Asian Male/White Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN MALE/ WHITE FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to White females?
Their facial features | 61%
Their physique | 22%
Their attitude and personality | 14%
Their education & cultural values | 3%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with White females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 11%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 74%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 15%

Assuming you are a White female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 73%
Their physique | 6%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 6%

Assuming you are a White female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 73%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 17%

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Dim Sum Girl:

I really do agree with "My feelings". You really don't have a right to come on this poll. I have seen that you go to all the polls with your negative outlooks. Because you are too insecure about other women with Asian Men. You need to relax and be happy with the man your with. If not, then stop your bitching. I am sick of it. So you aren't so happy or secure. That has nothing to do with anyone but yourself. You need to deal with your emotions and work on your relationship. Or get counseling or something. Your making it seem like Asian females are insecure and jealous of non-asian females. Its disgraceful. You are making yourself look like a pity case. Go somewhere else. Please. I don't want to hear anymore of your story. You post basically the same things over and over. Grow up. Take control of your life. Go somewhere else. I am on this forum to hear about White females, Not a disgruntled Asian female who is negative towards AM/WF. Don't get me wrong. I love my Asian females too. I still find them beutiful. But I came to this site to hear about White females.
L.Xiangstyle Tuesday, May 28, 2002 at 04:52:14 (PDT)

Hey My Feelings,
I didn't think that anything i wrote on the post on this board was to offend or to make anyone feel insulted. This board is about asian males and white females and yes i'm neither. But as you can clearly see above the comment box, it says "Your comments on this topic". Just because i'm not an AM or WF, doesn't mean i'm not entitled to post my feelings on this topic.
I also didn't bash WFs, I only said that it bothers me to see AMs and WFs together because my husband's ex's were mostly white. It's just like when AMs are with WFs and the WF stares at me, giving me dirty looks as if i want their man. Just because they feel like i'm a threat to them cause i'm asian doesn't mean i deserve dirty looks or I want their man.
You see, all females have a certain something that bugs them. Don't get offended just cause an asian female posts on this board. Nobody told you that you shouldn't be in this website cause it's titled asian americans and you're definitely not asian. So please don't start shooing people from places you think they don't belong.
Dim Sum Girl Tuesday, May 28, 2002 at 02:09:33 (PDT)

[We were ambivalent about allowing in your initial post but felt it contributed a new perspective. However, this page is generally reserved for discussions between AM & WF. --Ed]

Hi guys, in the latest FHM magazine they had an article on a contest to pick the "perfect" body parts. The judges were four beautiful women (white). Guess what, the asian guy won best "face" and "hands" :) They said he had kissable lips and excellent bone structure. Thought that was interesting.
Gordian99 Monday, May 27, 2002 at 23:14:45 (PDT)

in response to Curious Girls's comment on Friday May 24,2002 at 11:14:30(PDT):

I understand how you feel Curious Girl. I know. It can be so frustrating at times, hearing negative things about us being with AM. I have heard this same thing too from some AFs. Not from many, but it has been a few I have heard say:"how can you understand an AM as much as we do. We know them alot better" that sort of thing. Well, I don't believe that is always true. And I also don't believe all AFs' think this way either. But I do think it isn't true. A woman is a woman. And a man is a man. We and along with all other women have in common, our genders. We can be with an AM and have a really wonderful relationship with him. What makes it even more beautiful, is our differences and learning about them from each other. Its a part of what makes it so special. I don't want that stuff to discourage you. Because it really shouldn't. Keep your chin up :)
Smile. It gonna be okay.
Gina G. Monday, May 27, 2002 at 22:20:56 (PDT)

AzN-aKiRa NYC:

"Everything just added up where she & I got so insecure that we had to break up. My Point is... I've lost a great women because we let racist outsiders get to us. .. so for those that are in IR's like Curious-Girl, if you love yo man or women.."

Were your families supportive?
Sociologist Monday, May 27, 2002 at 11:48:32 (PDT)

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