Asian Male/White Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN MALE/ WHITE FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to White females?
Their facial features | 61%
Their physique | 22%
Their attitude and personality | 14%
Their education & cultural values | 3%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with White females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 11%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 74%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 15%

Assuming you are a White female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 73%
Their physique | 6%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 6%

Assuming you are a White female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 73%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 17%

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curious girl and "THE REAL" cindy (I know this because she has been my email buddy for quite a while now!!!):

You shouldn't really worry about it. Something about you is different, and exotic to your boyfriend. That is what attracted him to you in the first place. The fact that you are different and special. If he really loves you then hes not going to just change his mind and give you up. You know the saying, opposites attract right? Well its true. Have faith in what you two have. Oh boy! Maybe I should heed my own advice for a change huh? LOL!!! For those of you who know me. Then you know my situation with Yoshi! Guess I can be a bit hypocritical at times. Hey, nobody's perfect!

Gina G. Friday, May 24, 2002 at 09:01:56 (PDT)

fake cindy;

Its awfully strange one minute you are saying one thing then the next ...
you are saying something else. You sound like another name stealer to me.
Why don't you stop it. Contribute to something positive on white female and asian male discussions. Instead of stealing names to make your rude comments.
Gina G. Friday, May 24, 2002 at 08:46:31 (PDT)

A "PLAYER"? Never been one, won't be one, and that's all this forum need to hear.

Loving Tenor Friday, May 24, 2002 at 08:18:08 (PDT)

It never bothered me before to see asian males with white females, in fact i don't think i would've noticed them. But my husband changed all that for me. You see, he was born in Vietnam but moved to the United states when he was one. He grew up in a predominantly white society and dated only white girls before he met me. In fact, the girl before me had a child with him who is now 5 years old.
It bothers me to know that all his ex's were white. It makes me think that whenever there is a pretty white female around that he is looking at her and alot of times i even get mad at him. I have never experienced this with any of my ex's cause they only liked asian girls.
So shamefully i have to say that when i see asian men with white women, I don't like it very much. But hey, it's not up to me to decide if they could be together, it's their life and their happiness.
I know it's cause it just reminds me of how my husband must of been like.
Sorry, i don't mean to sound rude. But that is how i feel.
DimSumGirl Friday, May 24, 2002 at 02:31:46 (PDT)

you call yourself Cindy,

So. Why don't you move on and steal someone elses SN for a while. By the way, doesn't this same little game you play get boring after a while? It seems you are going in circles. You steal one then another. Geeze! Don't you ever get tired of it? Next time, at least try saying something productive about WF and AM relationships for a change. What are you, my evil twin? Use your own name the next time, why don't ya.
Cindy Friday, May 24, 2002 at 01:24:28 (PDT)

Loving Tenor:

Well.. I don't have the final ingredient for you.. I'm sorry.. I'm not a complete success with caucasian women..

I read about russian fiancees and eastern european girls on this site and I think back to my own crap with some Polish girl.. Basically, I got shafted because of my skin color... It won't encourage any of you to read this, but all of the loves I've ever had have shafted me partly because of.. well, you can finish it off there... Only one has ever shown acceptance to me, and that possibility went nowhere..........
Alright, you're thinking oh he's probably ugly and fat... Well, no I'm handsome and physically built.

Confidence problem? No i've got plenty of confidence... But I know what reality is all about. Basically I've experienced the worst combinations of everything about falling in love with some white girl and getting shafted for all the worst reasons. And all the asian girls ignore me too for whatever reason they have.....Final ingredient? Well my final ingredient is that I've stopped fearing and doubting myself. Thats all. I got sick of it. You can doubt all you want, but man I just got tired of doing that to myself....... Consequently, I know I have some emotionally scars from all my issues, and sadly I'm still waiting to meet the right girl........

Ahahahah.. I tell you, most young women are artifial and fake. All the great ones are snatched up already. And they all say want such and such a man, but don't really mean it..

Then again for those of you reading this, you must realize that I have quite possibly the worst track record ever.. Probably the unluckiest of the unluckiest.. So for those of you who've struck gold way before me, I salute you and offer my cheers....

