth to each other. We are all adults here. Why not make this a positive adult place. With clear thinking, free of all the negativity and darkness.
(((((((((((((((((lady aurora borealis))))))))))))))))))))))))) Monday, May 20, 2002 at 12:33:06 (PDT)

???? and wfemale marine,

I am a WF dating an AM, and I am curious to learn about other experiences, both from the WF viewpoint and the AM viewpoint. My question is this, I have this vague fear in the back of my head that one day my AM boyfriend will decide that I was just someone to date, and that he really needs to marry an "asian soulmate" that would understand him in a way that I couldn't. Has anyone else experienced this fear? Also what do each other's families think of your inter-racial relationships? Is it hard for your cultures to mesh? CURIOUS!!!
curious girl Monday, May 20, 2002 at 11:33:17 (PDT)

To ??? and wfemalewmarine~
It has been my experience from this and other pmessage boards( on various topics ) that " flaming" , or posting remarks and comments with no purpose other than to enflame the reader, is a COMMON practice. It is not indicative of the group of people or the individual being discussed. For example, I have been on message boards for celebrities that are so full of vile and nasty comments - but I don't allow that to taint my view of the celebrity.'
I may be one of the older ones on here - at 38 lol - and am married to an AM with whom I have a 4 year old child. So I too, would like some more earnest and intellectual chatting than what I find on here. It is often a disappointment to me, but you may find you can connect up with someone to email with ! ( A thousand apologies to those who have emailed me whom I have yet to write back!! ).
At any rate, knowing more than a handful of Asian men by now, I must make two brief points, that will seem almost contradictory. The first is to reiterate what I said earlier - this board does not necessarily reflect accurately ( good or bad) your " run of the mill" AM or WF. My husband does not post here, so the whole set of views and intelligence he would bring to this forum aren't represented. Theres not a lot of balance when you consider how many people DON'T post as opposed to how many DO. So remember that its a very small amount of people posting - people like myself who perhaps have a tendency to babble...lol - and do not make anyone on here a representation for the race or sex they represent - myself included.
But does that mean you won't find this type of attitude in the " real world"? Of course not - people are varied and distinct, and some of the same attitudes you see in here are out there as well. So I am by no means suggesting any group is immune from speaking disresptfully or childishly . I am merely saying take each person in here as an individual and don't hold all Wf's or all AM's accountable to those remarks or attitdes!

Happy Clam wschien1@mchsi.com Monday, May 20, 2002 at 11:29:23 (PDT)

I have a WF friend who's interest in me, but I thinks one of her best friend doesn't approve. I am a lovable person in general, but her friend hasn't been giving me the chance to get to know me yet and we don't see each other often. I think I wasn't prepared for this when I first met her friend. I found that some women tend to do that. I meant bringing her friends to check you out in a coffee/lunch date, LOL. I did well with the other best friend of hers, but not the second one. Has anyone had a similar situation before? How did you resolve it? Thanks in advance.

Loving Tenor Monday, May 20, 2002 at 11:14:03 (PDT)

?????????????,

I am sorry to hear that. This forum did have some good discussion before and I learned a lot from them. Be friends with some Asian friends (male and females). See it for yourself. Don't let a few AMs (that's if they are really AMs, and of course that includes me too) from a internet forum represent the whole AM population.

Loving Tenor Monday, May 20, 2002 at 11:00:40 (PDT)

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