I also know I must have offended quite a few women with this post..
CBC in Montreal samueltam@hotmail.com Thursday, May 23, 2002 at 22:10:18 (PDT)

I'm jus curious, but how old are the people who post here and location?
Nick Thursday, May 23, 2002 at 17:06:23 (PDT)

"Do you personally have any interracial experiences? Why don't you tell us about that?"

alright, so i might be a narcissist for posting this again, but hey at least i'm a good looking one! B^)

http://goldsea.com/Poll/AMCF/amcf_20314.html

this is why i say they should go back in the archives and understand before they make judgements about this or that.
villageidiot Thursday, May 23, 2002 at 14:32:10 (PDT)

"No wonder you are here all the time saying mean things to people"

actually, i'm on summer break, the first such since i started undergrad school. i'm just jerking around untill i've got to go study big time for the grad-school qualifiers and have to move to CALI! i'm finally going to move where i'm supposed to be living. i'm from "THE SOUTH" and starting to say "y'all" and "younins'" and "i'm fixin' to.."

what are the slangs in CALI? somebody told me that nobody from CALI actually says "CALI?"
villageidiot Thursday, May 23, 2002 at 13:58:41 (PDT)

"any woman wouldn't want to be seen in the company of the village idiot"

correction! "any PERSON wouldn't want...the villageidiot!"

and to my knowledge i don't have any friends in my schizo persona as the villageidiot...

"Do you? Do you enjoy the childish fights? Or do you feel its a big silly waste?"

you ought to come to the "gender divide" board... actually i like to discuss the unspoken things that people are either too scared or caught up in that PC BS to discuss. actually i'm looking for somebody who can hold their own in a debate/conversation about "BIG" issues and not the trivial little things like...

"What about the AM thinking the same. We are afraid you might leave us for some WM"

i actually learned this the hard way from a girl, if it's meant to be, then it's going to happen and nothing you do can change the outcome. heck, everybody's insecure about the future but that's why you've got to live in the present. as capt. jean-luc picard of the starship enterprise NCC1701D once said: live in the now, now is the most precious because now will never come again. *sniff*

"Do you personally have any interracial experiences? Why don't you tell us about that? Is it a positive one?...How do you personally feel about interracial relationships with WFs'?
Do tell."

i thought nobody would ever ask. i'm all for mixing it up, didn't i mention i love gumbo? :D as for personal relationships, i was involved in several but was too dumb or too stupid, in fact that's why i said those two who came to complain should read the archives, i already gave my dating bio awhile back and don't want to reiterate them again... the only thing i'm knocking my head against the wall is that i'm too shy (chicken) to start anything unless i've known them for awhile. i really don't see the need to "date" when i figure i'm only interested in the girls who have similar interests as me and i'd get to see more than a secretive glance walking to classes. at the risk of sounding like an jerk, i do get "the look"/stares/smiles from girls almost daily, but i'm still too chicken to hit them up...

"You seem to be educated"

one can always be an educated idiot! ;)
villageidiot Thursday, May 23, 2002 at 13:50:50 (PDT)

Hey Friendly Neighborhood AM Soulmate, thanks for your post, you're right, I can be self-absorbed (can't we all?) and I wasn't even thinking about it from his perspective. I have never given my b/f any indication whatsoever that I want to marry a white man, or that a white man would understand me better. I've told him that I'm happy with our relationship and we're just seeing how things progress. I am 1000% faithful to him as he is to me. I often tell him that he treats me like a princess, how caring he is, I hope he doesn't worry the way that I do. Have you dated white women? Have those thoughts gone through your mind?
curious girl Thursday, May 23, 2002 at 11:53:55 (PDT)

the person who is at the stealing SNs' again:

Why don't you try using your own name to post under. It sounds pretty cowardly to use other peoples. You are obviously doing it to make people get all confused and start arguing again. That is so ignorant. Why don't you cut it out. You are probably the same person that has been using other peoples, and now your trying this thing with me. I am guessing your a guy doing this. That is really low. And if you really are a WF. Stop making yourself look so bad. Its making you look like a troublemaker against WF and AM relationships. Isn't this the image you are trying to project? Because that is what it looks like to me.
Cindy Thursday, May 23, 2002 at 10:51:14 (PDT)

My Response To the little thief on:Thursday,May23,2002at9:42:55

"Villageidiot you are rude and mean. No wonder you are here all the time saying mean things to people. Anyone wouldn't want to be seen in the company of the villageidiot"

TRY USING YOUR OWN SN NEXT TIME. OKAY?
What is your purpose for using mine? To start more arguments between people on here?
That is really immature. You really need to grow up.
I don't think that villageidiot is rude and mean. I think he is expressing his own views. I don't even know this guy. So why would I say that stuff about him?
You actually sound pretty mean. Someone who STEALS Others SN'S and badmouthing people-
well, it sounds like some pretty low things to do.
Cindy Thursday, May 23, 2002 at 10:46:47 (PDT)

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